3 month rule = no sex, or close intimacy or established exclusivity until we've been dating for AT LEAST 3 months (my preference is 6). This gives time to learn WHO that person is, observe their actions, behaviours, intent and see who they REALLY are before becoming exclusive and then considering... (edited) read more

27d

INFJ

Aries

Observe, don’t absorb. ✨

INFJ

Virgo

🤍

Without judgment, without analyzing, just observe and expereience true peace

14d

ENTJ

Aries

The truth behind what you call Thanksgiving

Most of us were taught that Thanksgiving started with a peaceful dinner between the Pilgrims and the Wampanoag. That story is incomplete and hides the truth. By the time that 1621 meal happened, Native communities had already been devastated by European disease. The “peace” was a survival... read more

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19d

INTP

Capricorn

Is disappointment necessary?

When I observe people, disappointment is all about expectations of how another should be. However, the expectations aren’t based on how the other person actually is, but on people’s own ideas of how others should be. The ideas are people’s own convictions of what is right and good. But... (edited) read more

17d

INFP

Libra

Best and Worst Quality

My best and worst quality in dating are the same: I care deeply. I don’t connect just to fill a role—I feel things intensely and show up with real intention. That depth can be a lot sometimes, and I’ve learned that no one wants to feel parented. I mean, everyone wants a date, but no one wants a... read more