Uluntu lwe-Perhaps
Uluntu lwe-perhaps, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
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KONKE
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Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
UKUKHUTSHELWA
Uluntu lwe-perhaps, incoko, kunye nengxoxo.
7 IISOULS
KONKE
perhaps
Dibana Nabantu Abatsha
UKUKHUTSHELWA
Iiposti Ezinxulumeneyo
Izolo, umalume wam ongumntu omnye wandithatha ndiyokutya, kwaye saphela sikhuluma ngoyikiso lwakhe lokukhula ndedwa. Unemali eyaneleyo yokuzixhasa, kodwa imali ayinakukhusela ukuba umntu uzakuba khona xa egula okanye engasakwazi ukuphila yedwa. Mna ndamtshela ukuba kufuneka sifunde ukuzithemba…funda okungakumbi
Kodwa ndingayithwala njani le ndlela emangalisayo Xa iimpahla zam zingaphi kwaye akukho nto ibonakala njengoko kubonakala? Ndingahlala njani ndomeleleyo xa ndidiniwe ngaphakathi, Xa ndinhope ezininzi kodwa akukho ndawo yokufihla? Ngamanye amaxesha ndiyacinga ngokuyeka ukulandela, Ngokuvumela ubomi…funda okungakumbi
Ungazithola ungumangaliso ukuva oku: Uthando noUxhamla azifani. Ngempela, zihamba kwiindlela eziphambene. Uthando olujulile olukhula ngaphakathi komntu, lwenza ukuba umnqweno woxhamla uqale uguquke kwaye ulahlekelwe kukhulu kwawo. Kwaye xa uthando lungekho, uxhamla lungaba yinxalenye enamandla…funda okungakumbi

Ndinqwenela ukuba ndingagcina le meko ngexesha leexhumo zam😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Ngelinye ixesha, ndagcina amaphupha amancinci ngokwaneleyo ukuze angandilimazi xa ehlala engafikeleleki. Ndandoyika ukufuna kakhulu, ndingazi ukuba ubomi bungandithumela kwiindawo endandicinga ukuba zikhona kuphela emfanekisweni wam. Ndimi apho, ndijolise kwiinkulungwane zeemvumi zicula iingoma…funda okungakumbi
Mhlawumbi umnqweno ophakathi kwabasetyhini kukuba nobuhle ngendlela eziva ingathi ibanga ingozi kumanyano lwezinkolo.
I-pull-ups ngaphandle kwebhendi? Ekugqibeleni kwenzeka emva kweeyaka ezi-3! Ndifumene i-5 reps, kodwa ukulawula indlela yokwehla kusemsebenzini. Iimpundu, iintsimbi, i-pull-ups… kusekho izinto ezininzi zokusebenza, kodwa ndiyanda amandla🔥 Ukuba imisipha yomfazi ibanga umbono wakho wokuba…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
Cinga ngokuhlangana nomntu ongaziwayo kwi-intanethi oya kuthi kancinci abe ngumntu omthandayo, umhlobo wakho ophakamileyo, kwaye ekugqibeleni uthando lwakho. 🥹❤️ Umntu onokuhlekisa naye, ukuthandaza naye, ukwabelana ngephupha lakho, kunye nokwakha ikamva elihle kunye. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba…funda okungakumbi
Ukuba ndithetha nabantu abaninzi, ndihlala ndiva bebuza: “Ngaba kukhulu kuba andinangqondo?” Njengomntu onomoya, ngamanye amaxesha ndiyafumanisa ukuba oku kunzima ukuyiqonda kuba kum, imbonakalo ayiyonto ibalulekileyo kakhulu. Oko ndikubonayo, nangona kunjalo, kukuthile ngokupheleleyo. Abantu…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi
Ndivele ndikhathazekile ngokuthembela ekutyeni kakhulu, kwiipiercings, nasekuzibandakanyeni kwiintlanganiso ezingekho mfuneko kwi-intanethi njengendlela yokuzama ukunciphisa uxinzelelo Mhlawumbi kufuneka ndithathe incwadi ndifunde ngoku, kodwa inyani kukuba, ndilele embhedeni, ndiziva nzima…funda okungakumbi

Sonke siyoyika into ethile. Ubuqhawe, ukufa, ukwenziwa umphosa, okanye ukulahleka komntu esithanda. Abantu bahlala bethi, “Andiyoyiki nto.” Nokuba kunjalo, uninzi lwethu luyayiva imvakalelo yokuxhalaba xa into ibalulekile kuthi. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuxhalaba kusivusa phakathi kobusuku. Ngamanye…funda okungakumbi
Ngamanye amaxesha ndiyazibuza ukuba sikhona kangakanani, kwixesha esiphila kulo, kwaye sikhona kangakanani kwenye indawo ngokupheleleyo. Ingqondo inobuchule obuhle bokuhamba ngexesha. Ibuya kuthi emuva kwiimeko ezalready zenzekile, okanye ibhiyozela phambili kwiimeko ezinokubakho. Ihlalutya,…funda okungakumbi


Ukevele waba ne moment apho amagama engakwazi ukujolisa kakuhle kumva owawuziva, kwaye kuphela intliziyo yakho eyayiqonda ngempela? 🩵

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Mhlawumbi enye yephutha elisisiseko esiyenzayo xa sithanda kukuphosa iimpawu zethu ezilindelekileyo kumntu ngokusekelwe kuloo nto siyibonayo ngaphezulu, ngelixa sishiya ubunzima bokuba ngubani ngokwenene. Ngokuqhelekileyo sithanda umfanekiso womntu esiwubona, indlela abasinika ngayo imvakalelo,…funda okungakumbi
Singena kule mzi njengabavakashi, sihlala ixesha elincinane phambi kokuba, ngosuku, sihambe ngokuthula. Kodwa ke, rhoqo, siphila njengoko simele sibe khona ngonaphakade. Sibamba igama elingenasizathu, siguqula izinto ezincinane zibe yimijoliso, sigcina ulaka oludala lufihlwe kwiintliziyo zethu,…funda okungakumbi

Ndiyoyika, namhlanje, ukuba umxube wezokukhala kunye nempilo yengqondo uyanditshisa ngendlela eyahlukeneyo. Kwaye ndandihleli apha ndizama ngokungxamisekileyo ukulwa nomjikelo wezinyembezi, umcabango wandwendwela engqondweni yam ukuba mhlawumbi ndingajolisa kwiingcali ukuze ndifumane amagama…funda okungakumbi

xa abantu bethetha ukuba imali ayiyonto yonke ebomini. Mhlawumbi ayiyonto, kodwa ndicinga ukuba abantu ngamanye amaxesha bahlula indlela ebalulekileyo ngayo kwiimeko zethu. Ukutya, indawo yokuhlala, impilo, imfundo, ukuthuthwa, kwaye nokukhululeka kokonwaba ebomini konke kuxhomekeke, kumgangatho…funda okungakumbi
Namhlanje, ndandihleli engadini, ndicinga ngendlela endikwiSpain ngoku kunye nendlela, ngandlela thile, ubomi luqhubeka lungithumela kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye ndandikho, ndiziva ndithintele kwi-labyrinth yeengcinga, ndibanjwe kumqondo wokuba kufuneka ndihambe kwakhona. Nangexesha ndifumanisa…funda okungakumbi

Khetha i-Option 🃏, nayiphi na i-Option 🃏. _____________________________________________________ Uhamba ekhaya xa uqaphela into engalunganga. 👣 Phakathi kwezakhiwo eziqhelekileyo, kukhona i-door encinane eluhlaza.🚪 Uphile apha iminyaka. Uhambe le ndlela izihlandlo eziyi-hundreds. 🖼️ 🪧…funda okungakumbi

Kukho abantu ababhala imizwa yabo kuba amagama kuphela indlela abayazi yokugcina into engaphakathi kubo ingagqibeki. Bafunda iincwadi kuba, phakathi kwamaphepha, bafumana izinto umhlaba ungabazisanga… Mhlawumbi bafumana bona, omnye ofana nabo, okanye ubomi abafuna ukuba baphile. 📖


Mhlawumbi kuyinyani ukuba icandelo lethu lilindele ukuba izinto zifikeleleke ngokugqibeleleyo. Mhlawumbi le ngxenye yethu ayinengqondo kwaye mhlawumbi sinezinto zonke esizidingayo sele. Akukho mntu ophumayo kwaye akukho budlelwane obugqibeleleyo obuzosigqibezela, kodwa banokubangela ukuba…funda okungakumbi
Jonga ujabule, kwaye wenze okungcono kakhulu ngaloo nto ikwi phambi kwakho ngoku—kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani, abazali bakho, oodade bakho, okanye umntu omthandayo.🪩 Ungayenzi izinto oziva ukuba ungazisola ngazo kamva. Ungabuyeli emuva ngolwezinye iintsuku, uhleli neentsholongwane, uze…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

Omunye wathi ndiyathanda na ilizwe lam. Ndaphendula: akusoloko malunga nendawo — kukhulu ngabantu endihlangana nabo. Ndiziva ngendlebe ukuthetha nabantu abaphathwa ngengqondo: bahlala befuna ukuva, bahlala bekholelwa ukuba banelungelo, bahlala befuna ukuveza ubukhulu, njengoko umphakathi wabo…funda okungakumbi
Ukuba ukhethe ukuveza, “akukho drama” kwi-bio yakho, kuthetha ukuthini oku kuwe? Ubomi bethu yimizamo esiyiphilayo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantu baphoswa ngumhlaza. Ngaba umhlaza ufana ne “drama?” Ngamanye amaxesha abantu bomeleza ukuba baphathe iimeko ezingaphantsi kolawulo lwabo. Ngaba oku kuthetha…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi

“Kungani bekufuneka uchithe ubuntwana bakho usebenza? Ngaba le nxaxheba bekufanele ukuba ichithwe udlala, ujabule, kwaye ube nempilo?” hh Mhlawumbi abantu babona kuphela into endiyiphoseleyo: ixesha endinokubekela udlala, iminyaka elula endinokuyifumana, kunye nethuba lokujabulela ubomi njengoko…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi


Uchithe ixesha elininzi ulungisa njengoko ndakha le miphakamo. Uyazi ukuba iHome Depot/Lowes ayifaki isaphulelo seentsapho kumalungelo? *shakes fist Ngokuqinisekileyo ndichithe ixesha elininzi ndiqokelela kwiminyaka kunokujonga. Into endiza kuyitshintsha kwaye mhlawumbi uzakuthatha…funda okungakumbi

Ingxenye enobundlobongela yothando ayisiyiyo ukulahlekelwa ngumntu omthandayo, kodwa ukugcina uthando lwabo ngelixa befunda ukuthanda omnye. Usagcina igama labo ezikhaleni ezithule zentliziyo yakho, usakhumbula izinto ezincinci, usafuna ub happiness nokuba ub happiness lwabo alusekho nolwazi…funda okungakumbi
Ndandilungiselela imibhalo ebalulekileyo xa ukuwa kwemvula okukhulu kwafika edolophini. Imvula yayinzima kangangokuba ndingakwazi ukuphuma ukuze ndihambe njengoko ndijolise. Xa ekugqibeleni yaphela, ndafumana umjikelo omkhulu wezithuthi kwiindlela zedolophu. Ndandicinga ukuba kube khona ingozi…funda okungakumbi




Ndiyakhathala ngabafazi abazama ukundifaka kumjikelo kwaye bexelela ukuba bakwi-ntsebenziswano evulekileyo ngoko kulungile ukuthetha kwaye mhlawumbi ukudibana. Ndifuna umntu omnye kuphela ebomini bam kwaye ndifuna ukuba ndibe yedwa ebomini bakhe. Akukho ukuhlala nabanye abantu.
UBayron's Wagyu Truffle Burger... ndiyavuma, ndiyadana. Ungandixeleli, akusiyo i-burger embi kodwa bekungekho mveliso ye-truffle kwaye umgangatho wenyama awuzange ube different kakhulu kwi-beef ejolise kuyo, ndiyaphosa ukuba bekungayiwa i-Wagyu, ngoko akukwazanga ukufaneleka kwexabiso. Ngaphandle…( ilungisiwe)funda okungakumbi



“Uphawu lwam, umphefumlo wam, amandla am… 🌊✨ Mhlawumbi kukuphuma emanzini kum, kodwa muva nje, umoya wam ubufuna ulwandle, umoya wolwandle, kunye noxolo olunjengoko iintaka kuphela ezibona.

✍️ Ezinye izigqibo zihluleka phambi kokuba sibhekane nemiphumo yazo. ✍️ Xa akukho nto isivimba ngaphandle kwethu, ingxaki ijolise ngaphaya kokuzithiba. ✍️ Mhlawumbi lixesha lokubuza imithetho esiyisebenzisayo ukwenza izigqibo.

Undibizele ikamva lakho, elihle, umkakho ophakathi. Ndakha ikathedral ukusuka kwi "ndiyakuthanda", ndagxotha izithembiso zakho njengegazi elingcolileyo, kwaye ndaphosa ngokuqhwanyaza imibala njengento engapheliyo. Emva koko ndabona isandla sakho kwi hers, kwaye wonke amagama alungileyo aguquka abe…funda okungakumbi
Ngamanye amaxesha, isikhumbuzo esinzima kakhulu yile ungakaze uyithethe. Kukho uhlobo olwahlukileyo lobuhlungu ekufuneni ukufikelela kumntu kodwa ukhetha ukungakwenzi. Hayi kuba ungasakhathali, hayi kuba uyibulalile, kodwa kuba uqhubeka ufunda ukuba uxhumano alunakuphila kuphela kumzamo womntu…funda okungakumbi
Ndihlala ndineemvakalelo ezizodwa kwaye ndibandakanyeka kwiintlanganiso ezinzulu, kodwa ke andifuni ukubona naluphi na ulwazi. Ndifuna nje ukuba ndedwa, ndijolise kumabonakude phantsi kweemvulamlomo ndicinga ukuba kutheni ndihlala ndisebenzisa izinto ezingafunekiyo Ngokwenene, ndiyazi ukuba…funda okungakumbi
