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Let's stop treating relationship as if this were charity?
Men behaving as if they didn't have expectations about the women, women talking as if they didn't have any standards.

I am not doing any favors for a man, either i like you, i like talking to you and i may want to be with you, or i don't. And i wouldn't want a man who just take me as a option, veneration and rejection are the only 2 respectful options.🙏

Clarity

They weren't looking for someone to complete them. They were already complete. That's not love from need. That's love from choice. 

Real love is not based on dependency, loneliness or necessity. It is a conscious choice ❤️✨.

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Effort is attractive. Being consistent is even more attractive.

I need answers 😂😂😂👀

With clear intentions only. I am not for Women with mind games.

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Drama Queen

Effort should be 50-50. If you’re ready for that, then sign up; otherwise, don’t.

Everyone talks about relationships being bad nowadays or dating... But are people even dating? No, everyone is scrolling on reels

Yes, I know what they are, but what is the deal? What is the point?

Actual question. 
I'm curious.

Open relationships...

Calm outside, overthinking one decision inside

Had a small crush on a guy during my internship.we never really talked, just saw each other sometimes. Now I got his number through a friend. Would it be weird if I text him first?

Crush… but no conversation 😶

It's been a few months since I deactivated this account.. Now, I have to start again.
I think I have found the right one. But it turns out I was just an option—not a priority. 
It hurts, but life must go on~ right?😊

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Agree or Disagree?

Started talking to this guy. He started talking about living together and kids and our future. We have been talking for a while now and so me being a human being thought we were a couple. But to be sure I asked. And he replied.. no we are just friends. So I politely backed off.  Stopped treating him like my boyfriend and started treating him like he's my friend. Why get boyfriend benefits if your not my boyfriend right?  And he noticed and now he's upset with me. Am I in the wrong?

Confused

But I'm not interested, don't ask, thank you.

He asked me what he should do because his girlfriend and he have different schedules, so they don't talk much and he feels lonely. So I told him to find more girlfriends from different countries and different time zones so he'd have someone to talk to 24/7.

Flirting?

Relacionamento saudável não é sobre encontrar alguém perfeito, e sim alguém disposto a crescer junto.

Just why guys always looking for hookups I know it's easy to fill-up your needs... not having a real relationship... which be for long term....

Why...

Gold digger

Kindness

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Just Incase… This Works Both Way Too…

Thought?

Do you believe that there is someone for everyone, or is that just a comforting thought we tell ourselves in order to perpetuate hope?

I was thinking earlier...

I've recently tried talking to people one on one again in here, but it's so hard! Some people only answer my questions back and don't propose a topic, so it shows obvious lack of interest, doesn't it? So frustrating! 🤯

Yes please!!!

Have they truly lived enough life to understand what they’re asking? At that age, many people are still driven by fantasies about marriage, relationships, children, and the idea of a “perfect family.” But fantasy and reality are very different things. Have they experienced betrayal, heartbreak, emotional exhaustion, financial pressure, or the disappointment that comes from investing years into someone who ultimately was not right for them?

People rarely talk about the psychological and emotional maturity required to build a healthy relationship. Neuroscience shows that the human brain especially the prefrontal cortex responsible for judgment, impulse control, analytical thinking, and long-term decision-making does not fully mature until around the mid-to-late 20s. That alone explains why many people change dramatically between their early 20s and their 30s.

The older I get, and the more conversations I have with people my age or older, the more I realize how common broken relationships and single-parent households actually are. Global statistics consistently show high rates of divorce, separation, and emotional dissatisfaction in relationships. Many single parents once believed they had found “the right person,” only to later discover incompatibility, emotional neglect, instability, or unequal responsibility in raising children.

Yet society still repeats the same tired narrative as if choosing to remain single automatically means someone is lonely, selfish, immature, or somehow contributing less to society. But is it really better to force yourself into a relationship simply because society expects it? Is it better to stay in something unhealthy because you’re afraid of starting over, because children are involved, or because you’ve already invested too much time?

Sometimes being alone is healthier than constantly struggling to make a relationship survive.

Being single does not mean a person has failed. In many cases, it means they understand themselves well enough not to settle for emotional dependency, instability, or incompatibility. Peace, independence, and self-respect are valuable forms of happiness too.

Before building a family, a person should first be capable of building a stable life for themselves. If someone does not have the time, financial stability, emotional balance, or ability to properly care for themselves, how can they realistically provide care, guidance, and stability for another person or for children?

It’s actually a very simple idea:
If you cannot consistently provide yourself with proper care, healthy living, emotional stability, and basic quality of life, then taking responsibility for additional lives becomes much more difficult.

Growing older teaches people that love alone is not enough. Compatibility, maturity, responsibility, communication, emotional intelligence, financial stability, and self-awareness matter just as much if not more.

There is nothing wrong with choosing peace over pressure, self-awareness over social expectations, and stability over appearances.

It’s exhausting hearing people in their early 20s constantly ask questions like, “Why are you still single?” as if being single is some kind of failure or unfinished stage of life.

Ako vnímaju muži niekoho ineho kto ma už deti? Prekáža Vam to? Alebo Vam to nevadí?  Viete si predstaviť byť s niekym a starať sa o cudzie deti? 🤔

Deti

Vocês CONHECEM algum casal que deram certo que se conheceram através do TINDER? Acho que é o meio mais popular de conhecer alguém ultimamente 👀

Curiosidade genuína

Oh boy 😂😂 you warn a friend you get called jealous then few days later you end up cheated on well well we’ll 😂😂😂🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️I tried warn you 💯💯💯💯

Well well we’ll

When??? 😁

Can chemistry survive low effort ?

What do you think makes a good and lasting  relationship ?

Random question

Honestly though

I don't fight for a man who belongs to the streets, if you can take him... get him...
High valued women don't audition for a role they are already own...
I'm not a security guard, I don't protect property that doesn't want to stay in my yard. Because if I have to fight for you, I don't want you.
A man who is easily taken is not a partner.  He is a public property.

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Clarity

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Effort is attractive. Being consistent is even more attractive.

I need answers 😂😂😂👀

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Some lessons take years

Just putting us out there

Falling asleep near someone

Why?

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changed my life