How can I win back my INTP?

Question

Hello! This may sound funny, but I am seeking for your advice. I want my INTP back. He has been seriously damaged emotionally, and he has been guarded since then. I could barely start a conversation with him.

To the INTP men out there, could you let me know what makes you get back to an ex? What can someone do to you that can make your heart melt?

Lawrence · Accepted Answer

Yeah it depends on the circumstances. For me personally, once someone is an ex they're staying an ex--I gave it my best shot, discovered some crucial incompatibilities, and that's it. People can change and grow but that's a process that takes years. And I could be spending those years on someone who has better compatibility, or who does not have a negative history with me.

THE ADDY 11:11 · Answer

It depends on reason why she left or selected

AR · Answer

Give him the most logical and sensible explanation on why you did what you had to do. Start with an intellectual conversation or ask him some doubts on some topic that he’s interested in. Then blend in your logical reasoning.

Damdam · Answer

Wait, were you the one who got him emotionally damaged? And you expect him to talk normally again and want to win him back? If that's the case then you should fix that narcissism tendency, work on being a better person, and move on.

Sayak · Answer

First of all an INTP person doesn't like to be judged and we have less feelings and more logical relationships so to get back to that type of guy you have to change yourself and let him have low mind pressure (by not talking shts)... For now this should be better..and if you want to know more then just ask that guy..he may tell you once he gets nice view of yours (but asking that question can have opposite reaction)

Marshall · Answer

Did you, in anyway, imply that he's not expressive with his feelings towards you? And he has not been expressing enough with you?

Wyatt Johnson · Answer

Depends on what caused you guys to break up. Of he thinks you wronged him then you'll probably just have to move on. If it's something else just be patient and let him know you still want to be part of his life.

Thekiller1tk · Answer

I don’t now every intp have something intersted about im my religion and games (islam.brawl stars)

Holly · Answer

Ask his opinion on a theory you have. Engage in some kind of intellectual convos first. I (intp) am deeply uncomfortable with strong feelings, but if you butter me up intellectually then I open up more gradually.

Hope this helps!

charl · Answer

My partner betrayed me,cheated on me, lied to me etc etc. The day i saw hickyes on her neck i kicked her out. I refuse to see her ever again, she's blocked everywhere. It's been 3 months now and would never take her back.For nothing. Sorry that's my brutal honest answer about taking back an ex.

How can I win back my INTP?

Intp Community

It depends on reason why she left or selected

Give him the most logical and sensible explanation on why you did what you had to do. Start with an intellectual conversation or ask him some doubts on some topic that he’s interested in. Then blend in your logical reasoning.

Wait, were you the one who got him emotionally damaged? And you expect him to talk normally again and want to win him back? If that's the case then you should fix that narcissism tendency, work on being a better person, and move on. (edited)

Did you, in anyway, imply that he's not expressive with his feelings towards you? And he has not been expressing enough with you?

Depends on what caused you guys to break up. Of he thinks you wronged him then you'll probably just have to move on. If it's something else just be patient and let him know you still want to be part of his life.

I don’t now every intp have something intersted about im my religion and games (islam.brawl stars)

Ask his opinion on a theory you have. Engage in some kind of intellectual convos first. I (intp) am deeply uncomfortable with strong feelings, but if you butter me up intellectually then I open up more gradually. Hope this helps!

My partner betrayed me,cheated on me, lied to me etc etc. The day i saw hickyes on her neck i kicked her out. I refuse to see her ever again, she's blocked everywhere. It's been 3 months now and would never take her back.For nothing. Sorry that's my brutal honest answer about taking back an ex.

Related Posts

Bored. Wanna talk a bit

👑

🤐

Ooooo

Intp

Night

👀

Best birthday present

Any thoughts??

Extroverting - #1

💕

Photoshoot 🫠

Sorry....

My stomach hurts

🍁

Ethnic

I don’t like scheduling dates (INTP)

friends

Big smile....

Photoshoot

Hi?

Ak to match hota he.. fir ye log reply nahi dete.. 😒

......

I want to be invited but I don’t want to go

You know you are...

Really difficult for intps to smile at camera...

Nice little personality test to start off 😭

Vibing..😚🎧🎵

Me and my friends

Can you please find my match..?🥺🤭

Hi ......

😚

🍁

Duality of an INTP

How are you doing today?

নাকছাবি।

Hello..😇

......

#funnymemes

Ummmmm