Sooo i pride myself in being a person who stands up for other and what I believe is right. Im far from shy .. if anything sometimes I say too much. So why is it when it comes to work I struggle to say no and stay firm on my boundaries but don't struggle with this in my everyday life ? I'm at my... read more

Allison

13d

INFP

Virgo

When yall compliment someone. How about you don't mention how chubby I am.. like that's not necessary to point out 🫠🙄

Danli Divine

20d

INTJ

Virgo

What is a boundary you have that people seem to keep trying to overstep?

Demí

2mo

INFP

Sagittarius

1 Award

Working on Boundaries

Lately, the boundary that I'm working on is having to do with giving people space while also fighting my internal demons that are telling me I'm not wanted around. I've met some really cool people who live all over the country and in other countries. They are all super great and I want to be... (edited) read more

Vann

2mo

INFJ

Libra

Not Nice - A Great book

If you’ve struggled with setting boundaries or just saying no when you want to, I highly recommend this one.

Charisma

2mo

INTJ

Leo

Evolving

Sometimes, you just have to tell people, "Look, I love you, and I'll probably love you forever, but I'm no longer interested in the level of life you have to offer me. Because of that, I have to let you go. I'm not even asking you to change, I just need you to understand that you can keep doing... read more

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Jonathan

14h

ENFJ

Gemini

The Bittersweet In ENM…

I’ve always believed in the power of open communication in ethical non-monogamy (ENM). I've championed transparency, honest conversations, and respecting individual boundaries. But nothing could have prepared me for the gut-wrenching honesty of this text message, I received this morning: “Hey we... read more

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Zen.Zeitgeist

INTP

Pisces

"Focus on yourself."

Society often oversimplifies or misinterprets this statement, turning it into a vanity project or a vehicle for egocentric tendencies. However, if approached mindfully, it becomes a path toward authentic connection and a wholesome experience of life. This statement is an invitation to pay... read more

#nosleep

Stephanie

ENFJ

Scorpio

Greetings

To those who get upset or don't like direct replies I send about my boundaries. I am very clear on my use of this site on my profile. I also do not come on here when my kids are awake and asking for my attention. This site is not my priority. I enjoy chatting with everyone but please be patient.... read more

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AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

ENFP

Cancer

2 Awards

Greetings That May Turn People Away: Insights from Psychology

Balancing friendliness with being perceived as annoying is a delicate art. This balance is often tested when we greet others, aiming for a good first impression but sometimes achieving the opposite. Psychology tells us that certain common greetings might inadvertently make people dislike us, and... read more

#thoughts

Mariah

INFP

You're not...

You're not a mean woman for knowing what you want or being assertive. For having boundaries. For having standards. For dismissing someone who doesn't meet them. For taking up space. For being confident. For not putting up with bullsh*t For standing up for yourself or what's right.... read more

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AJ aka Moonchild 🌕🌙

23d

ENFP

Cancer

2 Awards

Say Goodbye to These 10 Habits for a Better You Next Year

When it comes to self-improvement, it's not about a new wardrobe or a fatter bank account. It's about letting go of bad #habits that hold you back. By shedding these habits, you allow yourself to become the best version of who you truly are. If you're serious about enhancing yourself next year,... read more