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Why long-distance relationships which begin online don't work

My fever is a bit down, so I can focus on a much more interesting topic! A common debate around here is whether long-distance dating - specifically when people meet online and "commit" before ever crossing paths in real life - is actually a good idea. While personal opinions may vary, peer-reviewed... read more

"What's your opinion on love?

I've been heartbroken, and it feels impossible to ever experience those feelings again. To me, love between a man and a woman feels like an illusion, yet I still hope that one day I can heal from this broken heart."

The illusion

I didn’t want to just be friends.

A couple of months ago, I got rejected pretty harshly by this woman that I was beginning to be interested in. I was taking my time to see if we were a good fit. We talked a lot about relationships and life goals, so I saw great potential in our commonalities there. During this event that we... read more

Love is just not for me :)

It has been so long since I last cried with a heart that feels like shattering. To me, someone who can easily find love, love seems like an illusion that doesn't even exist. They want me, yet why is it that once I am theirs, they fail to cherish and care for me the way I deserve? I will try to let... read more

Just An Illusion