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Comprimising

My wife was an extremely beautiful woman as well as awesome. After 15 years with her, I don't think I could settle for anything less than a 10 in personality and looks, as that's what I've grown accustomed to. Does that make me shallow or just someone with good taste that doesn't want to settle? I... (edited) read more

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Cancer

New Year

The new year is the toughest because that was always when my wife and I would spend time together for days on end, eat, hanging out, and laughing. Anyone else have trouble with this time of year?

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Virgo

My first year without her this holiday

As this time of year approaches, I’ve been trying to be mentally prepared for it. It’s hard. It’s going to be tough this year. Barely through November and the depression and sorrow creeps in deeply.

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Looking for some ENTJ personality insights

Writing is one reason why I got into MBTi. It's a simple method to keep character personalities consistent. Now I'm writing a dark romance semi-fantasy semi-historical novel and one of the main characters is supposed to be an ENTJ. A sort of INTJ (I have multiple INTJ family members), but kind of... (edited) read more

Thoughts

If a wife loses her husband, she’s called a widow. If a man loses his wife, he’s called a widower. If a child loses their parents, they’re called an orphan. But when parents lose their child… there are no words. Because no language, no label, and no name could ever define that kind of pain. It’s a... read more

My thoughts on love -1

Love, for many, is seen as eternal, but I often wonder if we’ve forgotten that love, as we experience it here, eventually ends. Whether it’s through loss or change, love has its natural course. A widow may remarry, just as a widower might. And yet, instead of judgment, we should honor their... read more

The Mehta Boys (2024/ Hindi-English-Gujarati/ Prime)

This is new-age India's answer to the regressive and illogical 'Baghban' with less melodrama (read: Dhoom Tanana), with zero songs and without any huge ensemble. It follows the building of the relationship between a 71-year-old widower and his architect son. The film is a winner in terms of its... read more

Chasing you through time...

I am a thing called a young widower. Not crazy about the name!! Sounds like I make widows! None of my friends can relate. And I've been alone for a while now. I tried to keep my past on the DL... But it didn't matter, because we were well known musicians. Everyone knew. They knew, because we... read more