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Posted Sunday, November 5, 2023

3mo

INFJ
Libra

How can I win back my INTP?

Hello! This may sound funny, but I am seeking for your advice. I want my INTP back. He has been seriously damaged emotionally, and he has been guarded since then. I could barely start a conversation with him. To the INTP men out there, could you let me know what makes you get back to an ex? What can someone do to you that can make your heart melt?

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Lawrence

3mo

INTP
Aries

Yeah it depends on the circumstances. For me personally, once someone is an ex they're staying an ex--I gave it my best shot, discovered some crucial incompatibilities, and that's it. People can change and grow but that's a process that takes years. And I could be spending those years on someone who has better compatibility, or who does not have a negative history with me.

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Dave

3mo

INTP
Taurus

2w1

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I have yet to get back together with an ex. Personally once my trust has been screwed enough to leave the relationship it’s probably not coming back. They’re an ex for a reason.

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THE ADDY 11:11

3mo

ISFP
Aquarius

2w1

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It depends on reason why she left or selected

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AR

3mo

INTP
Sagittarius

9w1

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Give him the most logical and sensible explanation on why you did what you had to do. Start with an intellectual conversation or ask him some doubts on some topic that he’s interested in. Then blend in your logical reasoning.

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Damdam

3mo

INFJ

2w1

2

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Wait, were you the one who got him emotionally damaged? And you expect him to talk normally again and want to win him back? If that's the case then you should fix that narcissism tendency, work on being a better person, and move on.

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Sayak

3mo

INTP
Sagittarius

9w8

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First of all an INTP person doesn't like to be judged and we have less feelings and more logical relationships so to get back to that type of guy you have to change yourself and let him have low mind pressure (by not talking shts)... For now this should be better..and if you want to know more then just ask that guy..he may tell you once he gets nice view of yours (but asking that question can have opposite reaction)

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Marshall

3mo

INTP

4w5

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Did you, in anyway, imply that he's not expressive with his feelings towards you? And he has not been expressing enough with you?

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Wyatt Johnson

3mo

INTP
Cancer

Depends on what caused you guys to break up. Of he thinks you wronged him then you'll probably just have to move on. If it's something else just be patient and let him know you still want to be part of his life.

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Ramy

1mo

INTP

6w7

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Really depends on what exactly happened, not enough information to give any solid advice here. With that said, if I ever deliberately chose to run away from someone, the opportunity to "fix" things is probably long gone, and I have decided to just cut my losses.

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Drew

2mo

INTP
Libra

For me… I want a logical conversation that’s not wrapped in emotion. I thrive on being intellectually stimulated. If I’m going through something I want to be able talk with someone matter of fact and I don’t want any pats on the back or any hugs. It seems cold but a lot of intp’s… especially me operate like that. My eyes really light up and I fall for someone quickly who can communicate with me like that.

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Thekiller1tk

3mo

INTP

8w7

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I don’t now every intp have something intersted about im my religion and games (islam.brawl stars)

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Holly

2mo

INTP
Aquarius

9w1

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Ask his opinion on a theory you have. Engage in some kind of intellectual convos first. I (intp) am deeply uncomfortable with strong feelings, but if you butter me up intellectually then I open up more gradually. Hope this helps!

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charl

1mo

INTP
Libra

8w7

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My partner betrayed me,cheated on me, lied to me etc etc. The day i saw hickyes on her neck i kicked her out. I refuse to see her ever again, she's blocked everywhere. It's been 3 months now and would never take her back.For nothing. Sorry that's my brutal honest answer about taking back an ex.

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