Hapori Singleparent

Ko te whakatipu tamariki takitahi, ehara i te whanau pakaru. 🤍

He whaea e takahia ana te mahi a te papa me te whaea i te wa kotahi, kāore e tika te whakawa, engari me whakamoemiti, me te whakahirahira, me te whakaute.

Ko wai te tangata kotahi kei te toru tekau?

He mea whakakore?

Aroha mai ki te hunga kotahi kaore he tamariki.. tae atu ki te hunga kei a rātou ngā tamariki, me whakauru katoa rātou haha. He mea whakakore ki a koe te whakatū i tētahi tangata e whai tamariki ana?

Te whakaae me te kore whakawa

He aha i te mea he uaua ki te kimi i te tangata kāore e whai whakaaro kino mō te take he māmā kāore e pā ana ki te wehe i te kāinga. Ka rongo rātou i taua kōrero, ka whakaaro rātou he mea ngaro ahau, i te mea ko taku pāpā i whakangaromia te kāinga o te whānau, kāore au. Ka hiahia au kāore ngā…pānui atu

Te Tūhono

Ka pai ake koe ki te noho ki tētahi he tamariki, ki te kore?

Ehara i te mea māmā te noho hei matua takitahi, ina koa kāore koe i te pūtea. I ētahi wā ka kite koe i ētahi atu matua e tuku ana i ngā mea utu nui ki ā rātou tamariki, ka pā te pākiki ki a koe nāna i whakaaro ko tō tamaiti he rawakore ki te whai i a koe hei matua, engari e tino whakakake ana ahau mō ngā matua takitahi pērā i ahau i reira ❤️❤️❤️

me whai wāhi te hapori ki tēnei kaupapa..

#whānaukotahi #māmākotahi #whakaaroaro #whakaaweawe( whakatikahia )

Mahi i te wa katoa, e rua nga tamariki, kei te kura i te wa katoa, a kua hoko i tetahi whare 100 tau te pakeke e hiahia ana i te mahi.. Ka taea e au te pupuri i nga mea katoa mo te nuinga o te wa engari i tenei mutunga wiki ka penei au me te mahi i te ora 100% i te taha kotahi, a kei te raru ahau.

He uaua, engari he whakatutukitanga

He tino uaua te noho hei whaea kotahi, i etahi wa kāore e taea e koe te tiaki i a koe anō nāna i te mea e whakaaro ana koe ki te hoko kai mō tō tama, kāore e taea te hoko i ngā mea tiaki kiri, i ngā kākahu pai mō koe anō. He pai ki ahau kei te pā mai āku pīkau, ko reira ka taea e koe te kite i te…pānui atu

Hmu

Tō mātou pānui i te ata

Kōpaki me ngā kihi i te ata katoa i te mea kāore ia e haere ki te kura, nō reira ko te nuinga o te wā kāore au e tino mōhio ki te noho takitahi nāna i te mea he tama tino ātaahua tōku, ko te tūmanako ka whai tamariki ngā tāngata katoa e hiahia ana ki te whai, ki te riro mai rānei he tamariki…( whakatikahia )pānui atu

I te pānga i tēnei rā, i raru ahau. E hia o koutou he mātua takitahi, ā, e uaua ana i ētahi wā?

Ko te whakatakoto rohe te akoranga nui hei ako me te whakaako i te tamaiti...

#parenting #childhood #anxiety #depression #wellness #wisdom

Kei te raru tetahi atu ki te hopu i nga kare a roto mo tetahi?

Kua tutaki au ki etahi tangata whakamiharo mai i te wa i riro ai au hei mama e tata ana ki te 5 tau ki muri, kua haere au ki nga rangi me nga hononga poto ki nga tama tino pai. Engari kaore au e rongo i tetahi mea. Kaore e taea e au te whai i te wairua kotahi, i nga pīpī i whakamahia e au? Tena…pānui atu

Kia ora

He tepu mo te whā, tēnā koa.

Kaore au e pai ki te mahi i ia rā, engari e pai ana au ki te tunu i tētahi kai pai i ngā rā maha o te wiki. I tēnei pō: he heihei me te broccoli alfredo. #kai #māngaikotahi #pasta

He tino pātea te noho hei matua takitahi

I te tirohanga i te youtube, ka kite au i tēnei ataata e pā ana ki tētahi māmā takitahi i wehe atu i te pāpā o tana pēpi, e kī ana ia 'he tino pātea te noho hei māmā takitahi, hei pāpā takitahi, ka whakamoemiti te iwi ki te pāpā nāna i tuku te tautoko i ia marama, kua karangahia ia hei pāpā nui,…pānui atu

🤷Te Whakahaere i ngā Pānga o te Kua Tahi te Matua🧑‍🍼

🤷Te Whakahaere i ngā Pānga o te Kua Tahi te Matua🧑‍🍼 🧑‍🍼 Ko te whakatipu tamaiti i runga i te mana motuhake, ahakoa te tautoko o te whānau, ka raru i ngā wero, nāna i hiahia ki te kaha hinengaro me te āhua pai ki te ao. 🫴 Ko ētahi o ngā ārai nui e pā ana ki te noho hei matua takitahi ko ngā…pānui atu

Rau

Kei te pai haere ia i ia ra. Te tuatahi i reira ngā parekura

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He tino pai mena ka tono tō tamaiti ki a koe ki te kī, ki te awhi, ki te mea pai ki a rātou, nāna i te mea ka pakeke rātou, ko koe te tangata ka tono mō tō rātou wā 🥰

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I te wā e tino pā te makariri ki ahau nāna i ngāwari mōku te pā te makariri engari kāore e taea e au te whakakore i te fan nāna i te mea ka mōhio taku tama nui ka oho ake ia kāore e taea e au te mahi i tetahi mea engari ko te manawanui i te makariri 🤦‍♀️ he tino uaua te noho hei mātua nō reira me…pānui atu

He tino uaua

I te mea he mate koe engari me tiaki tonu i tō tamaiti/tamariki, kāore e taea e te katoa te mōhio, ā, ko ngā tama e rere ana i te mōhio kua hapū tā rātou hoa, ko tēnei te tuatoru o aku waipiro rongoā mō te upoko mamae i te pō, i te ata, ā, ināianei anō! Aroha mai, e te kaiwhakatūpato, kaua e tango…pānui atu

Koinei te mea e mahi ana nga matua takitahi....

Te taumaha i tenei

Kaua e kōrero kino mō tō ex.

Ka taea pea te tupu i te wā e pakeke ana tō tamaiti ka mōhio ia he pēhea te he i a koe. Ā, ka pānui rātou ki a koe i tētahi reo kāore pea e pai ki a koe. #universe #parenting #anxiety #depression #lifeadvice( whakatikahia )

Booo

Kua mutu te kaiwhakahaere pēpi i a mātou. He raru te whakaritenga mō rātou engari kua tino whakama i ahau… pēhea ahau e haere ai ki te ongoonga ināianei?🙃😩🙇🏿‍♀️

Te whakangaro auaha...

#self #selfdevelopment #personaldevelopment #selfdevelopment #music #singleparent #success( whakatikahia )

Ehara i te matua kotahi engari ko te tangata e noho ana hei matua.

Tāne, wahine, Ngā mihi mō te kaha, ngā mihi mō te manawanui. Ngā mihi mō te ngana ki te mea pai, kaua e wareware ko te whakatipu tamariki ehara i te mea e taea e koe te tuku ki tō tamaiti, e pā ana ki ngā mea e taea e koe te hoko mō rātou. He kāinga hei noho i roto, me tō aroha he mea ka…pānui atu

whakaaro mai ki te mea he toru ngā tamariki...

Ka taea te tino ngenge...( whakatikahia )

🤷Me pēhea te whakaako i tō tamaiti ki te whakatakoto i ngā rohe hauora

🤗 Kia ora e te whānau o ngā mātua takitahi 🤷 I te wā o mua, i te tirohanga ahau ki taku kōtiro i a ia e tākaro ana me ōna hoa i te rōngata. 🥞 I te wā o te wā whakatā, i pātai tētahi tamaiti ki taku kōtiro, "Ko wai ngā tāngata kei tō whānau?" Nā, ka mea ia, "Ōku koroua me tōku whaea." 💁 I…pānui atu

Tautoko mai

Kei te 15 tau taku tamāhine, kāore e mutu te kōrero.. i tēnei wā, he whakamārama mō ngā āhua makawe e pai ana ia, ngā huringa moni roblox me te cpr.. i ngā meneti e 5 kua pahure... Kāti te ata, me te whakaae, jason.. kati te ata, me te whakaae

Hari Rā Whaea 💛