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#polyamory
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1d
ISTJ
Cancer
That last one though đ€
![That last one though đ€](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66db94b943b34362b50cf2f4/17256664942683cfba91bdf7f689f0b4333e413c9eb38.jpg?class=xl)
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#polyamory
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1d
ENFP
Libra
Yeah, you⊠you are not responsible for the other persons feelings. Say what you mean, mean what you say, donât say it mean.
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0
#polyamory
![Rosy Gardens](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/I4oAy2HttIaJd8QrKxaHCNb5Uj03/17243249727152b6f3edb21bac40c518a2733fc552058.jpg?class=xs)
11d
INTJ
Capricorn
1 Award
For the people who don't understand. đ
#polyamory #enm #donthate #loveislove #beyou #liveyourlife #communication #communicationiskey #communicatingdirectly #boundaries #values #respect #selfcare #mentalawareness #mentalhealth #relationshipadvice (edited)
![For the people who don't understand. đ](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66cd24a763702327a92a0730/172472029927050a3bcbb8d4ac252741c345fa19fc43b.jpg?class=xl)
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#polyamory
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14d
INTP
Sagittarius
Emotional availability is a must for any healthy relationship. And nowadays is so hard to find-(
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5
#polyamory
![Taylor](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/dWpsLZ2GZUMmQ3zvF6VFydVBI1v2/17213096120049ebab95218b2ddd7540bce7cf173fac4.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
INTP
Libra
Trying to find a friend who doesnt mind getting intimate sometimes
I am in an open marriage, and want a girl who wants to hang out, watch anime, play video games, and cuddle.
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0
#polyamory
![Charlotte](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/EiYsLratEqhziLDUCUxRUguDWkS2/1724746682780d28cae114ef1d589133dac438fc8fa9b.jpg?class=xs)
11d
INTP
Pisces
Solo dating
So for those that are in a cule, how many have successfully been able to add one more into an established cule? And how would you suggest ensuring they feel welcome?
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3
#polyamory
![Dondon](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/RFr2vKP7GlO2PBk3bLzbYddn8H83/1724248354057a1bed852a778788ed3bfc2608597c190.jpg?class=xs)
16d
ENFP
Libra
Acceptance
I like how when i tell people i practice being poly they automatically assume that means I have multiple sex partners when really it just means i rather focus on having multiple intimate relationships, whether its sexual or just romantic, in nature. I throughly believe in being upfront and honest... read more
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#polyamory
![Brad](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/WcaI6ASjFYdm0qGlv0iFRueIbR32/17245158211656f52732776dea9e88cfdd255010c6215.jpg?class=xs)
14d
INFP
Capricorn
Who else is still trying to learn this app?
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#polyamory
![Ness](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/pjD54QqOjTNQtniv3F6Iu2K1P7z1/1670009673638df69057c91c053df4f1202229def7501.jpg?class=xs)
9d
ENFP
Libra
Have you ever been what i call, Poly-played ? đ„đ
Let me explain: There was this mono girl, that had a crush on and who was fully aware of it. A year after I asked her on a date (that she declined for obvious reasons), she came back to me. Her boyfriend wanted to open their relationship. So i began to see her for weeks. It was cool, fresh,... read more
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#polyamory
![Luna Rose](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/DGkjoAplNEM2iUKApZbyroTFI3q1/1719867571805707c1663518d8bf08e26106e8b4eacc0.jpg?class=xs)
29d
ENTP
Cancer
Hello!
Is there anybody here that's in the North Eastern MA or Southern NH/Maine USA area on here that would want to connect? I have been trying on here, feeld, and hinge and no luck. So far, not a lot of people actually want to date me and form something substantial. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.... read more
![Hello!](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66b6829ca9a1c52f5786f07d/1723237027228f8c964b6f4a16868e237fb8827476af8.jpg?class=xl)
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11
#polyamory
![Mike](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/ub9YpM5Z91RIFtyszHtzFR4WqFC2/172508506708063371df6eaa5186190d89758f068f6e4.jpg?class=xs)
7d
ISFJ
Capricorn
Greetings all
Greetings all. Greetings all. Hello everyone. I hope you all have an amazing day. I would like to ask a question for those who already started their poly life. Who was the choice of your first partner? Was it the best friend of your gf or bf? Was it a common friend? Was it a tinder date? Maybe a... read more
![Greetings all](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66d328da4fd7c0e23d599422/1725114592073c02a1e2cdf73f32d9ee6f8725afd3a81.jpg?class=xl)
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#polyamory
![Mike](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/ub9YpM5Z91RIFtyszHtzFR4WqFC2/172508506708063371df6eaa5186190d89758f068f6e4.jpg?class=xs)
6d
ISFJ
Capricorn
Seriouse topic.
When people hear about polygamy they immeadetly think that those who are into polygamy are freaks, cheaters, wierdos, loosers and liars. They believe that we force our partners to do things that brings them pain, or that we just wanna hook up and cheat. I had many people telling me this or my... read more
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#polyamory
![Di'vision](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/jcDODpN2pWQiXibyJFLW2qadrHx1/172415690676199aecececb7b3f083b5cd88ac779e86b.jpg?class=xs)
15d
ENTP
Sagittarius
Hello
Not much else to do by doom scrolls and post stuff, this is kind of like #Hive but you can match with people đ€Ł
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#polyamory
![Ruru](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/P2ctkAsFEYbSOoevFz6LlX3AZOq2/172122127142185b19ca17726e574fb7b7da66c84e38f.jpg?class=xs)
28d
INTJ
Aries
It's not easy, but it's natural.
From my perspective, #polyamory is the endgame. Probably the whole goal of #dating, #relationship, and #marriage is already accomplished. Instead of feeling that you've reached the end of the game... you open yourself up to play the game again. You just have a "non-single" title now, but you end... read more
![It's not easy, but it's natural.](https://media.tenor.com/QfCzP8EduvgAAAAM/looking-at-the-sea-elvira-camarrone.gif)
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#polyamory
![Mike](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/ub9YpM5Z91RIFtyszHtzFR4WqFC2/172508506708063371df6eaa5186190d89758f068f6e4.jpg?class=xs)
6d
ISFJ
Capricorn
Another one.
![Another one.](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66d4078931813cf87fb531e7/17251715962849ed3cae1b9f3083e32d581fdfde8407e.jpg?class=xl)
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0
#polyamory
![Mike](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/ub9YpM5Z91RIFtyszHtzFR4WqFC2/172508506708063371df6eaa5186190d89758f068f6e4.jpg?class=xs)
6d
ISFJ
Capricorn
Togheter apes strong.
![Togheter apes strong.](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66d44cc6fbac6a77fcdc9589/17251893232230ce0e0261c3004064bde1dcb4dbed2a3.jpg?class=xl)
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0
#polyamory
![Nick](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/OVBQWiFmp0Zv1NYy9ul9QNY8TPt1/17250553701222e07ae86d092a471e53855785b6c8dce.jpg?class=xs)
7d
INTJ
Libra
PGH Poly Folks?
Anybody around the Burgh or vicinity who might want to chat? I'm in an established polycule and live out in the sticks, so as you can imagine it can be unsafe at times for us to discuss our relationship and polyamory. I'm actively dating but mostly looking for like minded friends
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#polyamory
![JDOTIZWAYHOT](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/Z6PwZhSOc5Z7icryHVKA8S2uukz1/1724867548692486080f9c89c3681eb9f78ba251a8e70.jpg?class=xs)
9d
INTJ
Capricorn
Love isn't blind, minds are
đ€·đŸââïžJust because its logical to me, doesn't mean it works for everybody. The love inside grants me the confidence that with the right chemistry, frequency and the collective preservation of optimal growth & development, heavenly dreams are more tangible, "it takes a village", "there's strength... read more
![Love isn't blind, minds are](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66d09da2e37b5c3793cbc9f5/172494788010061e4bd012cf833513b21f60486aaf23d.jpg?class=xl)
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0
#polyamory
![Kate](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/OqGVh5M1q5QXTSo2eiiQXeMpWKJ3/1721610626778339d5f8bb69229d9088ca1dc758ab94b.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
ENFJ
Scorpio
Another one bites the dust
I came back on here to find a partner, not to find yet another person who gets excited by polyamory and kink and then ditches me when I hold him accountable for communicating with me. Are there any polyamorous people on here who communicate well? Might just stop dating again altogether. (edited)
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#polyamory
![Nastii](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/p2VxQODQh2OMzBcgj7kcCuMK1Of1/1710822738366e676137032be45ef8eacc0f314688614.jpg?class=xs)
14d
ENFP
Pisces
Comradamorous
I have made a flag and a name for a relationship orientation! Comradamorous (PL: TowarzyszoamorycznoĆÄ), the desire to create polyamorous commune (polycommune) with queerfeminist values as basic social contract.
![Comradamorous](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66c9cc82d6e62734ec878d67/17245011276745226627375c518e4cc60536d2565c609.jpg?class=xl)
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0
#polyamory
![Nate](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/YN446CopKKWUUu5c1ZdVuSOYHE62/1723443877475ba091ddb8cfb023d606a6c77bef68197.jpg?class=xs)
26d
ENFP
Aquarius
1 Award
New to polyamory
I'm pretty new to being poly, ever since covid my social skills have rusted a bit and as a new relationship dynamic I'm trying to find friends and like minds to learn and educate myself. An example being I see so much terminology that I have no idea what means so I hope I can find someone who's... read more
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3
#polyamory
![Heng Channa](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/HNYjniWtHfOuOqQNHdfCbAki3G02/1722440280931ac743e70d9e71832765548d029888cea.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
INFP
Gemini
Good morning my friend
At that age, no single husband in the world can meet sincere people.
![Good morning my friend](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66b18c9580b401963db80a8b/1722911944604f2c38903d9348e46682efccf405fced4.jpg?class=xl)
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#polyamory
![Isaac](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/dzWeXYv1Jyafr3uQEfKfMe3pYKI2/172381144906900f29a7298dc7cf6818e72c93eb62b60.jpg?class=xs)
22d
INFP
Aquarius
Married and Polyamorous! Non hierarchical and date separately!
Hey all! Was just looking for people to chat with! đ„°
![Married and Polyamorous! Non hierarchical and date separately!](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66bf88113f2a7fe36a34bc7b/1723828247433a30c5b96ff0821333d3d90b8f05818db.jpg?class=xl)
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1
#polyamory
![Dakota](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/thBadxWiwyfKMgfUeWpH2BvMh5l1/17240210735819d43e1a28390b95f37319c1b2361e6eb.jpg?class=xs)
20d
ISTP
Sagittarius
Seeking add
Hellos Iâm seeking a 2nd partner in Spokane Washington! I am poly with my nesting partner and we date invidualy So youâd be just my partner ! My bio has more about me if your wanting to know more otherwise I hope we can match
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#polyamory
![Ruru](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/P2ctkAsFEYbSOoevFz6LlX3AZOq2/172122127142185b19ca17726e574fb7b7da66c84e38f.jpg?class=xs)
28d
INTJ
Aries
First Impression
From my first impression, I haven't seen too much activity on the #polyamory or on the #ethicalnonmonogamy page. I think that's fair since some lucky souls are actively living the #poly life. For the rest of us, just don't expect it and let it happen when it happens. Be open and be out there.
![First Impression](https://media.tenor.com/65fGsZmFv2UAAAAM/yanatwt.gif)
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2
#polyamory
![Jared Williams](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/pNiIpQbM6RPw8IZA7g7jhls3pVz1/1723218488130277d6eeba3da0cc9d2fd86887edc7d74.jpg?class=xs)
29d
ENFP
Taurus
Location Problems
Does anyone else have a hard time finding someone in their area or at least not an hour or more away?
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5
#polyamory
![Jayda](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/gW5ZTGnEJBdQvyKOYzqS1eRHkqo2/172221402730207640c9118ad35cf911a0f72e6c7b3f6.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
ENFP
Taurus
Introducing Myself
Iâd like to formally introduce myself to the polyamorous community on here, I could definitely use some connections with people in relationships similar to my own. Hi, guys Iâm Jayda Iâm from AR I am currently in a triad or throuple we live together and are raising four kids together. Iâm open to... read more
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4
#polyamory
![Sulei](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/fFjZ5M5sFkU7cVXNbkTdXZWqtoZ2/16920829497780482dc56b85ef521a3681b9219c7e5e4.jpg?class=xs)
27d
INTJ
Virgo
Fulfilling day
Yesterday, after being rain soaked, moving big piles of Ikea kitchen and putting a subfloor and support and insulation while having pain all over the body. I still.managed it all and had my happy moment.
![Fulfilling day](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66b85c868335e759b4e4ab03/17233583504960bbe82cae4ee45d0d3e26404347f5d1c.jpg?class=xl)
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0
#polyamory
![Jayda](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/gW5ZTGnEJBdQvyKOYzqS1eRHkqo2/172221402730207640c9118ad35cf911a0f72e6c7b3f6.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
ENFP
Taurus
The how and how nots of triads
So I know thereâs people who will read my introduction post and wonder howâd she do it?! How is SHE living MY dream?! Well wonder no more I will give you some advice. Donât unicorn hunt or even date together to begin with. If itâs meant to happen it will, be patient and be happy with who you have... read more
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1
#polyamory
![David Kempa](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/ztWV9dnFZLe36eWIH0FmCmQeHGQ2/172341149732374a3e4cec39d584df7a1f4adb83d23b1.jpg?class=xs)
27d
ISFJ
Aquarius
Just getting on boo
Thought Id try out this app and see how it goes. Been doing polyamory for 9 years now and had some very long term stable relationships. Looking to see who else is out there make some new connections. Would love to travel and see new places so hopefully I can meet people from around the county.
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1
#polyamory
![TheWriteStuff](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/PpeCBcFESIRRd88KRbgPWOKzY4i1/172021326245533b0e88081171845a34b2e53d2ff167c.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
ENFP
Capricorn
Hey!
Any polyam folks on here doing therapy and getting a lot from it? Or exploring Internal Family Systems theory in particular? Would love to connect and nerd out.
![Hey!](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66b55427108bbd9c1dd5f6c8/1723159596098ac9d339ab5d9ac6dfa8d5117a3899332.jpg?class=xl)
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0
#polyamory
![Jonathan](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/SjVFefCYjJhP35lnyV7HHmJTmMP2/17167605983179077709b81777c555e003e3c0beb9b96.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
ENFJ
Capricorn
Didn't catch anything on our fishing trip
But I have these two catches and it's all good đ
![Didn't catch anything on our fishing trip](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66a75440c0bb7f4e8c2248d1/1722242118382bcbe197d7a701b961dc5ce80e86690c2.jpg?class=xl)
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1
#polyamory
![Charity](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/KNWgjAmqdEaduMoFsa7dwuR2yxm2/1721758845854523f39be22ce4c72023b5a4e98ab6b97.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
INFP
Sagittarius
Vibes
Truthfully yes.
15
1
#polyamory
![Kate](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/OqGVh5M1q5QXTSo2eiiQXeMpWKJ3/1721610626778339d5f8bb69229d9088ca1dc758ab94b.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
ENFJ
Scorpio
Tell me some of your polyamorous/ENM joys!
I'll go first: I love going to see plays with my partner and his girlfriend. More the merrier!
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7
#polyamory
![Fern](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/Td6dpEB4ifZnOaHmVnq7pnhB38F3/1721863462108658e8e7de97d030ca8fffc42aad865a7.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
INTJ
Taurus
KTP Advice
Question for anyone in a good KTP polycule! So what's the best advice you can give someone new to polyamory about making KTP work? Personally I struggle with not being able to find anyone willing to match my level of communication, especially when we're first talking.
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0
#polyamory
![Gary](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/HR9ogTNnLCRz2kAOBQxtQPdyROm1/172339198365031153330edb452d7b38cb2f089543197.jpg?class=xs)
27d
ISFJ
Sagittarius
You might be it.
Come chop it up with me and wifey
![You might be it.](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66b914006813be87b992af06/1723405317878de058281dab52a97039c542e47bdce04.jpg?class=xl)
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1
#polyamory
![Adele](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/7IilI375ElQaeMwdLJEwTHtegmv1/1721444118754bb51a88a09a6a9cac750982eb2243f33.jpg?class=xs)
1mo
INFP
Pisces
Looking for a piggly Iâm the middle (female) đ
![Looking for a piggly Iâm the middle (female) đ](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/669b295f9b68d3f4bba9f9b7/1721444707216f785f72dd084090e03ba4dd2d0f20145.jpg?class=xl)
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