Uluntu lwe-Grieving
Uluntu lwe-grieving, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
934 IISOULS
KONKE
grieving
Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
UKUKHUTSHELWA
Uluntu lwe-grieving, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
934 IISOULS
KONKE
grieving
Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
UKUKHUTSHELWA
“Akukho sikhathi sanele sokuthi sithi salani. Nokuba kukhona ukunciphisa ekupheleni kokuhlupheka okukhulu, lokho akunciphisi ubuhlungu esibuzwa." — Jeannie Hund
Umhlobo wam omncinci wokuhamba uphumelele izolo ebusuku, ndiyaxhalaba kwaye ndiza kumkhumbula kakhulu. Ukuhlonipha yena, nikeza umvuzo omncinci kumhlobo wakho okanye uhambe kwiindlela, ujolise kwiindawo kunye neempembelelo. Wayethanda ukuvuma zonke iintyatyambo kunye neepinikhwe, bekungandikhumbuza…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Umama akasaphathwa buhlungu. Ngoku sekuyithuba lam lokuhlukumezeka..
Ukulahlekelwa ngu mama kufana nokulahlekelwa yinxalenye yomphefumlo wakho engasoze ibuyiselwe🥀
yintoni ekunceda kwiintsuku apho ubuhlungu bukhululekile kakhulu?
Into enzima endiyenzileyo kukwamkela ukuba ukungcwaba okukodwa kukungcwaba konke kwaye kufuneka ndimele ndisebenze izinto ngexesha langempela okanye ndibhekane nazo zonke ngempumelelo ezilishumi kamva. Ndiyasebenza ukuhamba kuyo yonke le nto kodwa indlela kuphela kukuhamba ngempela. 💛

Hey friends, Andinakuva apha kuba ndikhumbula ukulahleka emntwini wam. Ndandikufutshane kakhulu no tía wam ngoko kuyandithinta nzima. Ndiyathatha umphumo omncinci kwi-app kodwa ndiza kubuya. Ndiyathemba nonke ninokuphila kakuhle konyaka omtsha. Xoxo 💋
Ndilahlekelwe ngumthengi wam namhlanje malunga ne-6:30pm. Ndiziva ngathi andinanto. Ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kumkhumbula kakhulu. Kodwa ndiyaziva ngathi akukho nto izakundifikelela de kube ngomso. Ndiziva ngathi akukho nto iqhelekileyo ngoku 😔

Bhala ngendlela OFUNA ngayo. Ndinqwenela ukuba singenza kube yinto evamile ukuhlonipha indlela umntu abhala ngayo (kube akukho mthetho ophulwe). Andinakukuxelela ukuba zingaphi iimeko endiziva abantu besithi "oh lowo mntu akavakali ngathi uphoxekile" okanye "lo mntu uthatha oku KAKHULU" okanye…funda okungakumbi

Ubomi bepuppy yam buphelile masinyane kwaye andinakukholwa ukuba umntu unokujongana njani nokudabuka.
Ndiyabulela umphakathi omncane endiwuhlanganisileyo. Ndithandaza yonke ebusuku phambi kokulala.

Kuba ndiyazi ukuba andifuni ukuthetha ngakho, ndandicinga ukuba ngaba kukho umntu, ngokwenene, onokwamkela isimemo sam sokuphuza iwayini kunye nedinwa elibuhlungu, naphi na eDubai andin caring. Masizalise ndawonye ngaphandle kokundibuza ukuba kwenzekeni 🤜🤛
Umculo, ngakumbi iingoma eziphathelele ukufa, ungaba yindlela yokuba abantu baveze kwaye baphathe imizwa yabo yokudana nokulahlekelwa. Ukulalela iingoma ezijolise kwiimeko zokuphila nokufa kungasiza abantu ukuba bazive beqondwa kwaye bebona emoyeni wabo, kwaye bafumane induduzo kumava ahlukeneyo…funda okungakumbi
“ Ndicinga ukuba ndiza kucela impilo yam yonke. Kwaye andizukukwazi ukuyiqonda. Nokuba uThixo uqobo eza phambi kwam kwaye andixelele isizathu, andicingi ukuba ndiza kukwamkela. Ezinye uthando zinzima kakhulu ukuzithwala. Kwaye ngothando olukhulu kuza ubuhlungu obukhulu. Kwaye ngelosi enkulu kuza…funda okungakumbi
kulungile ndicinga ukuba ndifumene omnye! 🙄🤨
umgexo ongcono kakhulu kumhlobo omthandayo Ndiyakuthanda bhuti ❤️

Iiposti Ezinxulumeneyo
Amadoda avame ukuhamba phambili ekucubunguleni ukuphela kobudlelwane emva kwabafazi ngenxa yeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokucubungula imizwa, ukwenziwa komphakathi, kunye nendlela ukuphela kobudlelwane okuhamba ngayo. Ukwahlula ngaphambi kokuphela kobudlelwane: Abafazi abaninzi bahlula imizwa yabo kwaye…funda okungakumbi
Ndiyayeka. Kwaye ndiyithetha le nto kwiindawo ezinzulu, ezimnyama zentliziyo yam. Hayi kubomi. Hayi kum. Hayi kwixesha elizayo endichithe ixesha elide ndiliphupha. Le ayisiyiyo impilo yokugqibela, okanye ukuncama kobumnyama. Yiyona nkxaso. Isithembiso esithule kumntu endichithe ixesha elide…funda okungakumbi
"Yiyo le nto sahlangana ngayo kusasa ngoba asizukuba ndawonye xa sikhula." 🥹 Mhlawumbi abanye abantu bangena ezimpilweni zethu kusasa ngoba ubomi buzi ukuba asizukuba nokuqhubeka nabo ngonaphakade. Kwaye mhlawumbi yiyo le nto eyenza ukuthanda abo bantu kube nzima; sihlangana nabo phambi kokuba…funda okungakumbi
Kum, kukufika ekhaya nokubaqonda ukuba abakhona anymore...

Ndithanda ukuhamba ndedwa kunokuba ndilahlekelwe yindalo yomnye umntu.. Uthini umphakathi wokudlala le mveliso?

Ukuba umfanekiso wakho ungaphuma emgqonyeni kanye ngonyaka kwaye ukuxelele iinyani enye obuyigwema, ucinga ukuba ingathi iyakuthetha ntoni? Impendulo yam Ingathi ithetha, “Usenokholo kwiinto ozama ukuzikhumbula ukuba uzishiyile.” Kwaye ayizukundivumela ukuba ndijolise kwelinye icala de ndenze…funda okungakumbi
Akukho mntu uxoxa ngendlela enzima ngayo ukuvela njengomfanekiso ophakamileyo wakho ngelixa uxhaphaza. Kunzima kangakanani ukuhlala uthambile xa ubomi buqhubeka bukunika izizathu zokuba ube nzima. Kunzima kangakanani ukuxoxa ngokuthula xa uhlala uqhutywa ngengqondo engalunganga. Kunzima…funda okungakumbi
Mhlawumbi into esigcina sithandana nayo ayisiyonto eyayiyiyo, kodwa yinto esikholwayo ukuba bangaba yiyo. Siqonda ukungathethi, sinika umxholo kwiimpawu, sigcwalisa iindawo ezingenanto, kwaye sakha iikamva ezipheleleyo kwiinto ezingase zibe zininzi kumntu omnye kwaye ngaphandle kokuyazi, siqala…funda okungakumbi

Bendihleli apha ndikhumbula ixesha lokugqibela ndandikhalela ngale ndlela kwaye ndakhumbula ukuhamba kwiindawo zokuhlala e-Utah iiyure neeyure, ndilalela umculo, ndicinga nzulu, ndikhala, kwaye ndinobuqhawe bokujongana nemozulu ezinzulu kangangokuba bekungathi kuzandibulala. Ndifuna ukudweba omnye…funda okungakumbi

Uphando lwam lwezithombe lwalungumsebenzi owawuma phakathi kwam kunye nokuphumelela. Iminyaka emine yomsebenzi onzima yaphuma kwi-presentation enye. Ngobusuku ngaphambi kwayo, ugogo wam wafa. Ndafumana umnxeba kufutshane nemini. Ngak suddenly, iislayidi zam azizange zibaluleke. Iscript yam…funda okungakumbi
Ndafumana umzimba phambi kokuba ndibuziwe ukuba yintoni imilo umphefumlo wam owawuthanda. Bathi nguwo lo ngosuku endafunda ukuhamba, nangona yonke imirrowa yandazisa kum umntu omunye. Hayi leyo ibhinqa. Hayi leyo iphukile. Kodwa... ayilunganga. Njengomculo odlalwa kwi-key engalunganga, ibonakala…funda okungakumbi
Kwaba ngu-2 ekuseni, kwaye umzi wawubonakala uphupha kancinci kunangoku. Ndahlala phantsi kwefasitela elikhulu elingaphezulu komhlaba kwi-2nd floor ye-brewery ethuleyo, ingilazi ye-wayini engaphelanga ibekwe phakathi kwezandla zam. Kwiindawo ezithile ngasemva kwam, i-jazz saxophone yanyamalala…funda okungakumbi
Bathi: Kutheni kubalulekile ukuba nomusa? Ndithe: Ngokuba sidibana nabantu abaninzi yonke imihla, kwaye asazi ngempela ukuba baphila ntoni. Abanye mhlawumbi bahluphekile, bakhathele, bahlala bodwa, okanye baphosa nje, abavakali imiqondiso yokuthi "ndiyazama". Kodwa ungakhe ulibale ukuba…funda okungakumbi



babuza, "kungani kubalulekile ukuba nomusa?" Ndathi, "ngokuba awazi ukuba ngubani ophulukana, odinwa, okanye obambelela kancinci. umusa wakho ungase ube yisoftness kuphela abayiva namhlanje"
Ndashiya ubulali ngoba, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lo msebenzi waba nzima ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama kumina. Ubulali ngumsebenzi odinga ukuthi unikeze kakhulu kuwe. Awunakekeli nje kuphela isifo somuntu. Unakekela umuntu wonke—umzimba wabo, imizwa yabo, ukwesaba kwabo, isithunzi sabo futhi,…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Uthando lukamama alupheli xa esishiya—luhlala lukhona kwiindaba esizixoxayo kunye nothando esabelana ngalo. Ndiyacinga ngawe ngalo lonke ixesha.

Le yividiyo endiyinayo endadala kodwa iqhubeka ndiyithokozisa kakhulu. Ndicela ndinikeze, iLake Toba ukusuka eNorth Sumatra. Ndibe lapha hayi ngempelasonto, kodwa ndandine umsebenzi (ungabona onke amaqhosha emlanjeni, lokho kukhula kwezinhlanzi). Lokhu bekungokokuqala kwami ukuba eHaranggaol. Futhi…funda okungakumbi
Uphola, uhleka, uhlala, akukho nto ihamba ngokuqhelekileyo. 💛

Iphasi yeMfazwe: Uthetha, uyakhala, kwaye ucelomngeni utshintsho. Oku ngokuqhelekileyo kukhombisa ukuxhomekeka. Usakholelwa ukuba ubudlelwane bunokulungiswa. Iphasi yoMsilili: Xa eguqula ukungakhali, umphakathi uvame ukucinga ukuba izinto "zihamba ngcono." Ngokwenene, uvele ubephumelele…funda okungakumbi
Umugqa wakhe apha undikhumbuza kakhulu xa ndandikhalela kwaye ndiphilisa umphefumlo wam kwiingxaki zangaphambili. Ndazithokozisa kwaye apha ababhali beLADS banqume ukufunda umphefumlo wam (jk) kwaye benza uRafayel akhumbuze ukuba😂❤️ kuyinto enkulu yokuthuthuzela, kancinci kuyaphazamiseka ekuqaleni…funda okungakumbi
Yisis Veilborne: Xa iZulu Liphuka Ipoem yeDark Fantasy yeNtlawulo yeThixo kunye neMikhwa engathembekiyo Iimpawu zaphuka zaba mnyama. Hayi mnyama njengemibala yeerhasi ezivuthayo phantsi kwelanga lasehlobo, Kodwa mnyama njengemilomo yeZulu, Njengemihla engamawaka yeenkwenkwezi ezifa zikhupha…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Le vidiyo ivela ku-Chase Hughes Official ku-YouTube. Iividiyo zakhe zikhulu. Andinakuqonda kodwa ndiyabona ukuhambelana kunye nomyalezo wokwabelana. Ikakhulu xa ndandikhuluma ngentlungu kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo kwaye ndandihambelana nomyalezo wokunceda ukunciphisa ubuhlungu. 2 imibuzo…funda okungakumbi
Ndibhale i-essay epheleleyo apha ekuqaleni, kodwa ndicinga ukuba iimpawu ezibanzi sele zikhona. Umntu endimthandayo akasakhona nam, kwaye nangona oko kungaba kuhle, kuyabuhlungu, kwaye kulungile. Ukuhlala naloo mva kuhlonipha ngakumbi kunokuzikhumbuza, ngakumbi ukuba ingxenye yokuphela kwayo…funda okungakumbi
Kodwa…ngokungacacanga, ilahlekelwe yinjongo yayo. Umntu undixelele, “awungakhe ube nomntu.” Kwaye, mhlawumbi, yiyo le nto le tattoo ibimele. Kodwa ngobusuku obuphelileyo, ndinephupha, elitshintshile izinto. Ngak suddenly, le tattoo ilahlekelwe yinjongo yayo. Kwaye ke, umjikelo we tattoo…funda okungakumbi


Andazi ukuba ndiza kukwazi na ukuvuma ngokwam ngenxa yale nto kodwa ndiyamthanda umphunga wam. Ibonisa ngokwenene ubunzulu endikufikelele khona ngoku kwaye akukho ndlela ndingakha ngayo okanye ndiphinde ndiyakhe. Ndiyakwazi ukuphuma kwiimeko zokuba ndiyazila ukulahleka kwayo ngendlela efanayo…funda okungakumbi
Ingxenye engcono kakhulu yokufumana ukuqonda kweqiniso kwi-AI kukuzwa iinyani endizidingayo ukuziqonda phambi kokuba ndibe yinto yokudlala emphakathini. Umzekelo, igems yayo yakutshanje: ''Umphakathi wakho wokuhlalutya malunga nokuhamba kwesiko kunye nokufakelwa kwezakhelo unembeko yomlando.…funda okungakumbi
Molo, igama lam nguKenshawn kodwa uShawn kulungile. Ndiyintsha kule app okanye kwi-apps ezifana nale ngokubanzi ngoko andiqondi kakuhle ukuba lokhu kuhamba njani kodwa ndiza kuthi ndifake indlela endiziva ngayo. Uhm, ndandikwi ubudlelwane kutshanje phambi kokuphela komlingane wam ngoko ndiyazisola…funda okungakumbi

Umdla awuhlali ubonakala njengentloni, ngamanye amaxesha umdla uyamamatheka, ngamanye amaxesha uyakuthanda, uthethelela ngaphezulu, kwaye uqhubele phambili nawe ngasentla, kukho abantu abavuma kuwe benemixholo emibi, bayakubulela ngaphandle ngelixa bephosa imicabango emibi ngaphakathi ngenxa…funda okungakumbi
akukho mfuneko yokoyika ukwazi ukuba sonke kufuneka siphume akukho mfuneko yokuba ndiyilahleleyo ngenxa yokuyibona emehlweni akho bekusele sekwephuzile ixesha elide ukuze kulungiswe umonakalo kuphela uThixo owazi ukuba ubephumelele ubungumntu oyedwa kuphela omnye kumabini ukuqonda ulwimi…funda okungakumbi

Usuku oluhle lwamama kwiingcali ezithwele uthando kwiindlela zonke. 🤍 Kwiimama ezilindele — mayibe nokholo kumandla amahle akhula ngaphakathi kwenu. Kwiimama eziphilisa umntwana wabo wangaphakathi ngelixa zikhulisa omnye — uthando lwenu luyabhalela iigenerations. Kwiimama ezikhumbulayo ukuba…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

"Kungani abantu bengakwazi ukusebenzisa amagama abo amakhulu ukuze baphawule omunye nomnye lokho abakufunayo?" I-Remarkably Bright Creatures ikhuluma ngendaba ye-octopus endala ehlanganisa nabantu abaninzi abahluphekayo. Ndawonye, baphola izilonda zomnye nomnye futhi bafunda ukuphila futhi.( ilungisiwe)

Abantu bahlala bephawula ukuba ukungathembeki kuyabuhlungu ngoba ulahlekelwa ngumntu omthandayo. Ndicinga ukuba kukhulu kunoko. Ukungathembeki kukwenza ubuze umphakathi wakho. Ngoba ngokuqhwanyaza, uphinda udlalise iingxoxo, ubheke iimpawu eziphosakeleyo, kwaye ucinga, "Kutheni ndingazange…funda okungakumbi
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Kubantu bonke ababephila ubuhlungu de kube ngoku, ithemba namhlanje likunika ukuthula okungakumbi kunemihla edlulileyo. Iqiniso kukuba asiphilanga, sifunda nje ukuphila noku.💗
Ndiyaziva ndikhaya nawe njengoko, kwathi, okokuqala ebomini bam bokuhamba, ndifumene indawo endiyiyo. Intliziyo yakho yaba yindawo yam yokhuseleko, ukuthula kwam, ikamva endikucinga. Kwaye ngoku ndifuna ukuba ndandizalwe ngamehlo avulekile okanye ndingaziva, ukuba ndingasindiswa kukucaciswa…funda okungakumbi