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Beautiful Sadness of Awareness

Having the gift to see right through human souls is both a blessing and a curse. My inner scanner always knew exactly where someone was hurting, and my inner Savior would immediately take over.Only today did I realize how that very savior was making me a Martyr. Seeing someone's potential, I began... read more

Realization for today

Sometimes, it's truly wonderful to enjoy my own company and find peace in solitude 🧘‍♀️. However, I've come to realize that while being alone is nice, it's even more delightful to have someone to share life's journey with. Walking together, whether it's through a park or just down the street,... read more

Favorite song right now!

Jinjer - wallflower. Stay in, stay in, you can be alone Stay in, stay in, you can feel like home Breathe in, it's a place where you belong Where no one, no one, no one does you wrong Your castle is your fortress Where you can lick your wounds You are people avoiding people And fall in love with... read more

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Don't rush to find a partner. Focus on building yourself first, love and appreciate yourself first, take care of yourself, focus on your direction, strengthen your mentality, be happy on your own, be the best version of yourself. Because not all solitude is loneliness, sometimes it is the time... read more

Mon pinceau devient ma thérapie

Ça m’arrive de revoir toute ma vie en boucle — chaque moment, chaque erreur, chaque trahison — et à chaque fois, je me dis la même chose : c’est de ma faute. Je dois m’améliorer. Je dois changer. Je dois arrêter de croire que tout le monde est bon. Mais la vérité ? Personne ne sera jamais... (edited) read more

I’m tired of being told to try harder to meet more people, attend more events, be more social as if effort comes with a guarantee. It doesn’t. More effort may improve the odds, but it doesn’t create the right connection.

What frustrates me even more is the suggestion that I should lower my standards or choose someone simply because they’re available. Available isn’t the same as compatible. Why would I build a life with someone I don’t genuinely want? To satisfy a timeline? To avoid judgment? To make other people... read more