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Being single

I'm actually starting to appreciate it more. Having been away on boat has really made me thought about my life decisions. Sometimes you don't need a man in your life, they cause more stress then they're actually worth. Most people I have spoken to on here don't even make a move, just one day or... read more

Favorite Rainy Day Songs

It's a beautifully gloomy day in NYC. I'm wondering what songs other metalheads love on a rainy day. Aviana - Storm Ablaze is one I've been loving recently and feels right on a day like this. Other Mentions: Boundaries "The Tower" 156 Silence "Our Parting Ways" The Contortionist "Ebb and Flow" (edited)

Trust

I've always had a general distrust of people, along with an unreasonable amount of trust for toxic people. All because i was raised to not trust my intuition, because it was either toxic family or nothing, and kids need their families in order to survive. So as an adult, it to me a long time to... read more

RELATIONSHIP GREEN FLAGS

Their words match their behavior. They celebrate your wins. You feel energized after spending time with them. You can be fully yourself around them. They remind you often that you matter to them. They respect your boundaries. You don't feel like you have to filter or perform around them. Being... read more

The secret to winning a person's heart and trust with love

1) Show how genuine you are not after a relationship but even before starting the relationship 2) Be consistent in your communication. Don't just go and find a partner when you are bored. 3) Be real, be honest, be transparent and be authentic. 4) Show your weaknesses and strengths before the... read more

I feel like some men think that I should be sooo grateful if they interest with me 😂😂 Men, i rise from the lowest stage of my life alone... So, I won't dying even if I will be single forever 😂😂😂 So, respect my boundaries or leave me alone 💅 (edited)