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Posted Wednesday, April 10, 2024
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Menschen hören nicht mehr zu, um zuzuhören, sondern um zu antworten. Was meint ihr dazu?
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Das ist leider sehr oft so. Wirkliches zuhören erfordert die Bereitschaft, sich auf sein Gegenüber einzulassen und sich selbst zurückzunehmen. In unserer an vielen Stellen sehr schnelllebigen, oberflächlichen Gesellschaft ist diese Tiefe nicht möglich. Wirkliches Zuhören ist für mich ein Akt der Langsamkeit.
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INFJ
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Klar, sind ja auch mittlerweile alles Experten. Erst Corona, dann Ukraine, Israel/Gaza. Und wenn man was gesundheitliches hat, dann hatte das Gegenüber es auch schon. Egal ob Kopfschmerzen, Depressionen, was auch immer, aber das was dem Gegenüber geholfen hat funktioniert bei einem selbst natürlich auch. Naja u.a. YT,tiktok & Co regeln. 🤷🏻♂️👍🏻
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is echt so
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Hat was. Ich denke, es hat mit den Mustern zu tun, die vorgelebt werden. Mal will zu allem eine Lösung haben, es ist ja nicht nur eine Handlung des Egos, seine Meinung zu sagen oder das Verlangen sich mitzuteilen. Es kommt jedoch auch auf die Kommunikation an. Es gibt eine Methode dem Vorzubeugen. Dafür muss man jedoch auch sehr achtsam sein. Wenn man das Gespräch sucht, sollte man sich, selbst Fragen, will ich einen Ratschlag oder will ich, dass man mir zuhört? Und diesen Wunsch sollte man dann auch seinem Gegenüber mitteilen. Ich denke, wenn du einem die Beziehung zu dem Menschen wichtig ist oder sie gerade am Aufbauen ist, sollte man dies klar kommunzieren. Klare, direkte und offene Kommunikation machen das Leben einfacher.
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Capricorn
Ich hatte vor kurzem noch ein gutes Gespräch mit meinem Therapeuten, was das Reden betrifft. Die meisten Menschen benutzen die Sprache nicht zum Informationsaustausch, sondern um reden zu können. Somit stimmt das.
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und mir geht es hier auch nicht um Diskussionen oder so. Dabei wird ja erwartet, dass das Gegenüber etwas erwidert.
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Es gibt schon aktive Zuhörer, die Zwischenfragen stellen, um das ganze wieder vertiefen oder um Verständnis zu schaffen oder sie haben alles verstanden aber wollen dir zeigen: ja, ich höre zu, fahr fort. Es ist halt ein Unterschied, mit welcher Intention du sprichst. Ist es ein Monolog, erwartest du keine Antwort. Bei fast allen anderen Erzählformen fände ich persönlich das jetzt ziemlich auffällig wenn mein gegenüber wie ein Fisch vor mir sitzt, und schweigt und ich würde eher fragen ob er ein Dachschaden hat :D. Weiß aber schon, dass du wahrscheinlich eher den Punkt der Selbstdarstellung oder eben etwas, was in diese Eichtubg geht meinst. Man kann die ja dann unterbrechen und darauf hinweisen (macht kaum einer aber das läuft schon und führt meist zu Verzierung). Oder man sucht sich halt gescheite Gesprächspartner, bei denen man das Gefühl hat gehört und gesehen zu werden.
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Libra
My life be like
It's hard to take off from the ground when your wings are cut Your stomach burns when you're drinkin' from an empty cup You know the entire ocean came from my tear ducts? I see the world through fibonacci sequences and double dutch
4
0
#psychology
![Kornel](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/OJKP2OZPInOjidJDl5WFj4P58KG2/17195726448996a2c7031f5d6d28e4df4b0644f215868.jpg?class=xs)
10h
INTP
Cancer
XDDDD
My adhd brain when I'm late XDDDD
2
1
#psychology
![Anjit](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/RSnN2rwIqqWqNapDkFLT2YoigKI3/171944301923641bf9d6f4c109ba69ede9b51a45e0c90.jpg?class=xs)
11h
ENTJ
Leo
I’m better than all of you guys
![I’m better than all of you guys](https://boo-prod.b-cdn.net/questions/66a39bf40ce5d026918c5b2b/172199833198563882b2fee700b5f038eead471de0ec3.jpg?class=xl)
2
1