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Age

Been thinkjng about age a lot lately. How I'm not quite as strong as I once was. How my eyes are darker from lost sleep. How I don't get asked for my ID anymore like I did a few years ago. This photo kinda helps, though. I do look older than I remember, but not as old as I felt. My eyes are... read more

Idk.

Sometimes I really do think I am just not built for this era of dating. It's exhausting and quite frankly, annoying. One night stands or casual seem to be as much the norm as unrealistic expectations, and vanity. I am someone who cannot just detach myself like that and pretend I do not have... read more

10 weeks completed

I had a spinal injury last June and have finally returned to lifting. A lot of the work starts slow. If you're new to lifting don't give up. You typically won't see lasting visible changes begin until 8 to 10 weeks. Build for strength and not vanity.

When people come into possession of more money than they can use, they begin to desire honor more than physical possessions

Stoicism views material wealth as an indifferent—neither inherently good nor bad. What matters is how one uses it. When humans possess more money than they can use, Stoics would argue that the natural progression is not necessarily a desire for honor, but a deeper risk of losing focus on virtue.... read more

Vanity post to boost my ego

Since no one was bold enough to ask to be my valentine in time this year 🤣 probably too much the mess of a hot mess. 🤣 Due to a small amount of attention this has attracted from cis-het guys... I'm an asexual trans-man I just have long hair, pretty eyes and a 80s horror movie love for crop tops. (edited)

I've realized something about myself;

Sometimes I am un-chosen before I’m even known. Before I speak more than a sentence. Before my heart gets a chance to show itself. Before my loyalty has the opportunity to prove how real it is. People look at me and make automatic deductions. They see confidence and call it arrogance. They see... read more