Attraction Community

#3

Gentle reminder that just because so much urgent and lifelike love went rumbling around underground and died there, never got expressed at all, do not let some errant inconvenient attraction have its way :)

Real men Do genuinely kind and respectful men still exist—men who are truly seeking a meaningful, long-term relationship rather than being primarily driven by physical attraction or libido?

What makes someone truly unforgettable to you?

I don’t think attraction is only about looks anymore. Some people are unforgettable because of their energy, their mindset, the way they speak, or simply how they make you feel when you’re around them. What’s something that instantly makes a person stand out to you?

The workplace is not the only place you need to mind your ps and qs

It is genuinely exhausting how often “getting to know someone” immediately turns into managing another person’s sexual expectations. There is nothing wrong with attraction. There is nothing wrong with desire. What is wrong is acting like those things are more important than the comfort,... read more

JUST SAYING 🫶🏿

When you choose someone to build a life with, don't only look at how they make you feel. Look at how they communicate when things get hard. How they treat you when they're tired. How they handle pressure, disappointment, responsibility, and change. Because attraction can begin a story, but... read more

A suggestion for the guys

When scrolling through the feed, consider replying to the post without checking out the poster. You might find that your replies are more real when not based on the posters attraction. And drink more water