Question for the guys

Question

Does a girl being skinny or chubby really make or break the relationship or do y’all not even care about that stuff?

BetweenUanI · Accepted Answer

Does a guy being rich or poor really make or break the relationship or do y'all not even care about that?

Jonathan · Answer

Body type matters, and there's no such thing as "healthy at any size"

It matters more to some people than others

Admantius · Answer

I guess everyone cares and beauty standards are different from a person to another but having a compatible personality is something we guys really obsessed about.

Draco · Answer

You won't get a real anwser on here

Cameron · Answer

I'm genderless but I think it just depends on the persons preferences, I wouldn't say if someone doesnt like bigger or smaller women that it makes them shallow or anything. Its just a personal preference. I like bodies of many shapes and sizes, to me the proportions matter more than the weight. Skinny and chubby girls (or even guys) can have good or bad proportions.

Probably Sleeping · Answer

No that doesn't matter at all honestly. Skinny or chubby both are amazing to me

Dritchelnox · Answer

Their personality and happyness with themselves is most important

Shmoo · Answer

Not at all, not exactly skinny myself so as long as the feeling is mutual. Me and a skinny girl would probably be a bit of a misnomer, but that's probably only based on my own insecurities

BlueMan · Answer

Everyone is different in this world.... it's a case by case /person to person basis....

Lee · Answer

Entirely depends. Actual health probably matters more to me. I've liked both skinny and thick women. I don't think I'd be happy if she doesn't treat herself well.

Alex · Answer

I don't really care. I've fallen for women of various shapes, sizes, ages and races.

Tom · Answer

My experience is that people want to find someone who reflects themself (their exercise habits, they're eating habits, their lifestyle...) And that is a far bigger factor than anything else when it comes to body size.

Probably Sleeping · Answer

If you're single can you send me a text please?

Desmon · Answer

I care about the personality. As long as we get along and understand each other that doesn't matter to me.

Saurav Singh Rajput · Answer

All I care is being loyal and honest, looks doesn't matter at all

Chris · Answer

Short answer no, i look for those i resonate with and also find attractive. All that includes the whole picture. I Being chubby can be a sucky experience, i know first hand. If shes not happy id hope that shed be willing to work out with me. Health is a good attitude to have but not something to be obsessed over because that can make you miserable

Adam · Answer

I don't want to date someone who is too fat to the point their obese, because it means they didn't take enough care of their body, to get to that point, but I also don't want to date someone who is too skinny to the point their just skin and bone, because that's also super unhealthy, I'll date someone who is in between, because I don't want them to die of a health issue at a young age

Draco · Answer

Yes.  I'm fit.  I workout a lot.  I take pride in my body and I expect my gf to do the same

Richie · Answer

People like what they like. But I think the part that is overlooked is that taking care of yourself in either case is important.

Sunny · Answer

Why are you questioning this, you look fit

Michael Wood · Answer

Every guy is different. 
I'm no catch so I'm not throwing stones. 
It doesn't matter for me up to a point. Too much one way or the other becomes unhealthy. 
If a woman is confident and comfortable with herself, it adds to her appeal. 
😊

Waqas Ibne Ali · Answer

To the weighting machine definitely so as most of the guys who gets into a relationship based on infatuation only.

Asif · Answer

Doesn't matter to me, its what's on the inside that matters as cliche as that sounds

Varun · Answer

For it is all about the personality trait!The person has to just click with me

Geno · Answer

I'm fairly open to body types, but a level of fitness is required for my lifestyle.

🇵🇱Christopher 🇵🇱 · Answer

Plump is also a big plus because you can hug it like a teddy bear

Jarrid · Answer

This is a loaded question because it's personal preference. I've been with both and thin, at least healthy is my preference. It matters for several reasons. That being said, personality and face are the most important things.

Ichabod · Answer

Superficial people. Could be fat poor home Free with kids that aren't even ours as long as we have that deeper connection and are able to make each other happy at least some of the time that's better then being fit, rich & in a mansion with people who don't give a f*** about each other.

Zack · Answer

Prefer personality over looks so size doesn't matter to me

Nathan Lee · Answer

I see being chubby as a bonus, but as long as your personality Vibes with mine I don't think I'd really care. I haven't been in many relationships though.

Will · Answer

For me it doesn’t break a relationship for me.I love all types of people

Justin · Answer

For me personally it's about the woman's personality beauty does not define a woman. A woman stunning does not mean she's loyal or trustworthy. If people are falling in love with people looks the love for that person will go away once they see someone more nicer.

David · Answer

If Im Being 100% honest. It does matter on a make or break level for me. It affects physical attraction significantly enough that I would avoid a relationship based on that factor alone. Not just being a little chubby/ not a rail, I mean like being actually bigger. Im not into it.

But thats my own preference, not everyone feels that way. I think its most important to be a version of yourself that you are comfortable/enjoy being/want to be. And there will 100% being people who are attracted to that. And I bet most of those people will be the best fit for you and vice versa.

Sam · Answer

Depending on the guy some don't some do alot of the time I think it's based on how the women treats you and or shows she cares

Kristie · Answer

Personally I think that outter appearances are irrelevant. I look for 3 traits in a woman. Namely, A Beautiful Mind, A beautiful Soul and a Beautiful Heart. Now that's simply Beautiful...

Jesse · Answer

Some of these comments are crazy and laced with projection. For me, no. it won't stop me from initiating and pursuing a relationship. However, I am gonna want us to improve and thrive, so we're gonna see what we can do to either slim out or maintain a healthy weight. Bigness doesn't matter, health does.

Izzy · Answer

Tbh idc as long as they don't try to kill me 😅

Question for the guys

Romance Community

Does a guy being rich or poor really make or break the relationship or do y'all not even care about that?

Body type matters, and there's no such thing as "healthy at any size" It matters more to some people than others

I guess everyone cares and beauty standards are different from a person to another but having a compatible personality is something we guys really obsessed about.

You won't get a real anwser on here

No that doesn't matter at all honestly. Skinny or chubby both are amazing to me

Their personality and happyness with themselves is most important

Not at all, not exactly skinny myself so as long as the feeling is mutual. Me and a skinny girl would probably be a bit of a misnomer, but that's probably only based on my own insecurities (edited)

Everyone is different in this world.... it's a case by case /person to person basis....

Entirely depends. Actual health probably matters more to me. I've liked both skinny and thick women. I don't think I'd be happy if she doesn't treat herself well.

I don't really care. I've fallen for women of various shapes, sizes, ages and races.

My experience is that people want to find someone who reflects themself (their exercise habits, they're eating habits, their lifestyle...) And that is a far bigger factor than anything else when it comes to body size. (edited)

If you're single can you send me a text please?

I care about the personality. As long as we get along and understand each other that doesn't matter to me.

All I care is being loyal and honest, looks doesn't matter at all

Yes. I'm fit. I workout a lot. I take pride in my body and I expect my gf to do the same

People like what they like. But I think the part that is overlooked is that taking care of yourself in either case is important. (edited)

Why are you questioning this, you look fit

Every guy is different. I'm no catch so I'm not throwing stones. It doesn't matter for me up to a point. Too much one way or the other becomes unhealthy. If a woman is confident and comfortable with herself, it adds to her appeal. 😊

To the weighting machine definitely so as most of the guys who gets into a relationship based on infatuation only.

Doesn't matter to me, its what's on the inside that matters as cliche as that sounds

For it is all about the personality trait!The person has to just click with me

I'm fairly open to body types, but a level of fitness is required for my lifestyle.

Plump is also a big plus because you can hug it like a teddy bear

This is a loaded question because it's personal preference. I've been with both and thin, at least healthy is my preference. It matters for several reasons. That being said, personality and face are the most important things.

Superficial people. Could be fat poor home Free with kids that aren't even ours as long as we have that deeper connection and are able to make each other happy at least some of the time that's better then being fit, rich & in a mansion with people who don't give a f*** about each other.

Prefer personality over looks so size doesn't matter to me

I see being chubby as a bonus, but as long as your personality Vibes with mine I don't think I'd really care. I haven't been in many relationships though.

For me it doesn’t break a relationship for me.I love all types of people

For me personally it's about the woman's personality beauty does not define a woman. A woman stunning does not mean she's loyal or trustworthy. If people are falling in love with people looks the love for that person will go away once they see someone more nicer. (edited)

Depending on the guy some don't some do alot of the time I think it's based on how the women treats you and or shows she cares

Personally I think that outter appearances are irrelevant. I look for 3 traits in a woman. Namely, A Beautiful Mind, A beautiful Soul and a Beautiful Heart. Now that's simply Beautiful...

Tbh idc as long as they don't try to kill me 😅

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