Attraction Community

If you can't be friends with someone, what's the point of pursuing a relationship with them?

Enjoying spending time together. Being able to talk, laugh, and be yourselves. Trusting one another. Supporting each other through difficult times. Having physical and romantic attraction The bad thing is that you can have all this, and still hit rejection. Which in turn can make your... read more

Attraction

IMO the most attractive thing a man can do is make a woman feel secure, not confused. 🤍 Fellas… what is the most attractive thing a woman can do?

Reading Bios, or the entire profile.

Does anyone else read every profiles bio? Attraction is nice, but it feels like sometimes people don't read them.

Alright men, let me *try* to explain Asexuality for ya...

I say "men" because, so far, it's only been men in my comments trying to argue with me or belittle me about my own orientation. Before commenting, please take five minutes to research something beyond a Google or tiktok search for "gotcha" arguments. Asexuality is a sexual orientation. It means... read more

Relationship is not transaction ❤️

A relationship is not a transaction where every date deserves a return on investment. Today's women are educated, financially independent, and capable of building fulfilling lives on their own. Most aren't searching for someone to rescue them. They're searching for someone who adds value to their... read more

I just happened to meet a foreign couple at a tourist spot and we started talking. The conversation naturally turned toward their relationship.

They shared that their children are grown now, life has settled into a routine, and traveling together is one of the ways they keep things from feeling too repetitive. I joked, “Then maybe you should travel every day.” We all laughed, and then they asked me framed with genuine curiosity as a... read more