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Self care

Getting ready early for a friend's wedding

Self care

Getting ready early for a friend's wedding

Choose you 🫶

Protect and prioritise your peace because you matter... Those who don't get it, don't deserve to have you ✨👌

I haven’t blocked anyone on this app in the whole 2 years I’ve been on it, but I just blocked 2 people in a row & it honestly feels great. 😂

I did a facemask, I feel like I'm glowing now 😂💅

Rethink...

To be self centered isn't to be narcissistic, quite the opposite. Narcissism comes of a lack of self, a lack that requires overcompensation to "mean" something. To be self possessed or self obsessed in a way that allows you to show up as your best, most true and authentic self is exactly what those… read more

Friends

Do people really want to be friends or this is just about how many matches you can add up to? Even friendships take effort and conversations , not 1 liners. Beats me , this new form of friendship where there is no real conversation.

Giving Up

I try to be kind and I try to initiate conversation but one liners do not do it for me. I need to see you initiate and sustain a conversation,not one liners. Since you don't feel that you can invest in gettingto know me, I will just walk way because my time and effort are valuable.

Stop for myself

I’ve been extremely making myself busy while I am currently on holiday. I had a plan to meet my friend this afternoon, but I realised that I was well over my exhaustion point. After my morning plan, I decided to cancel and had a long nap. I will cook, and will get ready for my next destination… read more

I've gotten better at cutting my own hair! 🥳

Age

Occasionally, I get matches with younger guys. I try to give them a chance but I always tell them that we are in different life phases..I am not thinking of getting married, I want to date long term seriously and I am open to the idea of regular partner. I don't think I want kids. But some younger… read more

After a stressful day we all need this

Getting my feet done

Cleaning one corner of my room at a time

Should I stay in or out

Finished 60% of my homework. Thinking of doing some errands but strangely I feel sad today. I’m bonding quite nicely with my tarot her name is Odette. 🦢 Tchaikovsky was always my favorite composer.

Regular Chats.

It would be so nice to have someone regular to chat with.I miss that !

Choices

So many cute men on here who seem perfectly normal but I never seem to run into them!🤷🤷

Changes

I always believed that someone would take care of me and that I would have my own person for so long and somewjere along the way I have realised that only I can take care of myself and that I am the one who needs to show up for myself.

Not feeling the best today

It’s my day off so I may just nap 😔

Why?

Why do we always look outside to feel complete inside? Why do we think that fairy tale endings exist? Why do we not realise so many things on social media and online don't show the true picture of things?why do we think that someone might come and rescue us someday?There is no coming, you only have… (edited) read more

Snack time

I gave into my snack desire.

Life

I always thought I know what I want by the time I turned 40 and I would have done so many things by then. However, life had a completely different idea and even now in my forties , I am still learning about myself and still doing many things for the first time

It’s time

Now that I’m feeling better I desperately need to wash my hair. Now comes the fun part ,,, brushing it out! It gets badly tangled (fine hair). It takes me 30 min + Arm neck head start to hurt. But I’ll get it done !

Struggle🍵🌧

Hallmark Mystery movies

I still watch some of these and they are really good!

Matches

Hard to find genuine people who really want to get to know you. They match , exchange a few niceties and poof! Just unmatch if you don't feel the vibe

Silver nails

Chat

Up too early

Adulting Win

Finished paying off my security deposit and now I can actually start paying off debts and loans! Hooray Adulting! (edited)

Your worth it

Taking care of your health is number 1. Most important. Then there are few other things A bit of colour. I’ve been under the weather for a week. But decided I can at least fix my fingernail. Small things make one feel good

Companion

It takes longer to get used to living on your own and going home to nobody. You become your own companion. You have to get everything done on your own.Does it come easy? No not one bit.

Knitting as a form of self care!

Okay so I can knit a little and I make a lot of mistakes but thats life. We learn from it and keep going!

Would you?

Would you consider dating someone who broke up and it only has been a month? I feel it's not a good idea because you can end up being the rebound person.

Loooooong Day

Some days you just wish you had someone to come home to and tell you I will take care of you today, put your feet up and it is all going to be ok

Teatime

My self-care, blueberry biscuit and tea. Simple pleasures

Gratitude

I try to be grateful for all the small things in life that I have even if they are not many.My mum still comes to see me, I have a small group of 4 gal friends and I have a job and a roof over my head. (edited)

Cute

Would be so cute to have a Boo crush

Chat

Anyone want to have a chat on this sunny afternoon?

100 Days Left

A friend reminded me that there are only 10 days left for 2026 to end. Can you believe it?

I love me in a new hair style

Is a new hairstyle a confidence booster for you too?

Weekend ends

Sunday night and back to work tomorrow morning..I feel it the most when I get into bed under my covers. In some places , Sunday has not ended.