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For the one who taught me the difference between love and manipulation - hi.

💔💔 I had someone… someone I finally trusted again after a very long time of protecting my heart. Before I even said yes to him, I told him everything — my scars, my heartbreaks, my fears. I laid my truth on the table hoping he’d walk away if he wasn’t ready. But he didn’t. He insisted. He... read more

Judging people

Everyone does it, it’s more a matter of when is it fair and when is it not fair, I think. You judge people poorly who decide to do something you believe is unnecessary and you judge people favorably when they go beyond what was expected of them. Judging someone who is overweight is usually wrong... read more

Trust

I've always had a general distrust of people, along with an unreasonable amount of trust for toxic people. All because i was raised to not trust my intuition, because it was either toxic family or nothing, and kids need their families in order to survive. So as an adult, it to me a long time to... read more

Patterns × Actions > Words

Make it Make Sense

I'm not the smartest guy out there but I'd like too think that I'm atleast capable of learning from the past. Paying attention to behaviors and patterns and sudden changes in behavior or pattern. When someone all of a sudden changes their pattern there's a reason, its that simple. They ask you for... read more