In modern relationship talk, there’s a very common pattern: 👨 Men get a whole “how to be a good partner” curriculum: ✅ respect her ✅ communicate better ✅ emotional intelligence ✅ consent ✅ plan dates / be thoughtful / “do better” But 👩 women rarely get an equivalent “how to treat a man well”... read more

INFJ

Leo

Quiet Places

Not every journey needs a destination. Some places are meant only to pause, to breathe, and to step away from the noise of everyday life. There’s a different kind of peace in such corners — where nothing demands attention, nothing asks for speed, and you are free to simply exist without... read more

26d

ENTP

Leo

Musings about online dating (long-form discussion)

I find the dating scene riddled with lonely men failing to respect boundaries. I find women disgusted by their first impression of most men. And, unfortunately, I find that most of the interactions are influenced by past negative experiences that have fed into a negative feedback loop. Here are... read more

INTJ

Aquarius

#....

Observing. Not reacting. Silence isn't empty. Night clears what the day confuses.

4mo

INTJ

Leo

Guys does it ever wear you out how you're going to have to hold back Alot of your honesty to increase your success rate with a woman and then slowly show your real selves once you succeed with them once

(And Yes I know the guys here who are actually trying to use this app to date are unlikely to participate in this question because again making yourselves look a certain way is crucial to increasing your success. But surely there are bold men who have the desire to date but are still willing to be... read more

4mo

INFJ

Aries

I’ve been observing how people connect — or pretend to.

It’s interesting how quick some can be to disappear after a spark, a word, a moment. I used to take it personally, but now I see it for what it is — timing, intention, and sometimes just human nature. People reveal themselves in the smallest ways — through silence, delay, or the absence of effort.... read more