Standards Community

I saw a video of a woman who carried herself with confidence. That’s all I saw confidence, presence, individuality. But the comments were full of questions about whether she was a man or a woman, picking apart her body as if it were something to debate.

It made me think about how hard this world can be when you don’t fit society’s narrow beauty standards. The judgment, the stares, the subtle comments they add up. Sometimes they make you wonder if you should change yourself just to feel accepted. And then there are people who say changing yourself... read more

Why I am content with being single.

It's not enough to have standards, they won't hold up unless you truly believe in them. You won't be able to believe in those standards unless you meet someone that fits them or else they will seem unreasonable. Finding someone that fits those standards does not mean you are meant for that someone,... read more

Someone once told me...

Him: Your standards are high that's why you never get a date on Valentine's Day. Me: (thinking when was expecting a man to show up and see if he matches his words with action becomes a high standard) If I'm going to date someone like you, I'd rather spend the whole year like it's Halloween. 🙄

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Today, I had to block the first person on the app. She messaged me saying, "What are these 30-year-old women doing on this app looking for anime, posting meaningless and empty things? It's so boring." So I replied, "Everyone posts what they want, searches what they want, and there's no rule that... read more

Pov :Disney really set our standards too high 🩷