Gino
Gino

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ISTJ

Gemini

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I cannot understand for the life of me the psychology behind the thought process of wanting to be loved more than wanting to be understood. I know I'm a weirdo 😂

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Matt

Matt

2y

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That is because you can't truly be loved if you are not fully understood. Love is an action based on a desired result or emotional outcome. You probably were never truly loved, if your partner never understood you.

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Aman

Aman

2y

INFJ

Gemini

You are not alone king. We all phase such tims in life.

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Preston Smith

Preston Smith

2y

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Leo

2
3

Oh, well that's alright fam. Some people would rather have the comfort of someone's love rather than being understood.

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