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He whaea e takahia ana te mahi a te papa me te whaea i te wa kotahi, kāore e tika te whakawa, engari me whakamoemiti, me te whakahirahira, me te whakaute.

Māmā takitahi / Pāpa

Ia rā, he nui ngā māmā takitahi e kawe ana i te taumahatanga o te whakatipu tamariki, te utu i ngā pire, me te pupuri i te whānau i te taha. Ka whakatārewahia e rātou ā rātou ake hiahia hei whakarite i te mea e kai ana, e aroha ana, e tiakina ana ā rātou tamariki. I te taha kē, e neke ana ētahi…pānui atu

He rerekē ngā māmā takitahi...he kaha, he manawanui, ā, he nui te aroha. Ka whawhai rātou i ngā pakanga i ia rā kāore e tono mō te whakahonore. Ka whakaute ngā tāne tūturu i taua momo kaha.

Ā, kei te whawhai tonu au 🙏💪🧿

Ko te whakatipu tamariki takitahi, ehara i te whanau pakaru. 🤍

Te whakaaro o nga tamahine

I te mea ko ia i takaro he pākiki ki a au e tū ana. #atx #texas #austin #papa #māra #mārakotahi

Kia mau tonu ki te whawhai 🙏💪

Kua noho au hei tangata pāpori i te ao tūturu i ngā rā nei

I tīmata au ki te hangout me ngā hoa mahi i te mea i tono mai rātou ki au, ā, i mea rātou me mutu au te noho hei hermit. Mai i taua wā, kua kite au i te nui o te whakamahi 💊💊🍻🍻, e pāti ana rātou me te kore moe i te pō, i a au e hoki ana ki te kāinga i te wā tika, ki te mātaki i a rātou e pātea…( whakatikahia )pānui atu

Te taumaha i tenei

Ko wai te tangata kotahi kei te toru tekau?

He mea whakakore?

Aroha mai ki te hunga kotahi kaore he tamariki.. tae atu ki te hunga kei a rātou ngā tamariki, me whakauru katoa rātou haha. He mea whakakore ki a koe te whakatū i tētahi tangata e whai tamariki ana?

Te whakaae me te kore whakawa

He aha i te mea he uaua ki te kimi i te tangata kāore e whai whakaaro kino mō te take he māmā kāore e pā ana ki te wehe i te kāinga. Ka rongo rātou i taua kōrero, ka whakaaro rātou he mea ngaro ahau, i te mea ko taku pāpā i whakangaromia te kāinga o te whānau, kāore au. Ka hiahia au kāore ngā…pānui atu

Te Tūhono

Ka pai ake koe ki te noho ki tētahi he tamariki, ki te kore?

Ehara i te mea māmā te noho hei matua takitahi, ina koa kāore koe i te pūtea. I ētahi wā ka kite koe i ētahi atu matua e tuku ana i ngā mea utu nui ki ā rātou tamariki, ka pā te pākiki ki a koe nāna i whakaaro ko tō tamaiti he rawakore ki te whai i a koe hei matua, engari e tino whakakake ana ahau mō ngā matua takitahi pērā i ahau i reira ❤️❤️❤️

me whai wāhi te hapori ki tēnei kaupapa..

#whānaukotahi #māmākotahi #whakaaroaro #whakaaweawe( whakatikahia )

Mahi i te wa katoa, e rua nga tamariki, kei te kura i te wa katoa, a kua hoko i tetahi whare 100 tau te pakeke e hiahia ana i te mahi.. Ka taea e au te pupuri i nga mea katoa mo te nuinga o te wa engari i tenei mutunga wiki ka penei au me te mahi i te ora 100% i te taha kotahi, a kei te raru ahau.

He uaua, engari he whakatutukitanga

He tino uaua te noho hei whaea kotahi, i etahi wa kāore e taea e koe te tiaki i a koe anō nāna i te mea e whakaaro ana koe ki te hoko kai mō tō tama, kāore e taea te hoko i ngā mea tiaki kiri, i ngā kākahu pai mō koe anō. He pai ki ahau kei te pā mai āku pīkau, ko reira ka taea e koe te kite i te…pānui atu

Hmu

Tō mātou pānui i te ata

Kōpaki me ngā kihi i te ata katoa i te mea kāore ia e haere ki te kura, nō reira ko te nuinga o te wā kāore au e tino mōhio ki te noho takitahi nāna i te mea he tama tino ātaahua tōku, ko te tūmanako ka whai tamariki ngā tāngata katoa e hiahia ana ki te whai, ki te riro mai rānei he tamariki…( whakatikahia )pānui atu

I te pānga i tēnei rā, i raru ahau. E hia o koutou he mātua takitahi, ā, e uaua ana i ētahi wā?

Ko te whakatakoto rohe te akoranga nui hei ako me te whakaako i te tamaiti...

#parenting #childhood #anxiety #depression #wellness #wisdom

Kei te raru tetahi atu ki te hopu i nga kare a roto mo tetahi?

Kua tutaki au ki etahi tangata whakamiharo mai i te wa i riro ai au hei mama e tata ana ki te 5 tau ki muri, kua haere au ki nga rangi me nga hononga poto ki nga tama tino pai. Engari kaore au e rongo i tetahi mea. Kaore e taea e au te whai i te wairua kotahi, i nga pīpī i whakamahia e au? Tena…pānui atu

Kia ora

He tepu mo te whā, tēnā koa.

Kaore au e pai ki te mahi i ia rā, engari e pai ana au ki te tunu i tētahi kai pai i ngā rā maha o te wiki. I tēnei pō: he heihei me te broccoli alfredo. #kai #māngaikotahi #pasta

He tino pātea te noho hei matua takitahi

I te tirohanga i te youtube, ka kite au i tēnei ataata e pā ana ki tētahi māmā takitahi i wehe atu i te pāpā o tana pēpi, e kī ana ia 'he tino pātea te noho hei māmā takitahi, hei pāpā takitahi, ka whakamoemiti te iwi ki te pāpā nāna i tuku te tautoko i ia marama, kua karangahia ia hei pāpā nui,…pānui atu

🤷Te Whakahaere i ngā Pānga o te Kua Tahi te Matua🧑‍🍼

🤷Te Whakahaere i ngā Pānga o te Kua Tahi te Matua🧑‍🍼 🧑‍🍼 Ko te whakatipu tamaiti i runga i te mana motuhake, ahakoa te tautoko o te whānau, ka raru i ngā wero, nāna i hiahia ki te kaha hinengaro me te āhua pai ki te ao. 🫴 Ko ētahi o ngā ārai nui e pā ana ki te noho hei matua takitahi ko ngā…pānui atu

Rau

Kei te pai haere ia i ia ra. Te tuatahi i reira ngā parekura

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He tino pai mena ka tono tō tamaiti ki a koe ki te kī, ki te awhi, ki te mea pai ki a rātou, nāna i te mea ka pakeke rātou, ko koe te tangata ka tono mō tō rātou wā 🥰

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I te wā e tino pā te makariri ki ahau nāna i ngāwari mōku te pā te makariri engari kāore e taea e au te whakakore i te fan nāna i te mea ka mōhio taku tama nui ka oho ake ia kāore e taea e au te mahi i tetahi mea engari ko te manawanui i te makariri 🤦‍♀️ he tino uaua te noho hei mātua nō reira me…pānui atu

He tino uaua

I te mea he mate koe engari me tiaki tonu i tō tamaiti/tamariki, kāore e taea e te katoa te mōhio, ā, ko ngā tama e rere ana i te mōhio kua hapū tā rātou hoa, ko tēnei te tuatoru o aku waipiro rongoā mō te upoko mamae i te pō, i te ata, ā, ināianei anō! Aroha mai, e te kaiwhakatūpato, kaua e tango…pānui atu

Koinei te mea e mahi ana nga matua takitahi....

Kaua e kōrero kino mō tō ex.

Ka taea pea te tupu i te wā e pakeke ana tō tamaiti ka mōhio ia he pēhea te he i a koe. Ā, ka pānui rātou ki a koe i tētahi reo kāore pea e pai ki a koe. #universe #parenting #anxiety #depression #lifeadvice( whakatikahia )

Booo

Kua mutu te kaiwhakahaere pēpi i a mātou. He raru te whakaritenga mō rātou engari kua tino whakama i ahau… pēhea ahau e haere ai ki te ongoonga ināianei?🙃😩🙇🏿‍♀️

Te whakangaro auaha...

#self #selfdevelopment #personaldevelopment #selfdevelopment #music #singleparent #success( whakatikahia )