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Hi everyone Today outfits

New hair cut from long to short 🙂😂

why is it difficult to make new friends as an adult? it feels like it should be easier...

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Had hair treatment.. starting to care for myself more

I haven’t blocked anyone on this app in the whole 2 years I’ve been on it, but I just blocked 2 people in a row & it honestly feels great. 😂

Giving Up

I try to be kind and I try to initiate conversation but one liners do not do it for me. I need to see you initiate and sustain a conversation,not one liners. Since you don't feel that you can invest in gettingto know me, I will just walk way because my time and effort are valuable.

Autumn 🍂

Are you feeling it? How do you help yourself to survive cold and autumn depression?

Jess A creates

Choose you 🫶

Protect and prioritise your peace because you matter... Those who don't get it, don't deserve to have you ✨👌

Age

Occasionally, I get matches with younger guys. I try to give them a chance but I always tell them that we are in different life phases..I am not thinking of getting married, I want to date long term seriously and I am open to the idea of regular partner. I don't think I want kids. But some younger… read more

Skincare🧖🏻‍♀️

Just loving this stupid overpriced Mask🥹🤍

Choosing Me

You try the apps and all..but you realise after a while men what they want..they will choose you as an option as long as you meet the criteria they seek but they are not going to see you for you.And that's why people keep swiping.You are better off choosing yourself.I am sure the same goes for guys.

Sad.

I just feel sad at times. I try not to because I know that I have to take care of myself.

Cleaning one corner of my room at a time

Sunday blues

My Sunday is ending so fast!

Chat ?

Anyone free to chat?

Should I stay in or out

Finished 60% of my homework. Thinking of doing some errands but strangely I feel sad today. I’m bonding quite nicely with my tarot her name is Odette. 🦢 Tchaikovsky was always my favorite composer.

Chat,?

Anyone up for a chat?

Choices

So many cute men on here who seem perfectly normal but I never seem to run into them!🤷🤷

Changes

I always believed that someone would take care of me and that I would have my own person for so long and somewjere along the way I have realised that only I can take care of myself and that I am the one who needs to show up for myself.

Old Fashioned Respect

We all post about different things or topics on here. We do it in the hope that our experiences might help someone else out or be useful to someone who has experienced something similar. What I don't understand are some people who comment but have nothing of value to add. I have always been taught… (edited) read more

Rethink...

To be self centered isn't to be narcissistic, quite the opposite. Narcissism comes of a lack of self, a lack that requires overcompensation to "mean" something. To be self possessed or self obsessed in a way that allows you to show up as your best, most true and authentic self is exactly what those… read more

Why?

Why do we always look outside to feel complete inside? Why do we think that fairy tale endings exist? Why do we not realise so many things on social media and online don't show the true picture of things?why do we think that someone might come and rescue us someday?There is no coming, you only have… (edited) read more

Snack time

I gave into my snack desire.

Stop for myself

I’ve been extremely making myself busy while I am currently on holiday. I had a plan to meet my friend this afternoon, but I realised that I was well over my exhaustion point. After my morning plan, I decided to cancel and had a long nap. I will cook, and will get ready for my next destination… read more

Chat

Up too early

Adulting Win

Finished paying off my security deposit and now I can actually start paying off debts and loans! Hooray Adulting! (edited)

Companion

It takes longer to get used to living on your own and going home to nobody. You become your own companion. You have to get everything done on your own.Does it come easy? No not one bit.

Knitting as a form of self care!

Okay so I can knit a little and I make a lot of mistakes but thats life. We learn from it and keep going!

Would you?

Would you consider dating someone who broke up and it only has been a month? I feel it's not a good idea because you can end up being the rebound person.

After a stressful day we all need this

Getting my feet done

Gratitude

I try to be grateful for all the small things in life that I have even if they are not many.My mum still comes to see me, I have a small group of 4 gal friends and I have a job and a roof over my head. (edited)

100 Days Left

A friend reminded me that there are only 10 days left for 2026 to end. Can you believe it?

Weekend ends

Sunday night and back to work tomorrow morning..I feel it the most when I get into bed under my covers. In some places , Sunday has not ended.

Your worth it

Taking care of your health is number 1. Most important. Then there are few other things A bit of colour. I’ve been under the weather for a week. But decided I can at least fix my fingernail. Small things make one feel good

Self care

Getting ready early for a friend's wedding

Friends

Do people really want to be friends or this is just about how many matches you can add up to? Even friendships take effort and conversations , not 1 liners. Beats me , this new form of friendship where there is no real conversation.

Hallmark Mystery movies

I still watch some of these and they are really good!