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Being mature is boon or curse ?

**Maybe age doesn’t make you old… it just makes you allergic to unnecessary drama.** 😂 Gone are the days when partying, chasing people, and overthinking someone’s “last seen” felt exciting. Now? Give me a peaceful place, good food, a little travel, meaningful conversations, and my own company.… read more

dear my soulmate

You will alwys to see me as complicated, fierce ,whining, clingy, a little selfish. But you'll never see me cheating.

Many times, guys will try to talk to me in ways that I don't like. In "not appropriate ways" (if you know what I mean). I've been called a "prude" because I don't land in their bed. If I get married, my husband won't describe me as a prude. It's only for him, not for all these selfish guys.

YOUR NARC

Not a real man !!!!!! Selfish !!!!

What it Takes?

I can see the void. It's actually all that I can see. We wake up to it and hold ourselves enough to get to the next day, knowing we'd still be there, unfortunately. I spent all the energy my body can produce on doing things that distract me from being swallowed by it, but no matter how much we… read more

Word of G-d.

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, ” Philippians 2:3

I pulled the plug on my old job. It was time. ByeBye old job, the old psychward for crazy teens that I adored. I am onto new things, the trauma and memories you gave me like an old toxic ex is finally enough for me.

@Kostas please @anyone for me? Yes I'm being blantly selfish but I really need the attention rn 🥹🥹. This old ward, is where I constricted core part of my identity. Inner resilience, inner empathy and inner intelligence from inner stupidity. My standards on dating apps based on the amount of… (edited) read more

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Focus on your energy, not their opinions. Self-love isn’t selfish, growth isn’t a threat, and choosing yourself isn’t “self-centered.” Let the low-vibe chatter pass through — your path, your peace, your power 🧿✨

Recent development

I literally just moved yesterday and he said we can't see each other during the week and every other weekend because I'm an hr away instead of 25min. He says its too much wear and tear on his car the same way he says hes low on gas at half a tank in his full size suv.

Gone with the wind

I went with my wife to the anniversary edition at the theatre. Amazing movie, first time I ever saw it. The one thing I can't get over is how every character is so deplorable. Scarlett is selfish and manipulative, Rhett is conniving, Ashley strings along Scarlett through the whole movie, selfishly… read more

Is it possible to love somebody else, or do we only love ourselves?

Often when suffering a heartbreak and question why it hurts, I came across the answer that we miss and lament how somebody made us feel. So does that not mean that we only seek others out who can make us feel joy and loved ultimately make us selfish still, even with mutual benefits? Would you call… read more

Why is human sooo selfish

It's not about whole it's about some specific people they are the reason why I'm overthinking

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When The Mind calls the Heart to a meeting.

Mind: I want to discuss a matter that is of critical importance to you and me. It concerns our host. It has come to my attention that you exert a great amount of influence upon our host. And given that he is on his way to meet a beautiful creature, I think it is wise that we should have a… read more

Don't be selfish, hooman

I feel like when people die I get an assurance that they might never return, but people who are alive and have left you behind; it's more painful because they leave behind the slightest bit of hope of return that you wait for; maybe for life.

It's my own selfish view of life, what's even more sad is that I'm not sorry about it.

after making friends

Someone with continuous communication not one who leaves after 5 to 10 minutes messaging. Not into phone calls I stay clear of those. Just after making friends with similar interests. I know people aren't interested so I won't bother any more after this. Tried reaching out but most people aren't… read more

I live so self-sacrificingly, yet all anyone sees is the moment I'm being selfish 😔

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I honestly admire people who are selfish, people who have mastered the art of putting themselves first without feeling guilty. Sometimes I wish I could be less considerate too, and only think about myself. Because the truth is, when you sacrifice for others, you're the one left carrying the pain.… read more

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It's selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their present because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.

what agony!

I hate how on football game days some people have absolutely no empathy! neighbors are throwing firecrackers/fireworks because of the game (which hasn't even started yet) and shouting, without thinking about how DAMAGING this can be to others. It's incredibly terrible, selfish, and idiotic, you… read more

Gods beautiful creations

Im blessed I get these beautiful sunsets. Id be selfish not to share with everyone

Making treaty

Having agreement, serious one about treats and all expenses and in return i demand unlimited cuddles, I'm selfish one now😅

Human nature

“The veneer of civilization is very thin” -Margaret Thatcher Going by the Veneer Theory, “civilization, morality, and law are merely a thin, superficial layer masking an inherently selfish, violent, and savage human nature.” Yet, Steven Pinker (The Better Angels of Our Nature) tells us that we’ve… read more

if the friendship ended there's a new one to be made. people come and go

I'm selfish? I even let someone into my friendship and she pushed me out of the friendship I've built for years. And I still hope they're happy. It's okay, it's still cool to give in for the sake of others, Zaza (edited)

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Stop caring so much. People are selfish. They don't say things, they project who they are. Stop taking it personally. Be thick skinned. Let opinions pass. Let judgments pass. Just stay with you. Ask "who am I?". And live from there. That's your core. That's your operating system.

Seems selfish to not share these

Love Through Time

I cried today Thinking of the possibility That maybe the only way I reach you Is through history If soul mates are real And math is true What are the statistics That I ever really meet you? But then, What do I do? Do I scour textbooks Hoping to find some trace of you? Do I write my every… read more

Money Is Evil 🙈

As I was sitting down waiting for my bus this morning,as I had to go get a blood test done before i see the cardiologist. A mature older lady was telling me that money is evil because people are selfish I didn't really give her my opinion as I don't really agree with that statement. Money isnt evil… read more

Life's defiently not easy

when you feel deeply, but I much rather be this way than a cold heartless and selfish person

Selfish..

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Loving yourself is not selfish

Dating

Realizing that no lady is ever going to want me for me or except me for not having all these unrealistic high expectations and standards like a car or all this money to blow on her it’s just so unfair and not worth trying at all with people I see it to much in just friendship where people are so… read more

And for once, please live your life for yourself. Even if you think it's selfish.

--- Because I'll tell you it's not. It's not selfish at all.

Self care is not selfish..

People got some funny ideas about romance.

Someone just told me if I didn't choose to get a better job and make more money to pay for my significant others spending habits that I'm a selfish bastard. Period end of story. That's not romance. That's a spoiled brat. I believe in enabling my partner make their own money so they can afford… read more