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What is the purpose of pride?

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. What does pride actually give us? It doesn’t seem to bring real happiness, and often it doesn’t help us either. In fact, I wonder if pride might be more harmful than beneficial. Because of pride, we refuse help. Because of pride, we struggle to... read more

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Everyone loves you when you swallow everything in silence, are always available and serving, but when you start setting boundaries, begin saying “no” and hold others accountable for their actions, you become the “difficult person” so keep being the “hard to deal with” person.

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If someone asks me, ‘Are you feminine?’—my answer is yes, but it depends on the energy I’m met with. For me, femininity isn’t about being passive or silent. It’s about being soft, open, and expressive—in the right environment. The right man brings out my femininity. The wrong one meets my... read more

The guilt that never quits

Short version: my mother’s neglectful parenting was overshadowed by my father’s active psychosis, so I greatly overestimated her ability to be a grandparent I tried so hard to get my mother to come with me on my healing journey. I told her I wanted a life of stability and peace and that I wanted... read more

If you are fine with crossing any of my boundaries in a relationship then you do not love me okay so quit lying thanks

Away with you now

Dating for Marriage

For those dating for marriage.....How do you go about it? What inspired your decision? What are your non-negotiables and boundaries? What have you learnt so far?