Absence Community

Hi guys 🔥

In friendship, I don’t question where you go, who you’re with, or what you do. Your life is your space. But in a relationship, clarity matters to me. I overthink sometimes, so reassurance, communication, and consistency mean a lot. It’s not about controlling someone, it’s about making each other... read more

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Nobody is your friend unless they defend your name in your absence.

Should I start worrying about my mental health? I’ve been feeling empty lately, and I don’t know what I’m living for. I feel like I’m not necessary or important to anyone, like my existence or even my absence wouldn’t really affect anyone. Not being dramatic; that’s just honestly how I feel.

At the same time, it hasn’t really affected my daily habits. I still sleep well and have a normal appetite.

The honest opinion

Sometimes the greatest loneliness is not caused by the absence of anyone around us, but by the invisible wall we ourselves have built. I did the same. I chose isolation rather than the risk of being disappointed again. Because I am tired of showing my true face again and again, only to be left with... read more

Before you get attached to someone, Be prepared for their absence.

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Just once, I want my absence to sting.