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Chrissy Lynn
Chrissy Lynn

1mo

ESFJ

Gemini

Where are all the true gentleman? I must say I’m appalled by some men’s views of what’s ok and expected now a days!

I have yet to meet only a few true gentleman on dating apps and in real life. I’m starting to think they’ve all gone extinct.

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Celia
Celia

1mo

INFJ

8
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Probably out there living their lives and not in the dating app black hole

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Kris
Kris

1mo

ISTJ

Libra

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4

They are gone. Women and feminism chased them all away.

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Mishka
Mishka

1mo

ENTP

Gemini

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Have you tried being appealing to the type of man you want?

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Dave
Dave

1mo

ESTJ

Pisces

2
3

Same thing that happened to the dinosaurs 🦖

Same thing that happened to the dinosaurs 🦖

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Rachel
Rachel

1mo

INFP

Taurus

4
5

There are plenty out there. However, it depends on what ones definition of "true gentleman" happens to be. Your definition, my definition, and my great-aunt Betty's definition are not all the same. Though I always find questions like this to be interesting. The asker always assumes that they are the most desirable match for whichever type they claim has disappeared. Maybe you are having a hard time finding them because you aren't truly attractive to them. If you find you are attracting the "wrong" people, then take a hard and critical look at what you are using to gain attraction. We tend to attract those that appear most similar to ourselves. So maybe, if you find you are attracting the wrong kind of people, you need to work on yourself to become the person that attracts the "right" people.

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Jonathan
Jonathan

1mo

ENFJ

Capricorn

8
7

We exist. We open doors, pull out chairs, and pay for dates

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Mabon
Mabon

1mo

INFP

Libra

7
8

So much yikes in these comments...

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Andria
Andria

1mo

INFP

Leo

But women have changed too.

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Stan
Stan

1mo

INFJ

Aries

I keep on asking where are the genuine women who look past the surface.. 6 + years would dictate that they have all disappeared!!!

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Jacob
Jacob

1mo

INTJ

Aries

8
7

They are out there but a lot of them have just given up on dating and most of them are not social or on dating app, you can find them though check in the corners at social events, they will often be alone and just need someone to talk to.

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Roon
Roon

1mo

INTJ

Sagittarius

3
4

I am sure they are around. I wish you all the best 🙂

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Joe
Joe

1mo

INTP

At your age they are most likely all married

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Rim
Rim

1mo

ISFP

Virgo

4
5

I think a lot of people have become chronically online that they abandoned some parts of themselves because of what they hear or read online, men and women.

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Aleks
Aleks

1mo

INTJ

Leo

4
5

Well, there are a lot of gentlemen out there, but most of them don't really fit in the preference which people have...or the standards that were set...

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Sam
Sam

1mo

INFP

Capricorn

Can u tell me why women like the bad guys? Or toxic men

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Freddy
Freddy

1mo

INTP

Virgo

I’d have to say if one wants to find what they’re looking for that journey starts within.

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Chris Watkins
Chris Watkins

1mo

INTP

Taurus

Nope. There's so many that they've become surplus to requirements. So they've taken themselves out of supply. Now, you gotta go looking and approaching. The paradigm has shifted, now its up to women to chase.

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Peter
Peter

1mo

ESFJ

Taurus

8
9

Let’s just say nowadays ladies doesn’t want gentleman so we adapt to toxic masculinity, the bad boy

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Kevin
Kevin

1mo

ENTJ

Aries

The way this is worded I don't know if you would know a gentleman if he removed his glove to challenge you to a duel, you probably expect him to pay for everything but also believe that he needs to contribute " just as much as you"

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Barry
Barry

1mo

ISFJ

Pisces

6
7

Not all

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Phil
Phil

1mo

ISFP

Libra

If I consider myself a gentleman, I'd say it's because they get detached. You can't keep trying only to be told you're great, but you're not for me.

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Rob
Rob

1mo

INTP

Pisces

9
1

Nah we are about. Difference is decent, old fashioned men are starting to check out of the whole dating culture because of a few things, lack of replies, being told were too nice, not giving sx on a first date (yes I've been ghosted for that) being called simps from other 'men'. Theres more reasons but a lot of decent men are done tbh

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Attique Minhas
Attique Minhas

1mo

INFP

Cancer

2
3

Wdym? Lol

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Gabriel
Gabriel

1mo

INTJ

Pisces

So I'm curious what you mean when you say gentleman? Do you mean someone who holds the door and walks on the street side or do you mean something else?

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Carlos
Carlos

1mo

INFJ

Sagittarius

We are here. We just don't have the big mouths and loud attitudes. Rule #1, treat every woman like a lady. It'll be up to them to show you who they are and the truth comes out eventually.

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Joe
Joe

1mo

ISFJ

Sagittarius

This is the dumbest question ever. If a woman truly wants a nice guy they would have one already. We aren't hard to find but are often deemed clingy because we like to do things like ask how your day was and communicate feelings.

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Andria
Andria

23d

INFP

Leo

And if we aren't married, we were married and got hurt so bad that we learned we are better off on our own. Sad but true.

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Aaron
Aaron

1mo

INTJ

Scorpio

8
7

No we end up throwing in the towel since what we do usually get us nowhere

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Huy
Huy

1mo

ISTP

9
8

what is your version of a gentleman, a total simp?

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Richard
Richard

1mo

INFP

Pisces

1
2

No ma’am, we’re not extinct. Just tired of being used, lied to, put in “friend zone”, or call “toxic “ just for showing old school respect.

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Milo Magnusson
Milo Magnusson

1mo

ISFJ

Taurus

8
7

We are out here. We are either not interested in the search or not interesting enough to be searched out.

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Henry
Henry

1mo

INTP

Taurus

6
7

What the hell are you talking about?

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Angelo
Angelo

25d

ISFJ

Aquarius

8
7

Oh we’re here. We’re just numb now. we’re caring less and less about looking for someone. Many of us are becoming more focused on our financial life, hobbies, and our jobs

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Jonny
Jonny

1mo

ENTJ

Virgo

You mean extinct like attractive and interesting women on dating sites who can actually keep up with the conversation. Perhaps you should look at yourself first before judging others. After all, you seem to be the common denominator.

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Michael Conza
Michael Conza

1mo

INTJ

Taurus

We are here, Beautiful

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Quent
Quent

1mo

ISTJ

Scorpio

Those men have woman that appreciate them the way they are . Good luck.

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Prince
Prince

1mo

INFP

Cancer

🙏🙏

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