Jagat

Psychology

Selflove

Selfrespect

selfrespect

I’m not here to impress anyone.
If you like me, great. If not, I’m still awesome..Take your pick. 😌👑

Abdi henteu di dieu pikeun ngagumkeun saha waé.
Lamun anjeun resep ka abdi, saé. Lamun henteu, abdi tetep hebat.. Pilih waé. 😌👑

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Respect is not demanded—it is earned through action.

Hormat teu dipénta—éta dihontal ngaliwatan tindakan.

Don't beg people to stay

Ulah nyuhunkeun ka batur pikeun cicing

Sometimes forgiveness and second chances are no longer acts of kindness
It's nothing more than weakness and foolishness

Kadang-kadang pangampura jeung kasempetan kadua sanés deui tindakan kahadéan
Éta sanés langkung ti kalemahan jeung kabodohan

I feel like the men being offended aren't reading the full message, are focused on the flowers part, or just either aren't realizing how much emotional work actually goes into a relationship. 

Men if you have to ask for attention, or to feel appreciated, or to feel loved, the relationship isn't working. No amount of communication will permanently fix the situation. It'll be fixed for a couple of months and then your partner will stop. It doesn't mean they hate you or have negative feelings for you, but the relationship isn't going to work out in the end. One person will always be asking for more than what the other can give. If the other could give it, they would've been giving it from the beginning.

If I gotta ask

Kuring ngarasa yén lalaki anu ngarasa dihina teu maca pesen lengkep, fokus kana bagian kembang, atawa ngan saukur teu sadar sabaraha seueur usaha émosional anu sabenerna diperlukeun dina hiji hubungan.

Lalaki lamun anjeun kudu nanya perhatian, atawa pikeun ngarasa dihargaan, atawa pikeun ngarasa dipikacinta, hubunganana henteu jalan. Teu aya jumlah komunikasi anu bakal permanén ngalereskeun kaayaan. Éta bakal diréka salami sababaraha bulan teras pasangan anjeun bakal eureun. Éta henteu hartosna aranjeunna benci anjeun atanapi gaduh perasaan négatif ka anjeun, tapi hubunganana henteu bakal jalan dina ahirna. Hiji jalma bakal salawasna nanya langkung ti naon anu tiasa dipasihkeun ku anu sanés. Lamun anu sanés tiasa masihan éta, aranjeunna pasti parantos masihan ti mimiti.

Lamun kuring kudu nanya

Keep your standards high. They protect you from low quality experiences.

Dear Men n Women.

Jaga standar anjeun luhur. Aranjeunna ngajaga anjeun tina pangalaman kualitas rendah.

She's not busy, she just doesn’t like you. A woman will always be available for a man that matters to her.❤️
He's not busy,he just doesn't like you.
A man will always be available for a woman that matters to him.😂

Manéhna teu sibuk, manéhna ngan saukur teu resep ka anjeun. Hiji awéwé bakal salawasna aya pikeun hiji lalaki anu penting pikeunna.❤️
Manéhna teu sibuk, manéhna ngan saukur teu resep ka anjeun.
Hiji lalaki bakal salawasna aya pikeun hiji awéwé anu penting pikeunna.😂

Noted 💅

Catetan 💅

self-respect ladies

hormat diri para wanoja

Never apologize for having high standards. People who really want to be in your life will rise up to meet them.

Never Apologize For Having High Standards

Ulah pernah nyuhunkeun hapunten pikeun gaduh standar anu luhur. Jalma-jalma anu bener-bener hoyong aya dina kahirupan anjeun bakal naék pikeun nyumponan éta.

Ulah pernah nyuhunkeun hapunten pikeun gaduh standar anu luhur

When you learn how much you're worth, you'll stop giving people discounts.

When You Learn..

Nalika anjeun diajar sabaraha anjeun berharga, anjeun bakal eureun masihan jalma diskon.

Nalika Anjeun Diajar..

A real man or women will still respect you even when they're mad at you. Remember that. Be the bigger person

A Real Man or Women

Lalaki atawa awéwé anu saéstuna bakal tetep ngahargaan anjeun sanajan aranjeunna ambek ka anjeun. Émut éta. Janten jalma anu langkung ageung

Lalaki atawa Awéwé Anu Saéstuna

Be ur self🌸

Jadilah dirimu sorangan🌸

#life #thoughts #marriage #responsibility #ambition #selfrespect

Often, love flies out of the window, when poverty knocks on the door 😏🙄😕

#hirup #pikiran #pernikahan #tanggungjawab #ambisi #harga diri

Sakapeung, cinta ngapung kaluar tina jandela, nalika kamiskinan mengetok panto 😏🙄😕

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This...

Ieu...

Self respect is important when people treat us badly, know your limit, boundaries.. and yes, we can learn from it but make sure with growing mindset

Don’t let poor mindset people drag us down 🤢

Set boundaries, know when you need to walk away.. for your own peace 

#selfrespect

Maybe they’re projecting their own limits

Hormat ka diri sorangan penting nalika jalma-jalma ngagambarkeun urang kalayan goréng, terang wates, batasan.. sareng leres, urang tiasa diajar tina éta tapi pastikeun kalayan pola pikir anu tumbuh

Ulah ngantep jalma anu boga pola pikir goréng narik urang ka handap 🤢

Tetep wates, terang iraha anjeun peryogi pikeun angkat.. pikeun karapihan sorangan

#selfrespect

Meureun maranehna nuju ngagambarkeun watesna sorangan

Get honest with people about who you are, what you want, & how you expect to be treated. Standards only scare off people who are not meant for you.

Get Honest.

Jadikeun jujur ka jalma ngeunaan saha anjeun, naon anu anjeun hoyong, & kumaha anjeun ngarepkeun diperlakukeun. Standar ngan ukur ngagerakeun jalma anu henteu ditujukeun pikeun anjeun.

Jadikeun Jujur.

Keep your head, heels and standards high my ladies

Jaga sirah, tumit, jeung standar anjeun luhur, para wanoja.

You gotta skrrt skrrt before u get hurt hurt ladies

Anjeun kedah skrrt skrrt sateuacan anjeun tatu hurt ladies

Most times, when a girl/boy tries to fix a broken man/woman, they end up with a broken heart. They lose themselves in the process, forgetting their self-worth.

Remember Your Self-Worth

Kaseueuran waktos, nalika hiji gadis/jeruk nyobian ngalereskeun lalaki/awéwé anu ruksak, aranjeunna ahirna meunang haté anu ruksak. Aranjeunna leungit diri dina prosésna, hilap kana harga diri maranéhanana.

Inget Ka Harga Diri Anjeun

If they make a joke about you, make a joke back. Bite back. Have some teeth. If you dont show strength, they may try to take advantage of you or undermine your position.

If they make a joke about you, make a joke back.

Lamun maranéhna ngadamel guyonan ngeunaan anjeun, balikeun guyonan. Gigit deui. Boga sababaraha huntu. Lamun anjeun teu némbongkeun kakuatan, maranéhna bisa waé nyobian ngamangpaatkeun anjeun atawa ngagoyang posisi anjeun.

Lamun maranéhna ngadamel guyonan ngeunaan anjeun, balikeun guyonan.

On the days you miss him/her, please remember why they're your ex. Remember the disrespect. Remember how bad they treated you. "Oh but I cant stop missing them" Honey you miss the memories and the attention, not him/her.

On the days you miss him/her

Dina-dina nalika anjeun sono ka anjeunna, punten émut kunaon aranjeunna janten mantan anjeun. Émut kana kurangna hormat. Émut kumaha parahna aranjeunna ngubaran anjeun. "Oh tapi kuring teu tiasa eureun sono ka aranjeunna" Sayang, anjeun sono ka kenangan sareng perhatian, sanés ka anjeunna.

Dina-dina nalika anjeun sono ka anjeunna

Never respond to insults. The main purpose of an insulter is to make you act without thinking. Frustrate them with your silence.

Never Respond To Insults.

Ulah ngejawab ka hina. Tujuan utama tina nu ngahina nyaéta pikeun nyieun anjeun ngalakukeun tanpa mikir. Ngahambat aranjeunna ku sepi anjeun.

Ulah Ngejawab Ka Hina.

This is my way..🤭
It's not ego it's self respect 😊😊

Ieu téh cara kuring..🤭
Éta sanés égo, éta hormat ka diri sorangan 😊😊

You disrespect yourself everytime you say yes when you want to say no. You call it love/loyalty/friendship. Really you're just hoping someone will see how amazing you are and choose you. It shouldn't work that way. Choose yourself. That's how you teach them. By choosing you.

You're Disrespecting Yourself

Anjeun ngahina diri sorangan unggal waktos anjeun nyarios enya nalika anjeun hoyong nyarios henteu. Anjeun nyebutna cinta/kesetiaan/pertahabatan. Sakedik anjeun ngan ukur ngarepkeun batur ningali sabaraha hebatna anjeun sareng milih anjeun. Éta henteu kedah jalan sapertos kieu. Pilih diri anjeun. Éta cara anjeun ngajar aranjeunna. Ku milih anjeun.

Anjeun Ngahina Diri Sorangan

They're not hard to love. They just need someone who cares enough to put in the same effort.

They're not hard to love..

Aranjeunna henteu hese dipikacinta. Aranjeunna ngan butuh batur anu paduli cukup pikeun masang usaha anu sami.

Aranjeunna henteu hese dipikacinta..

Better to be at peace with your depression and never suffer a humiliating rejection

Langkung saé damai sareng depresi anjeun sareng henteu kantos ngalaman panolakan anu ngahinakeun

Remember this girls !!

Inget ieu budak awéwé !!

Keeps working on themself, their mindset and their skills. They make choices that match their values and goals.

THE HIGH VALUE MAN/WOMEN

Terus bekerja pada diri mereka sendiri, pola pikir mereka, dan keterampilan mereka. Mereka membuat pilihan yang sesuai dengan nilai dan tujuan mereka.

LELAKI/WANITA YANG BERHARGA TINGGI

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A person that knows their worth doesn't explain or prove why they deserve it. They simply remove the people that dont give them.

A person that knows their worth doesn't explain or prove why they deserve it.

Jalma anu terang harga dirina henteu ngajelaskeun atanapi ngabuktikeun kunaon maranéhna pantes. Aranjeunna ngan saukur ngaleungitkeun jalma-jalma anu henteu masihan ka maranéhna.

Jalma anu terang harga dirina henteu ngajelaskeun atanapi ngabuktikeun kunaon maranéhna pantes.

The quality of your work reflects the quality of your character. Focus in excellence in all you do, and success will follow you.

The Quality Of Your Work

Kualitas karya anjeun ngagambarkeun kualitas karakter anjeun. Fokus kana kaunggulan dina sagala hal anu anjeun lakukeun, sareng kasuksesan bakal nuturkeun anjeun.

Kualitas Karya Anjeun

Strong women and mend have high standards and boundaries set.

Strong Women & Men

Awéwé kuat sareng lalaki gaduh standar sareng wates anu luhur.

Awéwé & Lalaki Kuat

Peace over drama & distance over disrespect.

Know Your Damn Worth Ladies and Gentleman.

Damai tinimbang drama & jarak tinimbang kurang ajar.

Kenali Harga Diri Anjeun, Nona sareng Bapa.

A Boo community for meeting other Selfrespect enthusiasts.

Selfrespect Community

Abdi henteu di dieu pikeun ngagumkeun saha waé. Lamun anjeun resep ka abdi, saé. Lamun henteu, abdi tetep hebat.. Pilih waé. 😌👑

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Hormat teu dipénta—éta dihontal ngaliwatan tindakan.

Ulah nyuhunkeun ka batur pikeun cicing

Kadang-kadang pangampura jeung kasempetan kadua sanés deui tindakan kahadéan Éta sanés langkung ti kalemahan jeung kabodohan( diédit )

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Cinta téh hiji kecap kerja, lain ngan saukur rarasaan. Percaya teu dipasihkeun—éta dipikagaduh. Sareng hiji hapunten hartina saeutik waé kecuali éta dituturkeun ku parobahan. Dina ahirna, lampah urang némbongkeun saha urang sabenerna. Pilih konsistensi tibatan jangji kosong.

Cai diri anjeun ku cinta diri, hormat diri sareng perhatian, éta bakal tumbuh sapertos kembang anu éndah anu masih mekar kalayan éndah, bersih sareng wangi.

#HormatDiri!

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