Standards Community

What if I’m just meant to be fat forever? 🫠

Let me tell you a little about my story. Ever since I turned 20, I’ve been constantly mocked for being overweight. I became extremely insecure about my appearance, and over the years, my struggles with my weight have turned into a deep-rooted obsession. I have hormonal issues that cause my… (edited) read more

Do I stay single forever due to my impossible standards and suffer OR do I settle for someone I don’t wholly appreciate and suffer

High standards

I feel like having high standards is often associated with material things: fancy restaurants, expensive gifts, and a luxurious lifestyle. To me, high standards aren't about what you can buy me, but how you treat me. What about you? What do high standards mean to you?

Dating

Maybe I’ll never find love because everything is so transactional and woman only care about money status looks an age realizing if your poor and don’t have these materialistic things that your doomed if ever finding a partner it’s really sad that men are only valued by there wallet and social… read more

Note...

Don't lower your standards. Those that meet up with them will definitely live up to them..

⚠ I AM LOOKING FOR A GIRLFRIEND! ⚠ 👇

My standards are that you live in Florida, ages 18-28, doesn't want kids, likes to play video games, likes going to beaches, isn’t allergic to cats (I have two cats) & lastly read my bio fully on my profile before sending me a message. I am available for texting but no calls & facetimes untill I… read more

A little blonde, a little bold, and a whole lot of unbothered. 💋✨👑 Pretty eyes, soft heart, high standards. 💕🤭

The foolish night, I should have sprinkled salt on that girl's lying tongue and eaten it. What a pity.

My mental state is terrible, but fortunately, my moral standards are high

The Right Eyes See Differently

What started as meeting at a mutual friend’s birthday party turned into marriage She clearly saw something valuable in him beyond appearance She could have chosen someone who fit conventional standards.. but she chose him Why? There must have been a stronger reason Appearance, age, and… read more

What do you think is the biggest problem with modern dating today? I

In my opinion, it's that people are online and have high expectations and standards, combined with the fact that they think they have plenty of other options on dating apps.

The Gap Between Knowing and Becoming

The hardest moments of personal growth aren't when you don't know what to do. They're when you know exactly what to do. You've thought it through. Weighed the arguments. You understand why you've made this decision. But the monkey in your head still doesn't get it. It doesn't want to change. It… read more

My standards are ruined.

I've spent years crushing on fictional characters who can communicate, apologize, and fight dragons. Now real people are expected to compete with that. Unfair for everyone involved.

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A soft heart, a peaceful soul, and standards that reflect my worth. I’m open to meeting a man who knows what he wants, values commitment, and is ready for something real.

Standards

Medical science standards

Meandering River & Gender Roles..

So its been some time. Sometimes from ground zero, where it all happened. Six months ago I went from being a man that loved to a man that was back to square one, who felt like it took him back to 17 whenever he just wanted to be loved for who he was, seeking someone who was genuinely committed to… (edited) read more

I pulled the plug on my old job. It was time. ByeBye old job, the old psychward for crazy teens that I adored. I am onto new things, the trauma and memories you gave me like an old toxic ex is finally enough for me.

@Kostas please @anyone for me? Yes I'm being blantly selfish but I really need the attention rn 🥹🥹. This old ward, is where I constricted core part of my identity. Inner resilience, inner empathy and inner intelligence from inner stupidity. My standards on dating apps based on the amount of… (edited) read more

I just don't know what I'll do if someone's parents will ask me if I know how to cook for their son, meanwhile my dad wakes up early to prepare my breakfast even after I graduated and no matter how tired he is from work he will always cook our favourite meals for dinner.

Yup my dad is my standards

Only people from Asia or Africa contact me?

I kinda find it crazy that I get requests from Asia and Africa every day but have not a single time gotten one from Europe not once. I live in Central Europe (Poland) and yet not a soul from Europe has dared to contact me, and it makes me think, are European girls the ones with crazy high standards… read more

⚠ I AM LOOKING FOR A GIRLFRIEND! ⚠ 👇

My standards are that you live in Florida, ages 18-28, doesn't want kids, likes to play video games, likes going to beaches, isn’t allergic to cats (I have two cats) & lastly read my bio fully on my profile before sending me a message. I am available for texting but no calls & facetimes untill I… read more

Longing

I’ve been sitting with this quiet longing lately. I miss the kind of dating where effort felt effortless for the other person where planning an actual date, a weekend trip, or something thoughtful wasn’t a chore but a way to show they were excited about us. I miss feeling pursued. Seen. Like… read more

Me type 🥰

Before, I felt like I was being taken advantage of because I just kept silent and accepted everything while he was on a power trip. But this time, I have to be careful and stick to my standards for a dream guy.

NEVER EVER TRADE YOUR PEACE FOR NOTHING --

I’m looking for someone whose character is real, someone with discipline, vision, and the kind of behavior that stays steady through both the highs and the lows. Dear people, you may be out there searching for love, but ask yourself: is it with the right person? Your heart is not a rehabilitation… read more

The Rules of Balancing & Maintaining a Relationship:

The Rule of Mutual Effort: A healthy connection cannot be carried by one person while the other runs background games [health]. True commitment means matching each other’s energy, prioritizing presence, and coordinating schedules with genuine intent. The Rule of Direct Transparency: Honest… (edited) read more

Late-night discipline

Balancing the corporate grind with early morning lifts. High standards, zero small talk. What’s keeping you up tonight? (edited)

What is beauty?

"Beauty is subjective" means that aesthetic judgment is based on personal preference, culture, and individual experience rather than universal, objective standards. It signifies that beauty exists in the mind of the observer ("in the eye of the beholder") rather than as an inherent, fixed property… read more

Perfection can change your goals…..

✍️ Perfectionism makes you a prisoner of your own standards, endlessly correcting flaws that may exist only in your mind while everything you create remains unfinished. ✍️ Eventually, you realize that in trying to make everything flawless, you sacrificed your time, your progress, and the very… read more

Royal Standards

Tolerated by the masses, loved by none. Marvelous! Just like in my real life. 👑

Being picky

I really don’t think I’m all that picky about a potential partner but maybe I am? Height, gender, occupation, relationship history, family ties, social status, none of that stuff matters all that much to me. So then why is it that after looking at thousands of profiles over the years, I just… read more

Day 10

By day ten, I realized I'd run out of old works to post, not because I didn't have any left, but simply because they were too dated or not "worthy" by my standards. So, on day ten, here's the first "new work." It's a canvas that's actually a work in progress that's been ongoing since last summer.… read more

the unfilter side

Unattractive?I know But more importantly, I’m learning to love my flaws. God has given me more than enough, and I’m grateful that I get to live and experience this beautiful world—even with its struggles, unrealistic standards, and harsh expectation. And for clarity: I don’t post here to seek… read more

I want to meet someone fun that isn't a Virgo please.

I'm ready for something new. Today was a wake up call. I refuse to compromise my standards for someone who proves themselves substandard. Someone I can just be myself around would be ideal. If it's too much I always have myself.

I don’t lower my standards for attention

Thought 💭

If someone asks me, ‘Are you feminine?’—my answer is yes, but it depends on the energy I’m met with. For me, femininity isn’t about being passive or silent. It’s about being soft, open, and expressive—in the right environment. The right man brings out my femininity. The wrong one meets my… (edited) read more

When nature calls but you still have standards

Beach Picnic

Me and my cousin went on a girly beach picnic. She’s quite literally setting the standards high.