Umphakathi we-Equality

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Ukukhwabanisa kufihlekile ebunkundleni Ngakho-ke yini umphikisi wakhona Ngizothi kube lula Kuzobeka umhlaba endleleni yawo yokuphila Asikwazi ukugcina u-90% womhlaba ungenamandla Ukuze u-10% akwazi ukudla ushizi ongcono Sidinga umhlaba wokulingana Lokhu kuyimpahla yesizukulwane ngendlela…funda kabanzi

Ukulingana

Ukudla FUTHI ukuhamba ekhaya wedwa, lokho kuyiphupho( kulungiswe )

Uma bonke abesifazane bekhuluma ngenkululeko namandla, kungani indoda kufanele ikhokhe umhlangano? 🤔🤔🤔

Emphakathini lapho iningi labesifazane lifuna amandla nokulingana, kungani indoda kufanele ibe yiyo esekela ngokwezimali, inikeze konke kanti kubesifazane kukhona okwanele ukunikeza ubukhona babo?

Ithuna

Masikhulume ngama-tattoo! Ubulungiswa bomzimba bukhuluma ukuthini kuwe? Ingabe kuyinto ethusayo, noma uyibheka njengendlela yobuciko? Kimi, ithuna ikakhulukazi yisithombe sokuqonda komuntu kanye nombono wakhe. Lena ithuna lami lokuqala, futhi selinonyaka owodwa kuphela! Qiniseka, lingase…funda kabanzi

Abathandi - Ozakwethu abashadile

Ngithole umbuzo - uthanda ini kumuntu ukuze ushade? Okokuqala, kufanele sazi umehluko phakathi komuntu oshadwayo nomuntu ophumayo/othandayo. Kukhona izici eziningi ezifanayo phakathi kokubili njengoba kokubili kumela ubudlelwano. Ngithole umehluko omkhulu phakathi kokubili. (1) Ukuhlonipha -…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Ngiyavuma nje

Angiqondi abafana abathola ubuhlungu uma abesifazane bephakamisa izwi labo. Angikuboni lokhu njengokubeka bonke amadoda, kodwa kulabo abambalwa abacabanga kahle ngabo futhi babheke abesifazane njengabantu abaphansi ngenxa yokuthi singabesifazane. Uma ufuna ukwakha ubudlelwano nomuntu, kufanele kube…funda kabanzi

Ukulingana vs. Umehluko: Ipharadox noma Ukuvumelana?

Uma ukulingana kusho ukufana, ngabe ukujabulisa umehluko kuphikisana nakho noma kukugcwalisa?

Jabulani Usuku Lwabesifazane Emhlabeni 🌹

Siyazi ukuthi usuku nosuku lungolwakho. Nokho, kuhle ukuba nosuku lokukhumbula lokho futhi futhi ukukhumbuza ukuthi umphakathi usadinga ukuthuthukiswa mayelana nokulingana kwezobulili.

Ngivame ukubona ebhayilini yakho ukuthi ufuna abantu abaholwa "yizimiso." Ingabe lezi "inkululeko, ukufana, ubudlelwano"? 🤭

Ngicabanga ukuthi kungaba kuhle ukuhlela lezi zimiso esikhuluma ngazo, ngoba wonke umuntu unazo ezahlukene. Lokho kuzokugcina isikhathi esiningi 😉

Ukulingana vs Ukulinganiselwa

Ngibuka i-podcast ethile futhi okukhuluma kakhulu kuyinto efanele, njengokuhlonipha, nokuthi kungani kufanele noma kungafanele kwenziwe. Iphikiso layo litholakele ngenxa yokulinganiselwa. Abesifazane bahluleka noma baphansi uma kuqhathaniswa namadoda ngakho bakholelwa ukuthi banelungelo lokuthola…funda kabanzi

Yini ubufeministi

Ubufeministi iyinsizakalo yokulingana kwezobulili, iphikisa izinhlelo ezivimbela amalungelo, amathuba, nokuzimela kwabesifazane. Iphikisa ukuthi izakhiwo zomphakathi, ezepolitiki, nezomnotho ziye zathokozisa amadoda emlandweni, futhi ifuna ukulungisa lezi zimbangi ngokusebenza, ushintsho…funda kabanzi

Ukukhetha

Kubangane abakhathazekile okwamanje ukuthola umlingani ezinhlelweni zokuhlangana, masizame ukuthatha umzuzu sithole iqiniso ngokucacile. Ngempela, kukhona abantu abanesipho sokuhlangana nomlingani wabo lapho, kodwa ungavumeli i-algorithm yokuhlangana ikwenze ulahlekelwe umqondo…funda kabanzi

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Noma ngabe umuntu wesilisa noma wesifazane ubukeka kanjani, ekugcineni bazoguquka babe izinsalela. Izinhlaka, isikhumba, nenyama kuyinto eyodwa—kodwa abantu babamba isikhumba nenyama, besaba izinsalela ezingaphansi. Lokhu kuyisithakazelo sethu ezindaweni, ukwenqaba kwethu ngokuzithandela…funda kabanzi

Bafana, iningi lenu alikashadile ngoba nilindele ukuthi owesifazane akhokhele ukudla/ikhofi noma ahlanganyele nani ngo-50:50. Kuphelile --Izwi lokuhlakanipha elivela kumfazi ofundile futhi ophumelelayo lapha

Kukhona inzuzo esitatimendeni sakhe. Ekugcineni, konke kukhuluma ngesenzo, ukuba mnene, nokuba nobubele. Kodwa inkinga ivela lapho owesifazane ofanayo, olindele le "ngenxa yokuhlukahluka kwezobulili", esheshisa ukuveza ukulingana kwezobulili nemithetho ye-feminist ebudlelwaneni uma ikhululekile…funda kabanzi

Izinhlelo

Ngiyazama ngokwami uma abantu benomqondo omncane ngawe ngokocansi, lokhu kuyimpela impi noma ukuhlukaniswa okuncane. Akukhathalekile izenzo ezihloniphekile engizenzile njalo. Isibonelo: ezindlini zokugqoka nabantu abavela ebantwini bami, angibheki. Ubuso bami bukhona ekhoneni noma ophahleni.…funda kabanzi

"Ukulingana kubonakala njengokucindezelwa uma ujwayele ubungcweti"

Ucwaningo Ngomsuka Nokwabelana KweSisho Ngesikhathi socwaningo lwami, isisho esithi “Uma ujwayele ubungcweti, ukulingana kubonakala njengokucindezelwa” sesibe yisisho esidumile ezingxoxweni mayelana nezenzo zomphakathi, ukulingana, kanye nokubandlululwa kwezinhlelo. Naphezu kokudumile kwaso,…funda kabanzi

Intengo Yokuba Njengoba…

Umhlaba wanamuhla ulinganisa inani ngemali. Abanothile bathola amandla, ukuhlonishwa, namathuba ngokuzenzakalelayo, kuyilapho amaphutha abo evame ukungabhekwa. Kodwa abantu abajwayelekile abafuna ubulungiswa bahlulelwa ngokufuna “phezulu kakhulu,” njengokuthi ukuvumelana kudinga…funda kabanzi

*UKHULU KWEZINTO EZIMEXICAN KWEZINTO EZITHILE, KANTI AKUKHULU KWEZINTO EZIMERICAN KWEZINTO LAPHA*

Anginankinga ngokuthi amaChicanos anenhlangano noma abantu abamnyama benenhlangano. Banamalungelo wonke okulwa nezindawo zabo. Kodwa kwenzekani kwabanye bonke? Kwenzekani kubantu abangafaki kahle ebhokisini elilodwa lezenhlanga noma lesiko? Ngazalwa eMexico, kodwa ngakhulela eTexas kusukela…funda kabanzi

Ubuqhawe noma ukufana?

Ungakhetha ubudlelwano obubuswa ngabesifazane empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu noma okuthile okufana?

Uxolo madoda, kodwa ubungcweti buphukile futhi abesifazane babulale.

Ngibone le mibuzo emibili muva: Kungani amadoda engasondeli noma engafuni abesifazane njengokwakujwayelekile? futhi Kungani amadoda engazami ukujabulisa ngemva kokuthi ethi cha? Isizathu esiyinhloko sokuthi asijwayele ukujaha kakhulu noma sizame ukunqoba ukwenqatshwa ukuthi singalahlekelwa…funda kabanzi

Ngiyethula; Ukulingana Kokuhlupheka

Ukuhumusha kwanamuhla

Ngizizwa kufanele kube nesisekelo sanamuhla nesivamile sokucabanga kwe-socialist esingasebenzisi amandla omlando nezithembiso zezinhlelo ezindala zesiSoviet. Lokhu kungenzeka sekukhona ucwaningo oluthile olwenziwe ngakho, kodwa ngizizwa inkinga enkulu ngephrojekthi ze-socialist zenkathi edlule…funda kabanzi

Kubantu Abesifazane

Uma ufuna umlingani ophikisana nobukhosi, lungela ukuhlinzeka ngenhlonipho yangempela, hhayi kuphela izicelo. Indoda engaphansi kobukhosi ayifuni ukuhamba phansi. Kunalokho, ibheka indawo ephephile yokuba nezinselelo kanye nomlingani ofanayo ongathembela kuye. Ngokuphathelene nalokho, ukuvumelana…funda kabanzi

Ngisho nokubuza ngokulingana phakathi kwabantu besilisa nabesifazane kuphume emhlabeni. Kungumnyaka ka-2026, imibuzo efana nokuthi "Ubani okhokha ezinsukwini?", "Ubani okufanele enze imisebenzi yasekhaya?" bas

Ngokuqinisekile, uma kukhona izinto ezifana nokuthi "Uthola u-10k ngenyanga kanti omunye uthola u-2k" kubonakala ukuthi uma ophakathi efuna ukuya endaweni yokudlela ethokozisayo, uzokhokha, ngisho, kumunye kuzoba yinsizi. Futhi kubonakala ukuthi uma omunye esebenza isikhathi esigcwele kanti omunye…funda kabanzi

I-Hypergamy

Akukho okungalungile nge-hypergamy, okuyimvelo yabesifazane futhi kusemvelweni. Abesifazane bahlala beshada noma bahlala bejolisa phezulu, futhi indoda iyinhloko, ivikela futhi ihlinzeka ebudlelwaneni. Ayikho ukufana ebudlelwaneni.

I-Feminism ayiyona i-ideology eyodwa efanayo

Iyi-movement ebanzi eyakhiwe ngama-perspectives, priorities, nezindlela eziningi. Le ddiversity iyisizathu esisodwa sokuthi i-feminism ibe nomthelela, kodwa futhi iyisizathu sokuthi ukungavumelani kuvame ukuvela ngaphakathi kwalesi sikhungo. Abafeministi abahlukene bangavuma ngenhloso yokulingana…funda kabanzi

I-Bio Yami Ebuyeke

I-Bio Yami Ebuyeke: Ngiyanibingelela nonke, kuhle ukuhlangana nani. Ninjani, ningangibiza ngoHou. Kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi akudingekile ukuzethula, ngoba ngikholelwa ngempela ukuthi ekugcineni nizokwazi mina ngokushesha ngezinyathelo zami zansuku zonke. Lokhu kusho ukuthi angizange ngize lapha ukuze…funda kabanzi

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Ukulingana kuyisikhali esingenayo isibambo, sishaya wonke umuntu. Akukhona kuphela labo abasebenzisa ukulingana kodwa nalabo abafuna ukuba yizinto zokuqala, labo abangazange bazalwe, labo abafuna ukuba bangabi nalutho lokwenza nezinto kodwa baphonswa kuyo.