Observing Community

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After talking for a year, I found the guy's comment on Reddit where he mentioned his top preference and it was not me, obviously. I'm simply observing this fake world.

Why are men taught how to treat women… but women rarely get taught how to treat men? 🤔

In modern relationship talk, there’s a very common pattern: 👨 Men get a whole “how to be a good partner” curriculum: ✅ respect her ✅ communicate better ✅ emotional intelligence ✅ consent ✅ plan dates / be thoughtful / “do better” But 👩 women rarely get an equivalent “how to treat a man well”... read more

Don't let yourself fill the gaps.

Instead, ask questions. By the way, some people are voluntarily using the gaps to elude explanations, or use it as a trick to let you fill them and also, possibly, to have you show them who you are. Example is when meeting a fortune teller. It would tell you something like "I see it ... very... read more

Guys does it ever wear you out how you're going to have to hold back Alot of your honesty to increase your success rate with a woman and then slowly show your real selves once you succeed with them once

(And Yes I know the guys here who are actually trying to use this app to date are unlikely to participate in this question because again making yourselves look a certain way is crucial to increasing your success. But surely there are bold men who have the desire to date but are still willing to be... read more

Quiet Places

Not every journey needs a destination. Some places are meant only to pause, to breathe, and to step away from the noise of everyday life. There’s a different kind of peace in such corners — where nothing demands attention, nothing asks for speed, and you are free to simply exist without... read more

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Observing. Not reacting. Silence isn't empty. Night clears what the day confuses.