Halaxy

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Would you date me?

Yes or no? Why or why not? Just looking for people's opinions and thoughts. Open to any comments

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Bruce

3mo

INTP
Aquarius

5w6

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I'm not sure how answering this question is productive. I like constructive-critisim for sure, but what are you hoping to achieve by getting random people to rate/and-or judge you?

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Halaxy

3mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

7w6

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I was just wondering if anyone thought I was pretty or would hypothetically want to be my Boyfriend. I'm not looking to actually find someone on here to date just from this post. I was curious on the replies I'd get. I've accepted I'm going to pretty much be alone forever 🙃

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Bruce

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Aquarius

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@Halaxy It's not likely that people would directly tell you that you are hideous, unless of course those people are also. (I use looks as an example). No, I'm not calling you hideous or ugly - again, just using that as an example, as physical looks is the easiest way to initially judge someone. It takes no time and almost no effort to see only skin deep. You are far from it! I do think that telling you things about yourself I might not like; it doesn't really help. Especially since you may want to try and adopt or change yourself to reflect those qualities. As someone who knows nothing about you it's not a good judge of your being. It would be a shame for you to change yourself just because of some poor words I (a stranger) might use to describe you and the reasons why I wouldn't date you. I don't know if I would date you. That would require you wanting to date me too. One post probably is not enough to make such assumptions. Alone? Hmmm... I don't know. We are all alone in someway. We reflect our personality as best as we can to the outside world, to whom sees it and they make calls. Ultimately though, no one knows anyone.

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Halaxy

3mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

7w6

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@Bruce Thank you

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Chris

3mo

INFJ
Gemini

@Halaxy I definitely think you are pretty. We have some big things in common, cat people, cooking, Christianity. I think we would make friends. But since your profile says you are asexual we wouldn't be compatible for dating. Don't accept being alone, you seem like a nice person. Hang in there, I'm sure you will meet someone compatible who you get along with.

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George

3mo

INTJ
Leo

No, because I don't think you would make an effort for a significant other

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E.

3mo

INFP
Pisces

9w1

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That's interesting, what's giving you that impression?

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George

3mo

INTJ
Leo

@E. On her profile she says she's "crazy for freckles, a nice voice and amazing hair" which makes me believe she could be shallow. I just don't think she would commit to meeting someone

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E.

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INFP
Pisces

9w1

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@George Yeah, that stood out to me too, lol. I didn't read that as them being shallow or noncommittal, it just seemed like it was more them knowing what they've been attracted to in the past but I see your point!

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Dennis Everling

3mo

INFJ
Aquarius

Yes because we can eat chocolate and play genshin which I only played for 2 hours so far lol

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Halaxy

3mo

ISTJ
Scorpio

7w6

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That sounds like a fun time

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Dennis Everling

3mo

INFJ
Aquarius

@Halaxy Lol thank you

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Abram

3mo

ISFP
Pisces

6w7

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I would, if you have a good personality.

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Tania

7d

INFJ
Aries

5w4

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You like cats and I have a cat, so I guess that would be a yes? 😬

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Halaxy

7d

ISTJ
Scorpio

7w6

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Thanks for your honesty. However, I'm currently dating someone

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Tania

7d

INFJ
Aries

5w4

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@Halaxy good for you sweetie. I thought it was a general question 🤣🤣, not an interview

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Halaxy

7d

ISTJ
Scorpio

7w6

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@Tania it was just a question, you're right. I just didn't want to be mean and say something hurtful

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Tania

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INFJ
Aries

5w4

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@Halaxy it's fine. I always assume the worst :3

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Ricardo

3mo

INTP
Scorpio

6w7

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Yas

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Balaji

3mo

ENFP
Sagittarius

7w8

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No I think I'm not sure. I feel basically you're not interested in it. However I try, I think it ll go waste

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M

25d

INFP
Capricorn

5w4

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I could imagine it. The ace thing doesn't really bother me and you seem pretty cool and down to Earth from your posts and profile. At the very least, I think you'd make a great friend to talk to, it's tough to find folks to connect with nowadays :/

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Yosef

3mo

ISTP
Aquarius

7w8

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Personality-wise, youre very sweet. And you have a cat and I like to cook. The only issue I would have is that you're a christian and I'm jewish. I intend to marry jewish, so I wouldnt date outside my religion. Other than that, you seem absolutely lovely 😊

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Tomas

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ENFP
Scorpio

7w8

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Based on what?? :)

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Chris

3mo

ISFJ
Leo

4w5

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No, but only because of the age difference and distance.

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Mitchell

3mo

INTP
Aries

Yes Because your similar to me in a way

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Steve

3mo

INTP
Aquarius

4w5

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In a simulation/alternative timeline where physical distance is not at all a problem, I'd give it an attempt simply because I also like similar foods, love winter and cats. It's a dang shame I can never really hold a cat since I'm allergic.

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Tobias

3mo

INTJ
Cancer

6w5

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I would probably be interested because of some of our mutual interests, but then not because you're asexual and live at home

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Nick

3mo

ISFJ
Aries

Yeah, I think we sbould get along well. Seems we have things in common. Would be fun :)

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