Absence Community

Quiet Strength

Stillness isn't the absence of movement... it's the presence of purpose. Like the heron, sometimes the greatest strength is knowing when to wait, when to watch, and when to act. Nature has a way of reminding us that patience often brings the greatest rewards.

Is it okay for a man to cry?

People still ask whether men should cry. My answer is simple: yes. A man who can cry isn’t weak. He’s emotionally alive. The old idea that masculinity means suppressing every emotion has done more harm than good. It has taught generations of men to suffer in silence, confuse vulnerability with... read more

Lara Croft, Angelina Jolie version!

Sorry for my absence, I've been getting some rest this weekend 💜 as requested, here's Lara Croft! Who's Next 👀???

I will never wait for you again.

I will never wait for you again. Come and go as you please. It will no longer feel like a loss. I'm no longer investing my heart in your foolish act—trying so hard to appear nonchalant just to seem mysterious. I'm done playing your game. I'm done letting your disappearances make me feel like I'm... read more

The Darkness must prevail, to bring forth the Light.

I loved with hands that never stopped reaching, even when yours forgot the way back. I spoke my hurt a thousand gentle ways, hoping love could learn to listen. You filled your days while I counted the silence, wondering if absence had become your answer. So I placed my heart in the open— not to... read more

Just saying 💯💯💯

I will rather adjust my life to your absence; than to adjust my boundaries to your disrespect!💯💯💯💯