Fight or Leave

Question

What would you do if you are in a healthy relationship and suddenly your loved one breaks up with you?

Do you fight or do you leave? What would you do?

Joey · Accepted Answer

Why fight for someone that doesn’t want to be with you???

Imay · Answer

I would try to have an open and honest conversation to understand their reasons. Depending on the situation, I might try to work things out and fight for the relationship or if it's best for both of us, I might accept the breakup and choose to move on.

⏹️Sûrjît⏩ · Answer

In the end, if I'm not at fault and she still chooses to leave, she never loved enough.

Irrespective of how much I did, I'd let her leave!

Ashil · Answer

I will stay calm , if he/she  truly loves you back  ,they will come back

Cy · Answer

I'd fight first, but if the other person is not willing to fight for you and for the relationship, why bother saving it? Fighting for the relationship while losing yourself in the process hurts. Save yourself

Rulling _magenta_801 · Answer

All the matter is if someone is wanted to go from you. Thn u have to let it goooo

Fearless Missai · Answer

Leave. It's not healthy when it breaks all of a sudden

Spiro · Answer

This depends on the circumstance but there was a specific reason for that step and i will not leave or let go until i know why

Vinoth · Answer

There is no point in fighting or begging for someone love ... if they wanna leave let them leave , holding it only reduce love and increases hatred

Nikky · Answer

Would fight for it only if the other party would too. Otherwise, just leave.

Advitiya Aggarwal · Answer

No experience of dating still I think Fighting should be done for what is yours

Vibhu · Answer

That isn't healthy tbh

Himanshu · Answer

A tough question. It deserves a try atleast.

A · Answer

Would start doing some pushups maybe

Kshitij · Answer

Mohabbat thi isliye jaane diya, zidd hoti toh baahon me hoti.....

Earl · Answer

I would try to communicate with her to ask what the issue is and find a way on how to fix the issue. If it's not possible anymore and our relationship is only hurting both of us, I won't try to fight it, I would accept it and let go. At least I know I tried to fix it as much as I can.

P · Answer

If its matters enough to you have an open discussion about the break-up and see if anything can be done to resolve the situation on both sides. If nothing can be changed, do the thing that will make you most happy and leave you with the least regrets whether it be staying to fight on or moving forward without the person.

Dennis · Answer

Leave! If relationship was truly healthy then your partner might have just found someone else.

Affan · Answer

If my partner chooses to break up I would try to find the reason if she refuses to talk I'd leave 
If she doesn't want to talk then what's the point

Salim · Answer

Fight is good with someone you love most, because you can't fight with everyone

Shreyas Pathak · Answer

If your partner decides that they are not compatible with you then there is nothing that you can do, because you can't force someone to stay with you they will only be by your side until they want to!(Bitter but truth)

Rob · Answer

End of the day it would depend on their reason but ultimately if they have already decided to leave then just say ok. You've clearly made your choice and not bothered talking to me about anything to see ya. I'd grieve and move on. If they decide without discussing anything then it shows more about them and their investment in the relationship. Pretty simple. No need for animosity or gnashing of teeth

Magnus · Answer

Just let her/him go, do not fight, that is lack of self respect since you are hurting your self and even anoying the other.

Oleg/אולג · Answer

Fight for what? To be together with someone who doesn't want to be with me? In my language we have bad rude expression. If someone doesn't want bread with butter, then person can sux with moustard:)
Every situation is individual. If person for example has cancer and doesn't want be burden on shoulders of other and breaking social links, or person has danger in life and what others be out of danger also its another reason. Important to understand situation. Because fight and for beloved person and against life real circumstances its in thing. And just to try to impress someone its another thing. So I think it's individual and based on situation conditions.

Adnan Shahriar · Answer

I'd want to know the reason. My answer would depend on that.

Mark · Answer

If you love her you'd respect her opinion and let her go

Rahul Singh · Answer

Let's have a healthy relationship first then we can find out 😉😉

John Ivan · Answer

I'd just let her go. Simple as that. If she did love the person as much as that person does to her, she wouldn't just leave like that. However, if there's something that hinders that possibility to stay a couple, then, as a very understanding person, it's only just, to give her the "right" to leave and wish the best for her.

Anthony · Answer

Definitely need to have a heart to heart to understand the core of what is going on...

My inclination is that if someone wants to end the relationship abruptly its cause they met someone else.

Relationships are hard and they're worth fighting for.  But not if you're the only one fighting to make it work.

Ganesh L. · Answer

Neither. It wasn't a healthy relationship to begin with when your loved one breaks up with you. 
And you never say your loved one in a relationship. You either call them as "my partner" or introduce them as your "little trouble maker 😅"

Katleho · Answer

Leave, my daily presence was a fight enough even though I've noticed the sudden changes and coldness. When you see me try hard just know I'm bleeding internally and hoping you'll notice and come back.

When you want to leave, leave. I won't fight because I've fought hard enough.

Fight or Leave

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In the end, if I'm not at fault and she still chooses to leave, she never loved enough. Irrespective of how much I did, I'd let her leave!

I'd fight first, but if the other person is not willing to fight for you and for the relationship, why bother saving it? Fighting for the relationship while losing yourself in the process hurts. Save yourself

All the matter is if someone is wanted to go from you. Thn u have to let it goooo

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