Uluntu lwe-Equality
Uluntu lwe-equality, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
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Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
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Uluntu lwe-equality, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
1.4K IISOULS
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equality
Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
UKUKHUTSHELWA
Jonga IWD 2026; Ukucela Ubulungisa kunye noBulungisa kubo bonke abafazi kunye namantombazana; ukusuka ekuxhatshazweni kwiindawo zokusebenza, ukuya kwiindlela zokuphatha kunye nobundlobongela kwiApps ezifana nale, ubulungisa buyacelwa, kunye nokufikelela kwiimfuno zonke ezifana nokubamba abaphula…funda okungakumbi

Ukukhula, ndandiqala ukuva le ndlela ikakhulu, njengoko ndandiva ukuba le (ixhaswe yi-neuroscience nayo) iqhubeka ingasentla. Ukuba ndandikhe ndibone umfazi onobunzima, ongazivezi, onobuchule okanye onamandla, andingayicingi nhlobo njengomntu “masculine”, ndiyamjonga nje njengomntu onamandla,…funda okungakumbi
Ukuba ubudlelwane bobulili obufanayo bumele ingozi kumtshato wakho, omnye wenu ungumthandi wesini esinye.

Namhlanje, sibhiyozela impumelelo yamaNenekazi emhlabeni jikelele ngelixa siqaphela iingxaki esisazijongile. Kutheni ungathathi le mini uze ufunde ngengxaki yokungalingani kweemeko zobulili ezisavela namhlanje? Umzekelo, uyazi na ukuba ngokocwaningo lwango-2023, iimilion eziyi-12 zeentombazana…funda okungakumbi

Ok.. mva kum lol! Ukuze indoda ikwazi ukuhamba, kufuneka iphakamise itayitile, ihambe kwaye ibuyisele phantsi, leyo yiphinda-phinda yeetayitile ezi-2, ukuba ucinga ngakho.. kwaye sizama ukwenza umhlaba ube lungile, akunjalo? Ngaba akusoloko kulungile ukuba indoda iphakamise itayitile ukuze ihambe…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
Kutheni amadoda enezithameli ezincinci. Kwaye umphakathi, nangaphandle kwepfp, unababhalisile abaninzi. #date #love #equality( ilungisiwe)

Ke kutheni ingatholi mali efanayo neendaba zamadoda? Le misho ayizange ibize ubulili, bekungekho zinto ezicacileyo kakhulu nezaziwayo phakathi kweendaba zeenqaba, kodwa kukho izinto ezicacileyo kakhulu nezaziwayo phakathi kwabantu, kwaye zicacile kakhulu ukuba zibonwe, ngaphezu koko, isixazululo…funda okungakumbi
Yintoni eminye imigaqo ephindaphindiweyo eyenzekayo kumadoda?
Xa ndiphinda ndazama ukujolisa kumoya wam, inkolo yafundisa ukuba amadoda nabafazi kufuneka babonakale njengabaxhasayo, ngoko ke ndabona ubulungisa phakathi kweqela elinye nelinye ngaphakathi komfanekiso obambisene. Ekugqibeleni ndacinga: Amadoda anamandla okuQina, ngoko ke kufuneka akhethe ukuba…funda okungakumbi
Dla umrich Dla umrich Dla umrich Dla umrich

Ukuba indoda eneemisipha ezinzima idibana nomfazi ophucukileyo, kuya kubuzwa ngamadoda, kwaye ezinye iindoda ezinamandla ngakumbi neziphucukileyo ziya kumxelela umfazi ophucukileyo ukuba kufuneka adibane nabo endaweni. Ukuba umfazi ongenamava idibana nomfana ophucukileyo, ngaba kuya kubuzwa…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
#ukulingana #ubukhosikazi #abafaziabazimeleyo #abafaziabamodern

Igama endalile (alifani negama elithi "androgyny", elithetha: iimpawu zombini zobulili besifazane nobulili besilisa, alithethi lokho). Abantu ngokubanzi, bahlala besebenzisa igama elithi "tomboy", esikhundleni… "Njengomfana"…? Kutheni ngaama !Kung Bushmen (iqela labalimi-nokuhamba)… Ngaba la…funda okungakumbi


Uthando lwam malunga nolwabiwo lwezobulili.


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Ukutya NE uhambo ekhaya wedwa, yile mpumelelo( ilungisiwe)

Kwimiphakathi apho uninzi lwababafazi lufuna amandla kunye nolwaneliseko, kutheni indoda kufuneka ibe yiyo ixhasa ngemali, inike konke kwaye kubafazi kukwanele ukunika ubukho babo?
Masithethe ngama-tattoo! Yintoni ubuciko bomzimba obuthetha kuwe? Ngaba yinto ethintela, okanye uyijonga njengendlela yobuciko? Kum, i-tattoo ikakhulu ibonisa umphakathi womntu kunye nombono wakhe. Le yintoni i-tattoo yam yokuqala, kwaye ikho kuphela kwiinyanga ezili-1! Ewe, ingabukeka…funda okungakumbi



Ndafumanisa umbuzo - yintoni ofuna kuyo indoda ukuze ushade? Okokuqala, kufuneka sibe nolwazi malunga nomahluko phakathi komntu ofuna ukumshada kunye nomntu ofuna ukumthanda/ukudibana naye. Kukho iimpawu ezininzi ezifanayo phakathi kwabo bobabini kuba bobabini bamele ubudlelwane. Ndichonge…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
Andiqondi guys abahlaselwa yindlela abafazi abazimela ngayo. Andingaboni ukuba le nto ibalulekile kumadoda onke, kodwa kulabo b few abacinga kakhulu ngabo kwaye babona abafazi njengabantu abaphantsi ngenxa yokuba singabafazi. Ukuba ufuna ukwakha ubudlelwane nomntu, kufuneka kube nokuthandana,…funda okungakumbi
Ukuba ubulungisa kuthetha ukufana, ngaba ukuvuyisana neentlobo zihlukeziyo kuyaphikisana nayo okanye kuyigcwalisa?

Siyazi ukuba yonke imihla yelanga lakho. Nokuba kunjalo, kulungile ukuba kube nelanga lokukhumbuza ngalo kwaye nokukhumbuza ukuba uluntu lusafuna ukuphucula malunga nolwabiwo lwezobulili.
Ndicinga ukuba bekungakuhle ukutshintsha la migaqo, kuba wonke umntu unayo eminye. Ingakanani leyo ingasindisa ixesha lenu 😉

Ndijonga i-podcast ethile kwaye into evame ukuvela kukuba kulungile, njengokuhlonipha, nokuba kutheni kufuneka okanye kungafaneleki ukuba kwenziwe kwakhona. Ingxoxo yokuyixhasa ifunyenwe ukuba ibangelwa ubulungisa. Abafazi bahluphekile okanye baphantsi umahluko xa kuthelekiswa namadoda, ngoko…funda okungakumbi
I-feminism yinkqubo yokulingana kweemeko zobulili, iphikisa iinkqubo ezikhawulelayo amalungelo, amathuba, kunye nokuzimela kwababini. Iphikisa ukuba iimeko zentlalo, ezopolitiko, kunye nezomnotho ziye zakhuthaza amadoda, kwaye ifuna ukulungisa le miba ngokusebenza, utshintsho lwezicwangciso, kunye…funda okungakumbi
Kubahlobo abakhangela umphakathi kwi-apps zokuthandana, masizame ukuthatha umzuzu sibe nokuqonda okucacileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho abantu abaninzi abaphumelelayo ukufumana umphefumlo wabo apho, kodwa sukubeka umgaqo-nkqubo wokuthandana usenze saphosa umqondo weqiniso. Ngokweemeko, abantu…funda okungakumbi
Nokuba umfo okanye umfazi ubuhle kangakanani, ekugqibeleni baya kuba sithsaba. Ibhone, isikhumba, kunye nomzimba ziyi ndawo enye—kodwa abantu babamba isikhumba nomzimba, besoyika iibone ezingaphantsi. Le yinto esiyithanda ngaphezulu, ukungavumi kwethu ukulingana. Ubuhle buphezulu. Abantu…funda okungakumbi
Kukho umvuzo kumyalezo wakhe nangona kunjalo. Ekugqibeleni, konke kukhumbula, ukuba mnandi, kunye nokuba nobubele. Kodwa ingxaki ivela xa lo mfazi, olindele le "mali yezenhlalakahle", ngokukhawuleza uveza ubulungisa bezobulili kunye nemigaqo ye-feminist kulwalamano xa ikhululekile kuye.…funda okungakumbi

Mna ngokwam ndiyavavanya ukuba ukuba abantu banomfanekiso omncinci ngawe ngokobulili, kuyinto yokulwa okanye ukwahlukana okuncinci. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ndibe nezenzo ezihloniphekileyo. Umzekelo: kwiindawo zokuhlambela nabantu abavela kwiimeko zam zomzimba andibukeli. Ubuso bam bukhona kwiindawo…funda okungakumbi
Uphando malunga neMvelaphi kunye neMithombo yeNgcaciso Ngexesha lophando lwam, umyalezo othi “Xa ujolise kwiithuba, ubulungisa bujolise njengokucindezelwa” ube yinto edlalwa kakhulu kwiingxoxo malunga nolwalamano lwezenhlalakahle, ubulungisa, kunye ne-bias yesistim. Nangona ubhityile, umthombo…funda okungakumbi
Umhlaba wanamhlanje ulinganisa ixabiso ngemali. Abanemali bafumana amandla, ukuhlonitshwa, kunye namathuba ngokuzenzekelayo, ngelixa iimpazamo zabo zihlala zingabhekiwe. Kodwa abantu abajolileyo abafuna ubulungisa bahlolwa ngokuba baphakame "ngokweqile," njengoko ukuba nolwazelelo kudinga…funda okungakumbi
Andinangxaki neChicanos ukuba nezenzo okanye abantu abamnyama ukuba nezenzo. Banamalungelo onke okulwa ngemiphakathi yabo. Kodwa kutheni ngabo bonke abanye? Kutheni ngababantu abangafaniyo kakuhle kwiibhokisi zomzimba okanye zamasiko? Ndazalwa eMexico, kodwa ndakhuliswa eTexas ukusukela ngexesha…funda okungakumbi


Ngaba ungathanda ubudlelwane be-matriarchal ebomini bakho bobuqu okanye into efana nobulungisa?
Ndibone le mibuzo mibini kutshanje: Kutheni amadoda engasondeli okanye engabheki abafazi njengoko bejolise? kwaye Kutheni amadoda engazami ukunceda emva kokuba ethi hayi? Imbangi ephambili yokuba asichasi kakhulu okanye sizame ukugqiba ukungamkeli kukuba singalahlekelwa yimisebenzi yethu,…funda okungakumbi

Ndiziva ngathi kufuneka kube khona isiseko esingamaXhosa nesivamile sokucinga ngombono we-soshalizim ongenzi msebenzi kumandla kunye nezithembiso zeziseko ezindala zeSoviet. Oku kungenzeka ukuba sele kufunyenwe uphando oluninzi, kodwa ndiyavuma ukuba ingxaki enkulu yeprojekthi ye-soshalizim…funda okungakumbi
Ukuba ufuna umlingane ophika ubukhosi, lungela ukunika inhlonipho enyanisweni, hayi nje iimfuno. Indoda engaphantsi kobukhosi ayifuni ukuncedwa. Endaweni yoko, ifuna indawo ephephile yokuba ibonakale kwaye umlingane ofanayo onokuthembela kuye. Emva koko, ubulungisa bokwenene kubudlelwane abukhuli…funda okungakumbi
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba kukho izinto ezifana "Uthola 10k ngenyanga kwaye omunye uthola 2k" kuyacaca ukuba ukuba owokuqala ufuna ukuya kwi-restauranti ehloniphekileyo, uya kukhokhela, ndiyathetha, kumntu omunye kuya kuba yinkxalabo. Kwaye kuyacaca ukuba ukuba omnye usebenza ngexesha elipheleleyo…funda okungakumbi
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo kwi-hypergamy, eyimvelo yabafazi kwaye ixhomekeke kwi-biology. Abafazi bahlala bejolise kumadoda aphezulu okanye bahlala bejolise kumadoda anemali, kwaye indoda iyinkokheli, umgibeli, kunye nomphakeli kubudlelwane. Akukho kulinganisa kubudlelwane.
Yinkqubo ebanzi eyakhiwe ngemicabango emininzi, iindawo eziphambili, kunye nezicwangciso. Le miba yahlukeneyo yinye yeemeko ezibangela ukuba ubufeministiki bube nomthelela, kodwa kukwenzeka ukuba ukungavumelani kuvame ukuvela ngaphakathi kwale mveliso. Ubufeministiki obahlukeneyo bungenza umnqweno…funda okungakumbi
Uphando lwam olutsha: Ndiyanibulisa nonke, ndiyavuya ukunilala nani. Ninjani, ningandibiza ngokuba nguHou. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba akukhangeleki ukuba ndizazise, kuba ndikholelwa ngokuqinileyo ukuba ekugqibeleni niyokwazi ukuba ndingubani ngokwenene ngezenzo zam zansuku zonke. Oku kuthetha ukuba…funda okungakumbi