Umphakathi we-Grieving
Umphakathi we-grieving, ingxoxo, nokudingida.
934 IMIMOYA
KONKE
grieving
Hlangana Nabantu Abasha
OKULANDAYO
Umphakathi we-grieving, ingxoxo, nokudingida.
934 IMIMOYA
KONKE
grieving
Hlangana Nabantu Abasha
OKULANDAYO
“Kuhlale kusenesikhathi ukusho ukuthi uhambe kahle. Nakuba kukhona ukukhululeka ekupheleni kokuhlupheka okukhulu, lokho akunciphisi usizi esikuzwayo." — Jeannie Hund
Umngane wami omncane wezohambo ushonile izolo ebusuku, ngikhathazekile futhi ngizomkhumbula kakhulu. Njengokuhlonipha yena, nikeza umvuzo omncane kumakhelwane wakho noma uye emjahweni endaweni, thokozisa ngezithombe nezimfuno. Wayethanda ukuhluza zonke izimbali nezihlahla zephayini, lokho…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Umama akasaphathwa ubuhlungu. Manje sekuyisikhathi sami sokulimala..
Ukulahlekelwa umama kufana nokulahlekelwa ingxenye yempilo yakho engakaze ibuyiswe🥀
yini ekusizayo ezinsukwini lapho ubuhlungu bukhona kakhulu?
Into enzima engiyenzile wukuvuma ukuthi ukulila okukodwa kuyizinkinga zonke zokulila futhi kufanele ngime ngicubungule izinto ngesikhathi sangempela noma ngibhekane nazo zonke kabili kamuva. Ngisasebenza ngale ndlela yonke kodwa indlela kuphela ngempela iyindlela. 💛

Hey bangani, Angikaze ngibe lapha ngoba ngikhala ngempilo yami. Ngabe ngiyaziqhenya kakhulu ngothando lwami, ngakho lokhu kungithinta kakhulu. Ngithatha isikhathi esincane sokuphumula ku-app kodwa ngizobuyela. Ngiyethemba nonke ninokuphila okuhle konyaka omusha. Xoxo 💋
Ngilahlekelwe iklayenti lami namuhla cishe ngo-6:30pm. Ngizizwa ngingenamizwa. Ngiyazi ukuthi ngizomkhumbula kakhulu. Kodwa ngizizwa sengathi akukho okuzongithinta kuze kube kusasa. Kubonakala kungaqondakali kahle manje 😔

Khala ngendlela OFUNA ukuyikhala. Ngifisa ukuthi singakwazi ukwenza kube yinto ejwayelekile ukuhlonipha indlela umuntu akhala ngayo (kuze kube akukho crime okwenziwayo). Angikwazi ukukutshela ukuthi zingaki izikhathi engizizwa abantu besho ukuthi "owesilisa akabonakali edabukile" noma "owesilisa…funda kabanzi

Impilo ye-puppy yami iphelelwe yisikhathi masinyane futhi angikwazi ukuqonda ukuthi umuntu ubhekana kanjani nokudabuka.
Ngicela ingxenye encane engiyihlanganisile. Ngithandaza njalo ebusuku ngaphambi kokulala.

Ngoba ngiqinisekile angifuni ukukhuluma ngakho, ngabe kukhona muntu, ngempela, ofuna ukwamukela isimemo sami sokuphuza iwayini nokudla kwasebusuku, noma kuphi eDubai angikhathazeki. Masikhale ndawonye ngaphandle kokungibuza ukuthi kwenzekeni 🤜🤛
Umculo, ikakhulukazi izingoma eziphathelene nokufa, ungaba yindlela yokuthi abantu bakhombise futhi bacubungule imizwa yabo yokudabuka nokulahlekelwa. Ukulalela izingoma ezikhuluma ngezihloko zokuphila nokufa kungasiza abantu ukuba bazizwe beqondwa futhi bebona emsadukeni wabo futhi bathole…funda kabanzi
“ Ngicabanga ukuthi ngizocela impilo yami yonke. Futhi ngeke ngikwazi ukuyiqonda. Ngisho noma uNkulunkulu uqobo efika phambi kwami futhi engitshela isizathu, angicabangi ukuthi ngizokwamukela. Ezinye uthando zinzima kakhulu ukuzithwala. Futhi uthando olukhulu luza nobuhlungu obukhulu. Futhi…funda kabanzi
kuhle ngicabanga ukuthi ngithole elisha! 🙄🤨
umgexo omuhle kakhulu kumfowethu othandwayo Ngiyakuthanda mfowethu omkhulu ❤️

Okuthunyelwe Okuhlobene
Ngiyayeka. Futhi ngiyasho lokho kusuka ezindaweni ezijulile, ezimnyama zentliziyo yami. Hhayi empilweni. Hhayi kimi. Hhayi esikhathini esizayo engichithe isikhathi eside ngikuphupha. Lokhu akusiyo impilo yokugcina, futhi akusiyo ukuhamba phansi ebumnyameni. Kuyisithembiso. Isithembiso esithule…funda kabanzi
Amadoda avame ukuhlela ukuhlukana kamuva kunabesifazane ngenxa yokwehluka kokucubungula imizwa, ukufundiswa komphakathi, nokuthi ukuphela kobudlelwano kuhamba kanjani. Ukudabuka Ngaphambi Kokuhlukana: Abesifazane abaningi bahlukanisa imizwa futhi bacubungule ukuwohloka kobudlelwano ngaphambi…funda kabanzi
"Yingakho sihlangene kusenesikhathi ngoba ngeke sibe ndawonye uma sesidala." 🥹 Mhlawumbe abanye abantu bangena ezimpilweni zethu kusenesikhathi ngoba impilo iyazi ukuthi ngeke sibe nabo phakade. Futhi mhlawumbe lokho okwenza ukuthanda kwabo kube nobuhlungu; sihlangana nabo ngaphambi kokuba…funda kabanzi
Ngithanda ukuhamba ngedwa kunokulahlekelwa yimi emoyeni yomunye.. Ungayidlala kanjani lezi zinhlelo zokusebenza?

Kimi, kuwukubuya ekhaya nokwazi ukuthi abakhona khona...

Uma ukubonakaliswa kwakho kungaphuma emfanekisweni kanye ngonyaka futhi kukutshele iqiniso elilodwa oliphikayo, ucabangani ukuthi kuzokutshela? Impendulo yami Kungenzeka ukuthi kuzokutshela, “Usaqhubeka nokukhala ngezinto ozama ukuzikhulula kuzo.” Futhi ngeke ngivumele ukuba ngibheke kude kuze…funda kabanzi
Akekho okhuluma ngokuthi kunzima kangakanani ukuveza inguqulo engcono kakhulu yakho ngenkathi uphathwa kabi. Kunzima kangakanani ukuhlala uthambile uma impilo iqhubeka ikunika izizathu zokuba qinile. Kunzima kangakanani ukuxhumana ngokuthula uma uqhubeka uqondwa kabi. Kunzima kangakanani…funda kabanzi
Mhlawumbe okwenza sibe neqhaza kumuntu akusikho ukuthi ubani, kodwa ukuthi sikholelwa ukuthi bangaba ngubani. Sihumusha ukuthula, sinika incazelo ezinyathelweni, sigcwalisa izikhala ezingenalutho, futhi sakha ikusasa eliphelele ezintweni ezingase zabe zingakaze zibe nencazelo efanayo kumuntu omunye…funda kabanzi

Ngihlezi lapha ngikhumbula isikhathi sokugcina engadabuka ngale ndlela futhi ngikhumbule ukuhamba ezindaweni ezithile e-Utah amahora namahora, ngilalela umculo, ngicabanga ngokujulile, ngikhala, futhi nginokholo lokubhekana nemizwa ejulile kangangokuthi kwangizwa sengathi kuzongibulala. Ngifuna…funda kabanzi

Ukuphikiswa kwami kweziqu kwakuyinto eyodwa kuphela eyayimi phakathi kwami nokuphothula. Iminyaka emine yomsebenzi onzima yehla kwethulwe okukodwa. Ngobusuku ngaphambi kwalokho, ugogo wami washona. Ngathola ucingo eduze kwemini. Ngokuzumayo, ama-slide ami awabazanga. Iskripthi sami asizange sibe…funda kabanzi
Ngathola umzimba ngaphambi kokuthi ngicelwe ukuthi yisiphi isimo umphefumulo wami owawuthanda. Bawubiza ngokwami ngosuku engafunda khona ukuphefumula, kodwa zonke izibuko zangenisa kumuntu omunye. Hhayi lehlayo. Hhayi ophukile. Kodwa... kulungile. Njengomculo odlalwa ngempela, owaziwa kahle…funda kabanzi
Kwake kwaba yizinsuku ezimbili ekuseni, futhi idolobha labonakala likhula kancane kunjengokujwayelekile. Ngahlala eduze kwefasitela elikhulu eliphakeme emnyango wesibili wesikhungo sokuphuza esithule, ingilazi ye-wayini engaphelele iphakathi kwezandla zami. Endaweni ethile ngemuva kwami, i-jazz…funda kabanzi
Bathi: Kungani kubalulekile ukuba nomusa? Ngathi: Ngoba sidlula ezandleni zabantu abaningi nsuku zonke, futhi asazi ngempela ukuthi baphila kanjani. Abanye bangase babe nokudabuka, bakhathele, bahlala bodwa, noma baphila kancane, abakhombisi izimpawu zokuthi "ngiyazama". Kodwa ungakukhohlwa…funda kabanzi



babuza, "kungani kubalulekile ukuba nomusa?" Ngathi, "ngoba awazi ukuthi ubani ophukile, odinwa, noma ophakathi kokubamba. umusa wakho ungase ube yiso kuphela esithambile abahlangabezana naso namuhla"
Ngishiye umsebenzi wokunakekela ngoba, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lo msebenzi waba nzima ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama kimi. Umsebenzi wokunakekela uyichwephesha edinga ukuthi unikeze kakhulu kuwe. Awunakekeli nje kuphela isifo somuntu. Unakekela umuntu wonke—umzimba wabo, imizwa yabo, ukwesaba kwabo,…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Uthando lukamama alupheli uma esishiya—luphila ezindabeni esizixoxayo nasothando esabelana ngalo. Ngicabanga ngawe njalo.

Le yividiyo endala enginayo kodwa iqhubeka ingijabulisa kakhulu. Ngivumele ngikwenze wazi, iLake Toba eseningizimu yeSumatra. Ngikule ndawo hhayi ngempelasonto, kodwa nginokusebenza okuthile (ungabona zonke izinkukhu emfuleni, lokho kuyinhlangano yokufuya fish). Lokhu kuwukuhamba kwami kokuqala…funda kabanzi
Ukuphola, ukudabuka, ukusinda, akukho okungumugqa. 💛

Isigaba Sokulwa: Uveza imizwa, uyakhala, futhi ucelwa ushintsho. Lokhu empeleni kuyisibonakaliso sokubopha. Usakholelwa ukuthi ubudlelwano bungalungiswa. Isigaba Sokuthula: Lapho eba silent, umlingani uvame ukucabanga ukuthi izinto "zihamba kahle." Empeleni, usuhambisile ngokomzwelo. Ukuphuma:…funda kabanzi
Umugqa wakhe lapha ungikhumbuza kakhulu ngesikhathi ngidabuka futhi ngiphola emishadweni edlule. Ngizithokozisa futhi lapha ababhali beLADS banqume ukufunda ingqondo yami (jk) futhi benza uRafayel akhulume lokho😂❤️ kuyasiza kakhulu, kuqala kwangithokozisa kodwa ngagcina ngishisa inhliziyo yami 😇
Yisis Veilborne: Lapho Izulu Liphuka Ipoem yeDark Fantasy yeNhliziyo kaNkulunkulu kanye Nezithunywa Ezingenankolo Izinkanyezi zaba bomvu. Hhayi ubomvu njengama-rose akhula phansi kwelanga lasehlobo, Kodwa bomvu njengemivimbo yezulu, Njengemithala eyinkulungwane efayo igazi phakathi kobumnyama…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Le vidiyo ivela ku-Chase Hughes Official ku-YouTube. Ividiyo zakhe zinhle. Anginayo imicabango kodwa ngiyabona ukuhambisana nokuzizwa ngifuna ukwabelana. Ikakhulukazi lapho ngikhuluma ng anger ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule bese ngihambisana nomyalezo wokunciphisa ubuhlungu. Imibuzo emibili…funda kabanzi
Ngibhale isichazamazwi esigcwele lapha ekuqaleni, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi izigaba ezibanzi seziwukwabelana kakhulu. Ongithandayo akasakhona nami, futhi nakuba lokho kungase kube kuhle, kubuhlungu, futhi kulungile. Ukuba nalolo buhlungu kuhlonipha kakhulu kunokuzithokozisa, ikakhulukazi uma…funda kabanzi
Kodwa…ngenxa yokuthi, ilahlekelwe incazelo yayo. Omunye ungitshele, “awukwazi ukuba nomuntu.” Futhi, mhlawumbe, lokho kwakusho le tattoo. Kodwa izolo ebusuku, ngaba nephupho, elashintsha izinto. Ngaz suddenly, le tattoo ilahlekelwe incazelo yayo. Futhi, ngakho-ke, iseshini ye tattoo iphelile,…funda kabanzi


Angazi ukuthi ngizokwazi yini ukuxolela mina ngalokhu kodwa ngiyamfuna umoya wami. Lokhu kuveza kahle ubunzulu engikufikile manje futhi akukho ndlela engingasebenza ngayo ukuze ngikubuyise noma ngikubuyisele. Angikwazi ukuphunyuka eqinisweni lokuthi ngiyakhala ngalesi sikhathi ngendlela efanayo…funda kabanzi
Ingxenye engcono kakhulu yokuhlolwa kweqiniso yi-AI ukuzwa amaqiniso engidinga ukuwazisa ngaphambi kokwenza isihlahla somphakathi. Isibonelo, igem gem yayo yakamuva: ''Iphuzu lakho lokuhlaziya mayelana nokuhamba kwesiko nokufaka izinsalela linembile emlandweni. Nokho, ukufaka le mpendulo…funda kabanzi
Sawubona, igama lami nguKenshawn kodwa uShawn kulungile. Ngisha kule app noma kuma-app afana nalokhu ngakho angazi kahle ukuthi lokhu kuhamba kanjani kodwa ngizokhuluma nje ngendlela engizizwa ngayo. Uhm, ngabe ngisanda kube nobudlelwano ngaphambi kokushona kwabalingani bami ngakho ngikhathazekile…funda kabanzi

Ubujealousy abukhombisi njalo njengokwenqaba, kwesinye isikhathi ubujealousy buhleka, kwesinye isikhathi bukhuluma kahle ngawe, buphinde bakuqhakambisa emphakathini futhi buqhudelana nawe ngasemuva. Kukhona abantu abaphakamisayo ngawe benenhliziyo ethukile, bagubha ngawe ngaphandle kanti bahlupheka…funda kabanzi
akukho sidingo sokwesaba uma sikwazi ukuthi sonke kufanele sihambe akukhona okudingekayo kimi ukulahlekelwa yikho ngokubona lokho emehlweni akho bekusele sekwephuzile isikhathi eside sokulungisa umonakalo kuphela uNkulunkulu uyazi ukuthi ubuphumelele kanjani ubungumuntu oyedwa owayazi kahle ulimi…funda kabanzi

Usuku oluhle lwamamama kubantu abesifazane abaphethe uthando ngendlela yonke. 🤍 Kubamama abakhulayo — maye nithande amandla amahle akhula ngaphakathi kwenu. Kubamama abaphilisa ingane yabo yangaphakathi ngenkathi bekhulisa eyodwa — uthando lwenu luyabhalela izizukulwane. Kubamama abakhumbula…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

"Kungani abantu bengakwazi ukusebenzisa amagama abo ayizigidi ukuze baphawule omunye nomunye lokho abakufunayo?" I-Remarkably Bright Creatures ikhuluma ngendaba ye-octopus eshiywe yisikhathi ehlanganisa nabantu ababili abahluphekayo. Ndawonye, baphola izilonda zomunye nomunye futhi bafunda ukuphila…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Abantu bavame ukusho ukuthi ukuhweba kubuhlungu ngoba ulahlekelwa umuntu omthandayo. Ngicabanga ukuthi kukhona okungaphezu kwalokho. Ukuhweba kukwenza ubuze ukwahlulela kwakho. Ngoba ngokuzumayo, uphinda udlalela izingxoxo, ubheka izimpawu eziphuthelwe, futhi uzibuza, "Kanjani…funda kabanzi
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Kubantu bonke ababephila ubuhlungu kuze kube manje, Ithemba namuhla likunikeze ukuthula okuncane kakhulu kunokwakusasa. Iqiniso ukuthi asiphilile, sifunda kuphela ukuphila nakho.💗
Ngempela ngazizwa ngikhaya nawe njengokuthi, okokuqala empilweni yami yokuhamba, ngithole indawo engiyifanelwe. Inhliziyo yakho yaba yindawo yami yokuphepha, ukuthula kwami, ikhambo engikucabangayo. Futhi manje ngicela ngabe ngizalwe ngophukile noma ngingazwakali, ukuthi ngingagwenywa ubukhali…funda kabanzi