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Nice Guy < Bad Guy < Self Respect

I was prioritising being accomodating over my own needs and time, we were not equals and that killed the spark. Took me a while to understand this one, and it costed me a bond with a very genuine girl, but in the end, it was for the best. Live and learn.

Response to Jordan Peterson

“You want to avoid suffering, you don’t want to be happy, you want to avoid suffering.” And then happiness can emerge naturally in passing moments during periods of peace. Also, others don’t “make you happy” we are all responsible for our own happiness and entering into this state. Others can add... read more

Damage Control ™️

Most people assume silence equals indifference. But a lot of silence actually comes from overthinking, fear of saying the wrong thing, or not knowing how to translate feelings into words. Some people go quiet because they don’t care. Some go quiet because they care too much. Everyone has... read more

The Epicurean paradox

For those with a truly philosophical bent... The traditional concept of God attributes to him the simultaneous qualities of omnipotence, omnibenevolence, and omniscience. Omniscience implies full knowledge, on his part, of all things, including past and future eventualities. Omnipotence suggests... read more

80's equals old? But can't lie....have had pretty much this conversation a few times...🤣 (edited)