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Looks attract, Character decides

As I get older, I don't ignore red flags because they're "cute." I recognize them for what they are.Experience changes your perspective. What looks innocent to someone with no experience often reveals a completely different story to someone who's seen the pattern before. I read the words, then I... read more

I just learned women's secret on this app😂 If a woman comments on a guy's post and another woman likes her comment out of nowhere it means the second woman likes that guy romantically or there's something going on between them so she's just making sure to mark her territory by liking comment 😂

I'm feeling like a stupid girl who couldn't understood that pattern before 🤣 what can I say I'm an INTJ woman I'm clueless in love relationship dramas 😂 (edited)

Graduation Bee

I made a graduation Bee for one of my Coworkers Daughter. I was able to reuse a Bee pattern that I already had and then make up my own Graduation Cap pattern. I think it turned out pretty good.

Karma is a comforting lie

I took care of my wife for a decade while that disease erased her. I held her as she died. I'm disabled and struggling. It's been 10 years since I lost her and I've finally accepted nobody is going to be there for me like I was for her. I'm already dead, my body just hasn't gotten the memo yet. I'm... (edited) read more

What Happened To The Honest Goodbye?

Not too long ago, it was common place to tell someone: “I had a great time, but I’m not interested in pursuing this any further.” It was the common decency and respect we used to have. Today, it no longer exists. That clarity, that closure, Is often replaced with ghosting, leaving the other... read more

Controversial question

Why educated and uneducated people have different vibe? It's like we can see which people in which categories. And they have the same pattern. Is it true uneducated people tend to use emotion more than their brain?