Unstable Community

Have you found ways that have made any of these things easier? (or add your own if you have something helpful to share)

The way I deal with: A. Social situations 1. fear of being judged 2. silence in a conversation feeling awkward 3. feeling like the odd one out in a group 4. being interrupted or talked over 5. meeting people when I have no social energy 6. fear of being seen as boring or unexciting 7. being… (edited) read more

Amazing Cecil

Volunteering at my animal shelter. Cecil, my heart of hearts, the 6month old orange tabby was surrendered recently. He had been hit by a car sometime within his first 6 months. Plans were to amputate that rear leg. Happy to announce: He still has all his legs. There is still the possibility he… read more

Valuable Lessons from Connections

Lessons I've Learned From Past Relationships When you take a step back and evaluate your past relationships as a whole, you often realize there were important lessons that shaped your personal habits, perspectives, and expectations. Here are some of the lessons I've learned through my past… read more

Funny

We’re tired, united and emotionally unstable together🙃

it’s secret but i’m so sick of being alone

i really want have someone to lean. when i get down, emotional unstable, on premenstrual syndrome, etc it always makes me questioning myself, why i don’t have anyone? because i really want.

Is it just me, or do people not have inner worlds anymore?

In the countless conversations i have had on this app and other apps and even in person, it seems that no matter what questions i ask, there isnt a person inside the body i am speaking to available to answer them. Its like i am living in a world full of zombies. Whats your favorite food? "I dont… (edited) read more

I had a deep conversation with a man about having children. He asked for my honest opinion, and I answered openly. He kept asking questions, and I explained my thoughts in detail...

I explained to him that I believe people should only have children when they are truly ready in every aspect physically, mentally, financially, emotionally, and environmentally. Physical readiness, to me, is not just about being healthy, but also about considering serious inherited diseases or… read more

💀💀 to be unstoppable, going unstable

00:50 AM

Mentally unstable? Maybe. But at least the cheesecake turned out pretty. 🫐🍰

It has been a long week

If I'm mentally unstable, I tend to become emotionally dependent on people I know. I'm weak.

Continuation

I figured why the "mass exodus" came to mind in the past. I went down the rabbit hole for a bit and surprisingly found a link to a painting that reminds me of the past impression and the message was there. It's called The Course of Empire Destruction by Thomas Cole. The rise and fall of… read more

Love

Without respect love is lost, without caring love is boring, without honesty love is unhappy, without trust love is unstable..

What's A Good Nation To Migrate To For A Single Personal Trainer?

Sup, i'm currently in South Africa but work for us PTs & Nutritionists is non existent. I'm 37, no kids nor partner. I'm currently unemployed, I have my qualification in Personal Training, Specialized Nutrition and studying Comptia A+ to move into the IT space maybe. I was thinking maybe the u.s… read more

Relationship

What I’ve realized about online friendships… One thing I’ve become aware of in online relationships is how unstable they can be. A person you invested your emotions, time, and energy into can disappear out of nowhere — or you can wake up one day and find yourself blocked without any… read more

Depressed

So my girlfriend passed away last month on the 24th of February I went to go see her for 2weeks had a get amazing time together was supposed to go back and spend another 2 weeks with her I even booked a flight on the 3rd to go see her I didn't even know she passed away until 3hrs before my flight… read more

Happy Birthday to me (updated)

All I want for my birthday from this app are friends. I hope friendships last longer then this broken marriage. I wish I had friends to comfort me while I prepare for divorcing my husband. I wanna live, love and laugh. Can we be friends? My bio is long and perfect for the right couple of people… (edited) read more

Project Zomboid

Messing around on the unstable build, and so far it's looking fantastic. Anyone else here excited for the updates they're putting into it?

Borderline personality . Mayo clinic

BPD condition that affects the way people feel about themselves and others, making it hard to function in everyday life. It includes a pattern of unstable, intense relationships, impulsiveness , an unhealthy way of seeing themselves. Impulsiveness involves having extreme emotions and acting or… (edited) read more

I already know

I paid for the lifetime membership because I already know I'm a hard nut to crack. I'm too nice for a world this cruel and I already know that I'm an emotional target. People like me who wear their big feelings on their sleeve are way easy to manipulate. Get us all gushy inside and we are liable… (edited) read more

Emotionally unstable

Sorry to myself, for the unhealthy emotions lately

Obsession

Every relationship begins with a trace of desire, genuine interest, and perhaps a little obsession. What truly concerns us as human beings is not the existence of these feelings, but how we manage them. What feels beautiful and exciting at the beginning of a relationship can quietly become… read more

400

Crisis. Across multiple places, in various and countless lands on the globe, of different mindsets and cultures, the same phenomenon was striking all across. A pandemic of unseen proportions, affecting the ones that should never be afflicted to such deep levels of horror: our infants. The… read more

I appreciate genuine, intellectually engaging connections. However, once someone reveals themselves to be hollow, unstable, undisciplined, or lacking qualities worthy of respect, my interest disappears almost immediately.

Losted

I have less than 12 months to figure what I wanna do in life. I studied in robotics and mechatronics but I still feel that it is an unstable job scope that is easily replaceable by AI. Maybe I am overthinking it but the uprising of AI taking over jobs is really a bummer for me especially when I do… read more

Is my experience of cycling unusual?

Around March, I started walking on the advice of my therapist. After about a month of this, I gave up on it, as my feet and ankles became intolerably achy and sore. I could stand my feet being a bit sore immediately after a walk, but the pain persisted for days, even when I cut back the walking… (edited) read more

National Periodic Table Day

Never have a picnic on a Periodic Table. The bench is unstable, periodically

Those who choose to entertain unstable connections are enslaved by them.

Tonight, the hunt is finally over... Just hit 100% on Bloodborne!🩸🏆

I finally did it. I just 100%𝙚𝙙 𝘽𝙡𝙤𝙤𝙙𝙗𝙤𝙧𝙣𝙚, and honestly, it feels surreal. Back in the Philippines, I never had a PS4 or PS5 to play the one FromSoftware game I wanted to try the most. For years, I could only dream of Yharnam—I even tried shadPS4 just to get a taste, but it was way… (edited) read more

Have a wonderful weekend

Hey everyone just wanted to take a minute to say have a fantastic day and a fantastic weekend. While the dating seen seem unstable unfortunately, don't let it ruin your weekend. 😊

Shared life is like balancing a heavy object in an unstable position; any mistake at any moment could destroy the relationship. Choose your life partner wisely.

Market value

It isn’t the market, my dears, in decline, it’s ego inflated and polished to shine. You’ve turned every date into trial and review, where perfection is demanded — but never from you. Endless conditions. Precision so tight. Hearts under filters. No friction. No fight. You want fire that warms but… read more

UNSTABLE 😅

Emotional rollercoasters are only fun at theme parks, not in relationships. 😏

When the Chase Ends

A man who "truly" loves you will do everything for you. He will fly from the other side of the world even if yesterday he had a leg surgery. He will take care of you even when he is sick himself. But male love is often unstable. Once he feels he already “got” the woman, the marriage stamp, comfort… read more

Words that make up a line

I never thought it would come to this. The times we shared. Were they all a lie? A delusion of mine? The end of you and me? Can you really tell me this was all me? Hatred born from love? Expecting anything else? Self-destruction? Yesterday's news. Only one left behind. Unstable and mad until the… read more