My partner has a kid with his ex-wife and he has the kid one weeknon one week off. Due to my partner's work schedule, his ex picks up the kid from school on his weeks and then he picks up the kid from her house when he gets off. So he sees his ex wife every day and that makes me a little insecure

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SHE'S an ex for a reason! Look in the mirror🪞 he's not going anywhere, 😊He's just being a good dad, which is a good thing. Swipe that insecurity away. It can get out of control and ruin the beauty of you! ✌️

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Their relationship did not work out for a reason, also keep in mind he's there because of his kid, not because of his ex. Have faith in that knowledge and let go of your insecurity as much as possible d:

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Talk to him about it! As you are becoming apart of that kids life too you could also bring up you can pick up the kid as well!

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I am an ex like that ☺️ As it was mentioned in the previous comments, there was a reason they separated. They are not a couple anymore. He seems to be a great guy: his friendly relationship with his ex and being a responsible father are huge green flags!! You have all the reasons to be self confident, really. I have a lot of friends and acquaintances who are separated like myself. Reasonable, sane people don’t look back.

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I totally understand you sweetheart, everyone would feel unsure in that situation, it’s totally normal! I think you should speak with your mate about it, because I think what you feel is important and he should know yours needs in this delicate matter. You can do it! ) (edited)

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Definitely make sure to talk to him before jumping to conclusion, but I'd also like to mention that you shouldn't really need to worry, seems like he's just a good dad.

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That's called unhealthy and trust issues. If he loves you and you love him, you should be insecure. I believe is healthy for parents who have broken up to have some kind of relationship for the sake of the child(s). Talk.with him and he should help reassure you? ♥️

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Co-parenting means there will always be ex baggage and they'll always sleep together on and off regardless what he tells you. Love yourself, don't be his rebound or side piece.

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Your feelings are valid.

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Its his ex and their is a reason for that. Especially if their is a kid and an ex yeah their is nothing going on between them. What are you worried about?

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