When its channeled correctly. Thinking of all the possibilities, preparing for them, and using it as an edge goes far. It’s all about learning how to utilize it and work for you vs self sabotage.

Oswa

ENFJ

Leo

Love is a mental state, a decision, not a feeling.

Share your thoughts.

Yes

23 votes

Oswa

ENFJ

Leo

Honesty in relationships is not always necessary

I find it fascinating how many ppl r obsessed with the concept of honesty, and I get it.. but I think the concept itself got lost and misinterpreted.. confused with rudness.. I believe it's sometime crucial to pick ur words wisely before uttering them.. sometime all it takes is few syllables... (edited) read more

Jermaine

ESTJ

Aquarius

This is going to sound offensive out of context

But women made me hate cats but cats like me like my neighbours cat but I can’t stand cats you know, like when you meet a stunning lady and she has a cat, there’s two reasons for that she could be a witch or she’s definitely crazy. Definitely a red flag with that.

Trace

16d

INTP

Aries

What is your controversial or unpopular opinion? 👀

Mine is that I don’t believe that all people are created equal and definitely not raised equal. by the time we are adults we all have different strengths and weaknesses and that’s okay ¯\_ಠ_ಠ_/¯ we should just help each other out rather than criticizing peoples weak areas. And if they don’t except... read more

Oswa

1mo

ENFJ

Leo

Men are emotional

Agree or disagree, and why?

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Alistair

INTP

Who Should Pay for the First Date?

A pretty simple but controversial question really.

Whoever asked the other out?

The man?

The woman?

Split the bill equally?

Pay for what you ordered?

Something else? (Let us know in the comments)

49 votes

#random

Ana

INFP

Libra

I don't know if this is considered controversial or not but...

People should really have a mix of indoor and outdoor hobbies rather than just one or the other. Like there's nothing wrong with being mostly a indoor or outdoor activities person but you should have at least one hobby that is the opposite. Just to be a well rounded person. Like while I usually... read more

I Agree

I Disagree

16 votes

#world

Liam

13d

INTP

Virgo

I’m about to ask a controversial question, (don’t get mad) 😂

I’ve come across a lot of bio’s on here of women saying they are ‘asexual’ If it is as basic as the definition says then I understand it but do women lie about that and put it in their profile to stop sexual creeps wanting to talk to them? Or is there really that many asexual people who are... read more

#life

Liam

18d

INTP

Virgo

It’s time for a controversial one 👀

Now I admit some faults here first off, I felt annoyed at the fact this person blamed me for being dry yet wasn’t being very different to dry themselves and I texted back promptly and firmly and made my feelings and intentions clear (which I believe I’m allowed to say what I’m looking for and not... read more

#movies

Shota

INTJ

Sagittarius

None controversial opinion, Donnie darko is greatest movie of all time! ♥️ (edited)

#culture

Jens

10d

ENTP

Gemini

The most controversial question ever! (almost no clickbait) What suits a man better: short or long hair?! Everyone is welcome to answer.

Background: I have been letting my hair grow out from a short undercut (see my profile picture) for several months. At the moment I have a transitional hairstyle (Bro Flow/Easy Flow; see this picture here). However, the hair should at least get to shoulder length. So, what do you think about long... read more