Umphakathi we-Solitude
Umphakathi we-solitude, ingxoxo, nokudingida.
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solitude
Hlangana Nabantu Abasha
OKULANDAYO
Umphakathi we-solitude, ingxoxo, nokudingida.
1K IMIMOYA
KONKE
solitude
Hlangana Nabantu Abasha
OKULANDAYO


ngikhathazekile ngempilo, ngikhathele yokwenza, futhi ngilambile ngencazelo🔥

Isizungu

Uma kukunika ukuthula, phuma ngangokuningi ofuna.

Kwamasiko akudingeki ukuthi uqale kabusha impilo yakho yonke, kwesinye isikhathi ukuhamba kancane kuphela kuyanele ukuze uthole umbono.


... kunezithakazelo zayo...: - nini; - kuphi; - yini; - kangakanani; - kuze kube nini; - izingubo; - ...

Sikhuluma?




"Ukuzwa usizi emhlanganweni ongafezekanga, ukudabuka ngempumelelo ezingenalutho, ukudlula ubusuku obude ungaphumuli futhi wedwa, ukufisa izinkanyezi ezikude, ekhaya elishiywe ukucabanga ngothando lwangaphambili — lokhu kuyinto uthando... Manje ubheka emuva ezinyangeni naseminyakeni yokuhlangana,…funda kabanzi



#ukuthula #ukuzithiba #imvelo #ukuhlala wedwa #psychology #ingxoxo ejulile #okungahleliwe

Ngithanda lezi zinhlelo. Ngihlola umqondo wokuhlala wedwa nokuhlukana. Ungase azizwe edangele noma empeleni uthanda ukuhlala wedwa. #edangele #ukuhlala_wedwa #psychology

#solitude #brave #courage #independent #wisdom #wellness #inspiration( kulungiswe )

#silent #serenity #stability #solitude #selflove #selfcare #selfdevelopment
#ubuqhawe #sheffield

Yiba umuntu okuthandayo futhi ongena stress 🥰 Hlala nawe noma yini impilo ekuletha, hlala uqhuba phambili 😁

Kuyadabukisa ukuba wedwa? Nokho, ukuhlala wedwa kungakunika ukuthula.

- Ezikhathini zokuhlala wedwa, ngivame ukuthola okuningi ngawe. Uthola kanjani ubuhlungu, kuyakukhuthaza noma kukuhlukanisa? “Yini oyithandayo uma ujabulela ubuhlungu?”( kulungiswe )


#ubusuku #isibhakabhaka #ukuhlala wedwa



#wisdom #wellness #alone #solitude #serenity #motivation #meditation

Ubuqhawe ngaphambi kokusebenza 🌿🌱🌳

#ukukhathazeka #edwa #ukuzithiba #ukukhuthazeka #ubudlelwano #ukuhlala wedwa #umhlaba #ukucabanga #ukuhamba #ubuhlakani( kulungiswe )

Ezikhathini ezifana nalezi angikwazi ukuzigcina ngingakhumbuli. Ngiyabonga ngalesi sikhwama se-chocolate esinami lapha ukuze ngithuthukise imizwa yami.😅 Lokhu akukhuthazwa! 🙃



kuhle okungaziwa & okuphazamisayo - ekwazini.

#ukushona #isibhakabhaka #ukushona nezinkanyezi #ukuthula #ukuhlala wedwa #ngaphandle #ngaphandle

Ukuqala phansi kuhlala kubonakala kunzima, eduzane nokuphela ucabanga ukuthi impilo iphelile kuphela ukufunda ukuthi uma izinto ziphela impilo iyaqhubeka noma kunjalo Futhi ukhumbula ukuthi kuyini ukuba wedwa, ukhumbula ukuthi kuyini ukuhlala nje, ukhumbula ukuthi izinto ziqale zaphuka…funda kabanzi

#ukuzithuthukisa #ukuzithanda #ukuhlala wedwa #impumelelo #ukuthula #ukhuthazo( kulungiswe )

Okuthunyelwe Okuhlobene
Kwabahlakaniphileyo, uhambo olubuyela ekhaya lungolwangaphakathi. Umqondo wokuba umuntu ozihlukanisayo, ahoxe emhlabeni futhi achithe isikhathi esithile eyedwa. Ngezinye izikhathi ngicabanga ukuthi kufana nokubuka ngengilazi ungaboni ukuthi uthuli olungakanani oluhleli kuyo. Asiboni ukuthi…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Kimina, umculo nobuciko akukaze kube ukuzijabulisa nje—kuwulimi lwami olusondelene, ilensi engibuka ngayo umhlaba, futhi kungenye yezindlela ezisondelene kakhulu engizaziyo zokuqonda umhlaba wangaphakathi womunye umuntu. Kusukela ngingena endaweni yonke ye-BTS, ngiye ngathandana kakhulu neqiniso…funda kabanzi
Umculo ugeleza kuma-headphone ami cishe ungapheli, amahora angamashumi amabili nane ngosuku 🎶. Ufana nokushaya kwenhliziyo okuthule ngaphansi kwesikhumba sami, okungibamba ngiqine ngisho nangaphambi kokuba ngithathe ipensela. Uma ngibuka lesi sithombe—uKenta-kun, amehlo akhe aphethe iqiniso…funda kabanzi

Kubukeka sengathi cishe wonke umuntu unezinkinga zokwethemba abanye, nami ngihlanganisa nabo. Ngifuna umuntu engingamethemba kalula futhi okufanele ukwethenjwa kwami, umuntu ongeke alokothe angikhaphele. Cishe ANGIKAZE ngiphathwe kahle. Ngiyazigcina ngedwa ngoba angikaze ngikuthole ukuthula uma…funda kabanzi
Izincwadi zami eziyi-15 zakamuva. Ngibe ngithanda i-Candlemass cishe eminyakeni engu-5, ngiqala ukufaka isandla kwi-Doom Metal. Senginazo zonke izinkanyezi eziyi-6 ze-Solitude Aeturnus, ngithola kancane i-Altar of Oblivion, i-Black Oath, i-Capilla Ardiente, i-Count Raven, i-Isole kanye…funda kabanzi

Ngihamba nohlu lwezinja ngathola leli bhakabhaka limi lodwa. Ukukhumbuza okuthule ukuthi ukuhlala wedwa kuyinxenye ethule nje yohambo. 🍂 “Ibhakabhaka elilodwa libhakabhaka ethulini kwezihlahla.” — Rumi 🎵 Billy Idol — Eyes Without a Face

Namuhla, bekufanele ngiphule i-server. Kwakulula kakhulu — umqondo ulula: udinga nje ukuvula umugqa wemiyalo, ukhethe i-akhawunti, bese uyinika noma iyiphi iphasiwedi engiyikhethayo. Ngahlala lapho ngedwa cishe imizuzu eyishumi, ngibheka kumonitha wekhompyutha futhi ngiqonda ukuthi kulula kanjani…funda kabanzi
Ukube ubuyazi indaba yami, ubungathuthumela ngokwesaba noma ungilalele? Ukube ubuyazi ubuhlungu bami, ubungangivulela izingalo ungigone noma ungiphushele phansi futhi? Ukube ubuyazi ukuthi ngingedwa, ubungangiphelezela esizungu sami noma ungishiye ngihlupheka? Impilo ayisafaneleki uma uchitha zonke…funda kabanzi
Ukuba wedwa akuyona into okufanele yesatshwe — kuyisipho esithule sempilo.( kulungiswe )


Ukubonga ubukhazikhazi

Izinhlamvu eziningi ezikhanyayo, izimoto ezihambayo ezingapheli, kanye nedolobha eliphithizelayo elingakaze lihlale. Nokho, phakathi kwalesi sithukuthuku sonke, ukuthula ngaphakathi kubonakala kukhulu kakhulu. #UbuqhaweEmphakathini #UkuthulaOkuphithizelayo #IzimoZokuhlwa

Ukuba nokuthula nawe uqobo, funda ukwazisa ukuba wedwa ngaphambi kokungena ebudlelwaneni; ukuvuthwa ngokomzwelo komuntu ngaphakathi kuholela emakhonweni angcono okusebenzelana nabanye.

Ngihlala ngiphupha ngempilo ethule, elula endaweni ethokozisayo. Akukho okuthakazelisayo, kuphela indawo ezwakala njengekhaya.. 🤍

Impilo yindawo lapho izinto ezingalindelekile zenzeka, ngaphakathi! Ukwenza konke ngokuqinisekile kudinga isibindi nokukholwa. Abantu abanjalo bangikhuthaza, kodwa ungakwenza kanjani lokhu?

Mina cishe nsuku zonke: + ngibhale ingoma ngenxa yokuthi ngiphila ngedwa kakhulu…
Ngingathengisi ubuhlungu bami ngothando oluncane. Ngothando oluningi, yebo. Kodwa uthando oluningi uqobo luyindlela ethile yobuhlungu.
Njengoba ngikhula futhi ngijabulela ubuhlakani bemvelo, sengikhule ngazizwa ukuthi izihlahla ze-maple zingcwele. Umakhelwane wami unomuthi omdala we-maple epulazini lakhe ophakamisela phezulu kwami. Njalo ngonyaka le maples ihlisa ama-samara ayo epulazini lami futhi ngiyazihlakulela. Ngonyaka…funda kabanzi

Ngezinye izikhathi udinga ubuhlungu obudala ukuze ujabulele abanye abantu futhi.

Baphila futhi banempilo kodwa bakwazi kahle ukuhamba kancane. Bayakujabulela ukuhlala bodwa kodwa abahambisani nomhlaba. Bahlakaniphile kodwa abaxhasi kakhulu ubuhlakani bakho kangangokuthi uphoxe noma yini ethinta umzimba, umoya, noma imizwa. Abaphenduli ngokwezimizwa noma bahlala bephansi…funda kabanzi
Ngaphakathi kokuhlukana ngithola khona.🍂🧡
Fihliwe ngoba lapho ubuchwepheshe buhlangana nokuthula kwangaphakathi, ukuhlala wedwa kuyangithokozisa. Impilo engenalutho ikhethwe phezu kwezinkulumo ezingenalutho, ukuthula phezu kwesikhashana esisodwa sokuphazamiseka. Igazi lisashintsha futhi uthando lusashisa, kodwa ukungajabuli kuphakama…funda kabanzi
Uthando ekuphumuleni, lapho ikhofi iyinsizwa kuphela edingekayo.

Ubuqhawe ❤️🩹💔
Into engcono kakhulu yisithuli esingenamkhawulo nokuqhelelana. Ngezinye izikhathi, singase sibe nesidingo sendawo ethule kakhulu; lokho kungaba yiqiniso kuphela.🥀🖤

Ngicabange ukuthi ukuhlala wedwa kuzoba njengokulahlekelwa, njengamakamelo athule nezinsuku ezichithwa ukukhetha. Kodwa endaweni ethile phakathi kokubingelela nokuthi ngimi, ngithole uhlobo lokuthula engangingakuboni. Umhlaba uzwakala ukhanya, ukuthula kuzwa kahle, futhi ngandlela thile ngijabule…funda kabanzi
Njengoba ngikhula futhi ngijabulela ukuhlala wedwa emvelweni, sengikhule ngaba nomuzwa wokuthi izihlahla ze-maple zibalulekile. Umakhelwane wami unomuthi omdala we-maple epulazini lakhe ophuma phezu kwami. Njalo ngonyaka le maples iyawela izinsalela zayo epulazini lami futhi ngizihlanza. Ngonyaka…funda kabanzi

Ubugebengu kuyisidingo kwabanye abantu ukuze kuncishiswe ubuhlungu bezemotion obungakathathwa isikhathi esanele sokucubungula. Ubuqotho kuyasiza, kuvumela isikhathi sokucabanga, ukukhula komuntu siqu nokuphumula ezicini zokuxhumana. Kuyamangalisa ukuthi isikhathi esincane sokuba wedwa singakwenza…funda kabanzi

Angikhathazeki ngokuhlala ngedwa. Lokhu kube yinto eyodwa ethembekile empilweni yami. Le ndlela yonke ibe lula futhi ijulile. Ukuba emathubeni ashisayo, ngaphandle phakathi kwezindawo ezingaziwa, surrounded by chirruping crickets and croaking frogs, looking up into the inky blackness through…funda kabanzi

Ungasheshi ukuthola umlingani. Gxila ekwakheni wena kuqala, thanda futhi uhloniphe wena kuqala, zibekele isikhathi, gxila endleleni yakho, qinisa umqondo wakho, ujabule wedwa, ube inguqulo engcono kakhulu yakho. Ngoba hhayi yonke imfihlo iyisizungu, kwesinye isikhathi kuyisikhathi esinikezwe…funda kabanzi
~Izingcezu, izicucu zenkumbulo kaNkulunkulu yaphakade, Inkemba yokusa kulezi zingxenye ezingezona ezomhlaba, Umhlaba uyikhaya lami? Imimoya enamandla nesimo sezulu esingenakuqhathaniswa, Akukho ukuthula eMhlabeni namuhla. Abesifazane ababuthaka namadoda angenamandla, …funda kabanzi
kuze kube kulolo suku oluphakade. 😊

Okungikhathazayo kakhulu yisiphakamiso sokuthi kufanele nginciphise amazinga ami noma ngikhethe othile ngoba nje bayatholakala. Ukutholakala akufani nokuhambisana. Kungani ngizokwakha impilo nomuntu engingamfuni ngempela? Ukuze nganelise isikhathi? Ukuze ngigweme ukugxekwa? Ukuze ngenze abanye…funda kabanzi
Ophakanyisiwe kakhulu ukhetha ukuhlala wedwa... hhayi ngenxa yokuhlukana, kodwa ngoba baphuma emakhayeni wonke adinga ukuthi bancishiswe. - ✍️
Ngithole ukuthula ngokuhlala ngedwa, kodwa ngaphakathi, ngisathanda ukuthi kube nomuntu oza - hhayi nje ukuhlala okwesikhashana, kodwa ngenhloso yokuhlala phakade. ❤️

Ukusebenza kanzima kokuzilungisa nokukhula komuntu kufanele kube nomthelela omuhle emishadweni. Kunalokho, kuvame ukwenza kube nzima ukuthola umlingani. Lokhu akukhona ngoba uphukile; kukhona ngoba awuhambisani nokuthi ukuthandana kwanamuhla kusebenza kanjani. Ubudlelwano obujwayelekile buxhomeke…funda kabanzi