Competent Community

So Anyone play Deadlock

Vindicta main here looking for competent teammates to play with me and my friends getting kinda sick of the 1/12 teammates

Is it my tism?

I dress like a red-light district veteran plus piercings, sneakers, and all. You don’t get taken seriously professionally when you’re sporting a glittery zebra-print manicure. Yet, I refuse to dress conventionally; it would kill my soul. The first time it happened, I was 26. I’d just landed a… read more

Cozy Autumn Watchlist

I'm really enjoying rewatching some anime at the moment. Taking a break after finishing a particularly heavy live action show. These have such wholesome vibes and light comedy. Perfect for spooky season. • Campfire Cooking in Another World (I think I've watched the current 2 seasons three… read more

Kittens and babies

My kitten is still too young to do most things - no hunting instinct yet, toys don’t interest him, and he really only wants to eat and snuggle. And on top of that, he’s been battling back-to-back sicknesses common for kittens. Today I felt a little like I did when I was a new mother. When I had… read more

Pitying people

Maybe I’ve just seen too much, but I no longer feel pity for people. Hardship happens to everyone and we don’t always get to pick the flavor. If you have a pet, one day you will have to say goodbye. If you love someone, you’re going to have some kind of conflict. But outside of those little… (edited) read more

So lately

Whenever someone cites Klinger from MASH as an example to invalidate trans folks and drag queens, I love to point out that MASH was pretty progressive, with an openly pro-gay narrative. And that by the end of the series, Klinger's outfits had become a non-issue- he was portrayed as a competent… read more

Crush

It's efficient to erase But your silhouette remains. Your character doesn't faze Your demeanour makes me sway Hey, waves! How come you never stay? Your touch evokes a presence Like a present You fill me with essence I feel more competent Quickens my breathing Like a Spartan combatant Vibrant… read more

Today realization

Yes. That is one of the oldest structural distortions in human systems. A position has two invisible sides: Privilege extraction — status, money, influence, immunity, access. Burden absorption — accountability, risk, sacrifice, duty. When the first greatly exceeds the second, the role mutates… read more

Any feminine women out there who have traditional values?

Not a fan of the masculine engery or this girl boss stuff... I'm a competent man who's successful and has his life in order. I don't need to argue with another person about simple things and be brought chaos and problems instead of peace and respect.

The Essence of Reflective Thinking:

Writing A New Chapter of Selfawarnes and potential, finding your true way ahead, while navigating the chaotic and confusing world around you.. that often triggers you to believing that reacting, is the only option available when events are Creating Overwhelming Events and Ocurances.. 1. Where… read more

Today realization

Yes. That is one of the oldest structural distortions in human systems. A position has two invisible sides: Privilege extraction — status, money, influence, immunity, access. Burden absorption — accountability, risk, sacrifice, duty. When the first greatly exceeds the second, the role mutates… read more

Nightly thoughts from your friendly neighborhood ENTJ.

"The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance. It is the illusion of knowledge." - Daniel J. Boorstin Confidence and competence are often mistaken for the same thing, yet they could not be more different. Many people instinctively follow the loudest voice in the room because it appears… read more

Absolute dime 🤌🏻

Rarely do the random queue gods give you competent teammates. This guy was an absolute legend all match 🙌🏻

Once upon a time... LGBTQ in school?

A young person who is told they are too young to buy a lottery ticket, get a tattoo, or vote because their brain has not yet fully developed... ...is the same young person whom the pentagon deems fully mature and competent enough to consent to permanent, irreversible medical alterations to their… read more

Mortal Kombat 3 Cast Idea

Kurtis Stryker could be brilliantly reimagined for Mortal Kombat 3 as a highly competent, mid-career Asian-American "Supercop" inspired by the fast, prop-heavy energy of classic action films. Rather than another stoic martial artist or chosen hero, he is a grounded, pragmatic family man whose… read more

Late Shifting Til I'm All Out Of Clutch...

People talk about bedtime like it's a fixed point in time, like it can only occur within a narrow window of opportunity. It isn't. You can go to bed whenever you want and sometimes you have to, despite what's happening behind your blackout curtains. The city belongs to different people depending on… read more

Self Love vs Hate

Self hate is doubting yourself and hating everything things about yourself and constantly remembering your insecurities. Self love is accepting your not perfect, having insecurities and being okay with yourself anyway. Knowing your not perfect and not letting it bother you anymore, because you… read more

ENTJ

Me when you waste my time Me when you're competent (edited)

First time placing into diamond on PC

On PlayStation like 8 years ago I almost made it out of plat into diamond but didn't and I never played comp much but I wanted a new golden weapon for mizuki so I did my placements not realizing you have to do more than place now for points 😭. But if anyone wants to play qp or is vaguely… read more

Anyone up for a language exchange?

I'm a Spanish and Galician native speaker who is fluent in English and competent in French, Portuguese and Catalan. I would love to improve those aforementioned languages, as well as initiating myself with Hindi. Plus, it would be a nice opportunity to weave mutual support and foster connections… (edited) read more

Sunday workout

I've heard I do this exercise wrong 😳 I've got praised for doing it perfectly 😁 I choose to hear those, who I believe are competent 🥰

Favorite YouTuber(or channel) and why

I love the variety of resources on youtube, but I'm most constent lately with ClearValue Tax - <3 his competent and objective news reports What science, history, politics or fun YouTube channels do you recommend?

A serious lesson I needed to learn. WOW.

"Overarching compassion is particularly appropriate when it is directed toward that which is truly helpless, but if it starts to be directed, as if toward infants, to those who COULD be competent, then it starts to become destructive." -J. Peterson

Question:

What is something that makes you lose respect for someone? Be honest, this is a safe space lol. Mine: when someone pretends to be more competent than they are. Tonme that says, they either think I'm an idiot, or they are not humble enough to realize their own ignorance.

My spirit animal

Both of best worlds. Kaley Cuoco, Harley Quinn, and shedding a light on narcissistic men taking advantage of good intelligent competent women. 🩷🩷

What do you think of the idea that women would prefer to be with a man who is superior to them in various ways ,will settle for a man who's their equal, but will begrudgingly get with someone beneath them if the former two aren't an option?

Basically the idea that at a certain age a woman wants to get with competent men, and with competence also comes financial security and protection. And that the only way a woman would get with a man who's financially insecure is if she thinks she has no better option and hoping that he will get… read more

"A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything."- Robert A Heinlein.

Kudos to INFJs

You all never cease to amaze with how competent at understanding, questioning, and changing you are. The INFJs in my life have opened my eyes to many aspects of reality. Being something of a perfectionist myself, I consider these changes invaluable. In a world of monotony and stagnation, you stand… read more

Daily Affirmation June 23

Goodmorning Today I will be easy on myself. I am a strong, capable, and competent person. I will focus on my successes rather than criticize my mistakes. I will not compare myself to others, instead I will admire their qualities and learn from them. I am not alone, or on an island. People notice… (edited) read more

Work on yourself first.

Straight out of the USMC leadership manual (with additions) Leadership principle no. 1: Know yourself and seek self-improvement. Evaluate yourself by using the leadership traits and determine your strengths and weaknesses. Work to improve your weaknesses and utilize your… (edited) read more

I'm not too sure how to word this lol

Let's say you're an introvert, crazy I know lol, and you're interested in someone who's relatively outgoing. Wanting to spend time with them you start getting involved in some of their outdoor interests and you start to enjoy them and even do them when your person of interest isn't around. They… (edited) read more

I Believe

I believe in things that people have tried to prove don't exist. I believe in love. I believe there are people out there who are selfless and confident and competent. I believe in these things even while the world tries to beat the faith out of me. I believe in honesty and open communication. I… read more

Why are roads so complicated?

Why can't they just say: "stop at the first line, or at the stop sign." No, it's a whole paragraph and they inconsistently place colons so you don't know if an instruction belongs to the (A),(B),(C) before or after it. Some days, idk why I need a driver's license. Look at Mumbai traffic, surely I… read more