Traits Community

What sort of woman a man wants as his life partner? Or the traits a man wants in his woman?👀

Comments box is for the guys only.. and for all the girlies out there ..drop the most cheesiest/sassy pick-up line or any incident,trait u really can't stand with in a man (edited)

Popular traits you don’t like

Is there a trait everyone uses to describe themselves or even looks for in a partner that you just don’t like? I find competitiveness creepy, especially in adults. In kids, I gently discourage it in favor of curiosity and cooperation, but in adults, it’s downright creepy. I know I’m not the only… read more

TRAITS

I love a good conversation, especially when I learn something new, laugh a little too much and suddenly find myself questioning why i am awake at 2 AM. 😭😂 A good mind and a good sense of humour? Yeah, I fear that’s my weakness. 🤭

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Today Affirmation: Live well, stay gorgeous, keep your mouth shut for unimportant things, close your ears to other people's bad judgments, and then cut them off. Live happily without talking about other people's bad traits. Live as happily as possible.

History/Origin of Boo App

1. It was founded by an Introvert who was fed up 🛑 Boo was founded in 2020 by Derek Lee and David Chang. Derek is a self-proclaimed tech introvert who grew up in Hawaii. He created the app because he was completely frustrated by how toxic, shallow, and exhausting modern dating apps had become. He… read more

Did you know?

If one of your personality traits includes fearing the unknown, then you may be at a higher risk for anxiety disorders. Individuals who spend more time worrying about what might happen will suffer from different social anxieties, panic disorders or phobias.

I would like to hear your opinions on this ..

Since I’m treating Boo as a forum, I’d like to hear some opinions on this: What do you think is the psychological explanation behind some victims adopting behaviors, traits, or even the personality of the person who hurt them? If someone has experienced firsthand how harmful and painful those… (edited) read more

How do you make connections?

The word relationship is a bit too much for me. I rather see people close to me as my connections and with each connection I have a certain version of me that I share based on the type of connection I have…. It’s sometimes fun to see two of my friends who haven’t met each other before argue about… read more

One of my most toxic traits: I despise being copied.. I value being unique, original, and throughout my life I've seen people trying to copy things I do or say. They're not even that big.. but it grinds my gears 🫢🫠

I know I should try get over that, I have tried...but it always happens.. even in simple things like QoTD.. every time I give an answer someone will almost always try and write the same thing.. (after reading what I have written. It is obvious because of how they phrase it, lay it out, etc). It's… (edited) read more

Wallpaper that inspires 🌟

Every characte rin one piece has their unique traits and qualities, but above all they teach me to never give up 🤍

The majority of answers to today's qotd are extremely worrying and very telling.

It's going to take a while for most to find something tangible, if they can't find self-love... and excusing certain behaviour is as toxic as it gets. Truly hope people are able to differentiate the negative traits and not try excuse them as if they were positive. There is nothing about being… read more

Romantic partners tend to resemble each other on a wide range of traits, a phenemenon known as assortative mating

Long Distance Relationship: for me🌍🌎🌏

For me, a long-distance relationship is not an obstacle at all; otherwise, I wouldn't be here. It’s because I want to explore the big wide world and make friends from all over the globe, and more importantly, I want to find my soulmate. I used to date someone who proved to me that long distance or… read more

What Shapes Attraction?

What physical traits do you usually find attractive, and what do you think influences that preference?

Game Idea I had...

Empires rise. Dynasties fall. The gods are watching. Enter the world of The Elder Scrolls as you've never experienced it before. For the first time, take control of a ruling dynasty and shape the history of Tamriel in a grand strategy game where every decision has consequences, every victory comes… read more

Without fail.

It seems to be the case that people who say in their bios that they dislike time wasters, emotionally immature people and insecurity usually are all of the above. Much like the ones who say "no drama!" Are the ones most likely to bring drama to the table. Please stop highlighting traits that you… read more

Does the author’s description of the MMC displaying OCD traits match with the criteria ?

I think what was described in this book was more aligned with fear of contamination associated with illness anxiety. Thoughts?

Traits of taking risk

Rakugo 🫶

Falling in love with slices-of-life-stories. Here’s a great example, showing 4 generations of Rakugo artists. No super powers, great achivers, shy boys and girls suddenly becoming magnetically attractive for another gender (as often happens in anime 😬). All characters have their reasons still,… read more

Do you believe in zodiac signs?

Do you believe in zodiac signs? ♒️♉️♊️ I feel like some of the traits associated with each zodiac sign are surprisingly accurate. I’d say maybe 60% of them are true. 😂

Why modern dating patterns punish emotionally available people?

One of the most destabilizing patterns I've noticed among clients (as a psychological counselor) in modern dating is that detachment is often rewarded, while emotional availability, regardless of gender, is quietly punished. Many emotionally available men and women enter dating with clarity,… (edited) read more

Think about it..

"I'm so lazy." "I'm a procrastinator." "I know what I'm supposed to do but I can't seem to do it." "There's something wrong with me." We've heard all of these types of sentences used to describe why people think they're stuck. Whatever the thing is we're stuck with - career, fitness, goals,… read more

People traits based on date of birth💎 Mine is 12 and I think quite accurate, check yours and tell us 😍

What separates identity and personality?

Yesterday I had a conversation with someone that put me on this question.. In my introspection I have found that my personality is made up of traits I have picked up through my lived experiences and interactions with the world and other life in it.(humans included). But at the same time being hyper… read more

Do women judge men for being shy?

I’m a naturally shy reserved person. And I always worry on first dates. That the girl will see through these personality traits. I feel she will judge me

I Woke Up and Chose Chaos

Today I woke up and chose chaos. Specifically, chaos on dating apps. I’ve tried the “cool girl” approach. I’ve tried being emotionally available. I’ve tried crafting thoughtful, charming, well-balanced opening lines that say, *“I’m stable but fun. Quirky but grounded. Mysterious but… read more

I wonder if my nonchalance, no care and no filter state are autistic traits? 🤔🤔🤔

Toxic ☠️

What are your toxic traits?

Marigolds

Can't help but love this flower. I guess I relate to it based on symbolism and simply because of natural traits: Low maintenence, bright, likes warmth, represents love, death and resurrection. Blooms forever if you take care of it just a bit. Can be eaten and looks amazing used in dishes. It's… read more

I want to put more thought into a perfume because...

When I'm next to a stranger who smells nice, I think "ooo they smell nice," as I'm sure most people think, but it's deeper than that. Firstly, the knowledge of who they are permeates past their physical body, and reaches others against their will. Unlike visual cues, you need to make more of a… read more

Masculinity, Femininity, and Changing Gender Roles

I would like to discuss a topic that is often controversial: the relationship between masculinity, femininity, and gender roles. As a member of Gen Z, I have watched traditional expectations for men and women change significantly. Men are increasingly encouraged to be emotionally open, caring, and… read more

Favourite breed?

For people who are interested in cat breeds, what’s your favourite one? Personally I always thought I was a Persian fan until I discovered the Exotic Shorthair over a decade ago. I researched extensively to find an ethical breeder committed to making the breed better (brachycephalic breeds are… read more

Intellectual Depth: A Sacred Experience or a Burden?

Intellectual depth: Is it an affliction, or a singular spiritual odyssey?" Intellectual depth is a double edged sword that leads a person toward one of two inevitable paths: either a state of terminal isolation, born from an inability to endure the pervasive superficiality of the world, or a… read more

Peacock 🦚 🦚

It's believed that you have a share of your favourite bird traits. What are your thoughts about this bird

What is the motive of having affection to another person?

For me, it is not because I need someone or anything. My desire is only finding someone who can share the joy and amusing moments of my life, and to discover the beauty and unique traits of another. I just like the feeling of liking another individual despite all our differences. (edited)

Compatibility

Ok I do like the personality traits shown in the Profiles but I would rather add one more compatiblity and that’s Attachment Styles because either you both could help work each other or the hopeless romantic could help improve the relationship. 🤷🏻‍♀️