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What do you think is the most important thing when two people are together?

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Never Again!

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Let's say you chose ur kid over ur own happiness. Was it worth it? Or was it a life-long regret?
For example: I know a guy who was really happy in a loving long-term (de-facto) relationship but his son had behavioural issues that impacted on the relationship due to his son's possible gaming addiction & some hereditary genes from his Mum's side (eg. Bipolar or schizophrenic type personality). He gave up the love of his life for choosing his son, & years later he regrets it. (He had a new girlfriend but it's not as good as what he had with the love of his life who he chose his kid over). Do you have similar experience?
Or u chose ur kid over ur own happiness & it was worth it?

Worth it? Or a huge regret?

My Feelings

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Any other young widows here? What is some advice you would've liked to have given to yourself when you started your journey?

Too Young To Be Widowed

Dear [Redacted],

We regret to inform you that, after careful consideration, we are moving in a different direction regarding your candidacy for emotional partnership.

We appreciate your submission and acknowledge the passion behind your hypothesized theories of “love.” However, upon peer review, your proposal has been found lacking in coherence, reproducibility, and gravitational authenticity.

As such, your theories have been rejected pending further review, at which point we may cite them as published case studies to refute future falsehoods and clarify unproven claims in related fields.

We wish you the best in your future emotional endeavors and hope you find resonance elsewhere.

Sincerely,
The Editorial Board of My Boundaries

A template lol.

Today, I read (and yes, I always read profiles) a profile from a Lady in England and I would have to say, she summed it up so beautifully and in such a poetically funny way, that it really should make a lot of you guys particularly over there in England especially with long hair and beards rather embarrassed to say the least.  About the problem of people not reading profiles before sending off matches or messages. Guys, if you wish to make a good first impression, read the Lady's profile and then you have something to talk about or you may even find something in the profile, that stops you from writing...  And Ladies, don't be reading this and saying, "There, see, told you so!!"  because, a lot of you are just as guilty.   And for everyone that has read this far, there is one Golden Rule that makes it all work for everyone and it is so easy...  RULE NUMBER 1 and ONLY :-  Actually complete your Profile so there is actually something to read.   See So Simple..  Stay Well.... Stay Safe...

It's True, Why Don't People Read Profiles?

Back then, they bought slaves to work for life as a labour 
Now?
We just call it marriage — Same lifetime contract, But with cake, a dress, and no refund policy.

Slavery is still continuing........

Freedom

Read carefully

You know what's funny regardless of the app I'm on, the website I'm on people are all the same. They like your photos they like your conversation to think your handsome you have a great wording conversation. However the moment they see you can that you have a partial disability of their run like you're on fire. The man can walk into a room see a room filled with women with disability and doesn't see anything but the women. I wouldn't want walks into a similar room if he's a guy with a cane and she avoids him cuz if he's on fire. I'm just tired of it

How does one find a relationship while walking on a cane

Remeber!!! The fastest way to each other's heart is through the sternum.

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Not every step forward feels strong—some are slow 🐢, shaky 🚶‍♂️💨, and uncertain ❓. But if you're walking with Allah 🕋🤲, you're still moving in the right direction 🎯✨.

Pumpkin patch the pug

Honestly.. 🫠

The best revenge is: None. ❌💔
Heal yourself, forgive, move on, and don’t become like those who hurt you. 💪❤️🕊️
The Universe always puts everything in its place. 🌌✨

Am I wrong for not being able to choose a guy out two. I like them both but I can't keep this up. They treat me really good better then anyone else has. But there's things about both of them that big me. My heart is torn in two different ways. I spent the last hour crying trying to figure out what to do.

Someone please help me

Dating apps or real life interactions feels more superficial than ever to me nowadays. I think many people are not interested to date or actually try to know a person and their story. They just want an instant ego boost or validation. I hope someone proves me wrong as I'm fed up facing these things. Might as well buy a cabin in the woods and adopt cats and dogs to live all my life peacefully 🤣

Do people even care anymore?

They are normal, like us. Why do we put a discrimination tag on them? Why do they need acceptance from overly intelluctual beings like us?

So true. ❤️

Remember..

Take your time, your heart deserve honesty not pressure..

And it is Thursday.. 🙄

What say you B00 Fam? 🧐🖤

Ladies and gentlemen, you do not need a relationship.

You need:

- Friends
- Therapy/medication
- Hobbies and interests
- Good hygiene/exercise
- Skills (domestic, social, life)
- Goals
- A healthy self-esteem (see therapy)

Relationships are meant to be partnerships, not ‘fill that void in my life’. (The Lonely™️)

Once you have a healthy sense of ego and self-love, relationships will come naturally, and are much more fulfilling. 👌

(I’m referring to romantic relationships vs other types, for all y’all pendantic folk. 👌)

Some of Y’all Don’t Need a Relationship

Ghosting, breadcrumbing, and stonewalling have sadly become trends.

Most people nowadays don’t appreciate who or what they have until it’s too late.

The "Scorpion and the Frog" is a fable about a scorpion who asks a frog for help crossing a river. The scorpion convinces the frog to carry him across, but halfway, the scorpion stings the frog, killing them both. The moral of the story is often interpreted as a cautionary tale about the dangers of trusting inherently vicious individuals, even when they offer seemingly reasonable justifications for their behavior.

Betrayal Awareness

Biggest mistake ppl make in relationship these days, is not being the absolute Real version of themselves. Trying n acting the way your partner prefers, only till the day you no longer feel like doing the same anymore. N there comes the issue coz this isn't the damn thing they signed up for?

Why so Serious?

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emotion

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That’s right

Never Again!

🙅🏻‍♂️

Worth it? Or a huge regret?

IDK guys… thoughts? 🤷🏻‍♀️😂👀

To Any who need this

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I Choose Me 🥰

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I needed this 👇 Thoughts? 🤔

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emotion

🩷🩷

That’s right

Never Again!

🙅🏻‍♂️

Worth it? Or a huge regret?

IDK guys… thoughts? 🤷🏻‍♀️😂👀

To Any who need this

*evil laughter sounds* 🤭😈

I Choose Me 🥰

Lol

I needed this 👇 Thoughts? 🤔

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