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Can we normalize reading profile first before sending request😉😄

#dating #friends #boo

When you would go beyond your capacity but the other end won't even want to take a few steps farther. Ladies / Men when that person makes you feel like this, Stop ✋🏻 Access your relationship if that person is really worth your time and effort. Remember it's not bad to think about yourself 🫂A relationship is a mutual understanding if one does not want to do anything and your the only person trying to reach out for him/her. Then it's time to break free. Don't waste your time trying to reach the far end because it will drain you and change you. 
#relationshipadvice 
#loveyourself 
#valueyourself

That's Sad

24 years of living and being single 🫶❤️

Hmmm, ladies in the comments keep ruining my point... And they are right, actually 🤣 Sorry, guys.

Tip for you guys 😁

psychology

If a guy has #philosophy in his interest on profile its a red flag for me and i will not go into detail to explain why is that the case but those who know know...

#dating #single #relationshipadvice

Red flag

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Anyone else not get matches on here ? I've gotten 2 in the past couple months I've been on here. Had an account prior to this new one, and no luck either. Not sure if it's because I'm a nerdy guy or what ?

When it comes to true relationships, you'll do your best to debate and come to an agreement..

If you don't feel like it, perhaps you don't care enough about them?

#friends #love #mood #relationshipadvice

Why is it that arguing about something you care about with someone you love, bittersweet?

Any suggestions? 😆🦙

Cherry

Wise woman 🪖

Actions speak louder but actions with words speak clearer

Navigating social interactions can be challenging for some. Without realizing it, we might use phrases that have a negative impact on our #relationships. These conversational missteps often stem from a lack of awareness or social skill. In this post I will explore ten commonly used phrases that can be cringeworthy and detrimental to effective #communication.

1) "Actually...":
Social interactions require a delicate balance of #respect and #understanding. The word "actually" is frequently used to correct others, which can come across as condescending. For example, if someone says, "I love the taste of red apples," and you respond with, "Actually, green apples taste better," it subtly undermines their preference. While it's fine to have different #opinions, expressing them in a corrective way can be off-putting. Use "actually" thoughtfully to maintain positive interactions.

2) "No offense, but...":
We've all encountered the phrase, "No offense, but..." which often precedes an offensive comment. This expression is typically a preemptive apology for a rude remark. For instance, "No offense, but you could use a haircut," can be hurtful despite the disclaimer. This phrase is often perceived as dismissive and can make people defensive. It's better to provide feedback with #sensitivity and #care.

3) "I'm just being honest":
The phrase "I'm just being honest" is often used to justify blunt or hurtful comments. Research indicates that people who frequently use honesty as an excuse for rudeness are generally less liked and trusted. While #honesty is important, it should not be an excuse for harshness. Aim to express thoughts with respect and #empathy to maintain constructive communication.

4) "Just saying":
Tacking "just saying" onto a statement often highlights the speaker's awareness of its potential offensiveness. For example, saying, "Your dress is really unflattering... just saying," doesn't soften the blow. This phrase can come across as passive-aggressive. If something needs to be said, it's better to convey it kindly and thoughtfully.

5) "Whatever":
"Whatever" is often used as a dismissive response, signaling disinterest or disrespect. It can quickly shut down communication and leave others feeling unheard. Instead of resorting to "whatever," express disagreements constructively and respectfully to foster mutual understanding.

6) "You're too sensitive":
This phrase is often used to dismiss someone's #feelings, suggesting their emotional response is invalid. Hearing "You're too sensitive" can lead to self-doubt and feeling dismissed. In social interactions, it's crucial to respect each other's emotions. Replace this phrase with empathetic responses like, "I understand how you feel."

7) "Calm down":
While intended to soothe, telling someone to "calm down" often has the opposite effect. It can make individuals feel belittled or dismissed. Instead, acknowledge their feelings with phrases like, "I can see you’re upset," to diffuse tension and promote better communication.

8) "I don't mean to interrupt, but...":
This phrase acknowledges an interruption but doesn't make it any less disruptive. It can come across as insincere. Instead, wait for a natural pause in the conversation before sharing your thoughts. Patience and respect for speaking turns can enhance social interactions.

9) "It's a joke":
Humor can be tricky, especially if a #joke is at someone else's expense. Saying "It's a joke" after a misfired joke can make the recipient feel like they're overreacting. Consider your #humor style and aim for #jokes that uplift rather than hurt.

10)  "You always..." or "You never...":
Using absolutes like "You always..." or "You never..." can escalate disagreements. These phrases feel accusatory and can make others defensive. Focus on specific behaviors rather than generalizations to promote understanding and constructive dialogue.

By being mindful of these phrases, we can improve our social interactions and build more #positive relationships.

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10 Phrases to Avoid for Better Social Skills

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Give this woman a medal

How to have full filling relationship

Late night cruises are the best

Double standards!

poetry

I'm not exactly romantic but I do that..especially with friends and feel it is still applicable 🙏🏽

#friends #love #dating #relationshipadvice

For those of you who are romantics... Read this 👇🏽

If the other person doesn't do that, and you don't want to do that with them.. then you're just wasting each other's time.

Stan the man

Noted

Please don't get caught up with the genders in the Illustration, it can go in any way.. 

Point is: don't be giving too much energy where it isn't reciprocated.

You deserve to get as much as you give. 
Remember that.

This isn't only about romantic relationships but all relationships, in general.

Take care of yourself. 🙏🏽🌻

#people #friends #love #dating

Don't be that person.. ✋🏼
Don't let anyone make you feel low.

Sabka katega.
Kaddu.🥷

Now here no one to talk? All ID are fake in real?

I don't think love is for me...

#relationship #relationshipadvice #love #dating

I think I'm honestly gunna give up atp...

What’s the most useless relationship tip you’ve ever heard?

I don't need this advice!

“it will only make him laugh” 😳😆🤣

What’s the most ridiculous piece of advice someone has given you about love?

Ridiculous Advice

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It appears that some B00 users may be experiencing challenges in #communication and forming connections. I've observed a decline in communication skills by individuals using acronyms like "hmu" (hit me up) or "wyd" (what are you doing). Through my research, I've discovered that this style of communication is often no longer perceived as appealing.

In the era of flip phones, when typing required pressing a key multiple times to produce a single letter, such acronyms were practical and widely accepted. However, in today's digital age, many people consider these abbreviations to be lazy and unintelligent, as we have moved beyond the limitations of older technology.

Using acronyms instead of complete words can often be seen as sloppy and impolite. Notably, I've observed that some men tend to use these abbreviations more frequently than women. This form of communication can be off-putting to many women. Therefore, if you find yourself struggling to #connect with women and often rely on acronyms, it might be worthwhile to consider this as a potential barrier to successful communication and connection.

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The Impact of Acronym Use on Communication and Connections

Recently whenever I think about ending up with a long term partner, I have this inner voice telling me! It's a TRAP.
At a point where my inside voices feel like real. 
Any thought changers here?

Who here feels like in today's world...being in a relationship is dragging them down?

The relationship Pool

"Swipe right if you're into long, deep conversations, sunset walks, and a guy who believes chivalry isn’t dead. I'll open doors, pull out chairs, and probably steal a fry or two from your plate—just saying."

 (Playful and Adventurous)
"Gym enthusiast by morning, software engineer by day, and your personal stand-up comedian by night. Bonus points if you can match my energy for spontaneous road trips and shameless karaoke sessions."

What do you think? Should I tweak the tone or add something more personal?

Romantic and Charming)

Start every conversation with, ‘We need to talk'

Never admit you’re wrong—just keep arguing until they forget what the fight was about

If you really want to test their love, pretend to forget their name during an introduction

Start every argument by saying, ‘This is why my mom doesn’t like you'

Always bring up your ex on the first date—it shows you have experience

If they don’t text back, send 87 follow-up messages to prove your dedication

If you could only give one piece of relationship advice, but it had to be bad, what would it be?

Bad Advice for you!

Remember true friendships may just be the most genuine connections you ever make, since they have no blood link to you or any expectations either.. a true friend chooses you for who you are, as a person, flaws and all. That's precious. 🌻🥲

Apporaching people IRL just doesnt seem like an option anymore. Either she' already taken, she's gay, or she thinks youre trying to harass her. So I try dating apps instead. I've been on a few apps for a while now and honestly I don't know if I should keep trying. Every match I've ever gotten has been on any app has been a few good words and then I get ghosted. OR I match up, try to talk, they don't respond for several days and then they unmatch. If people are just going to match with you and not say or do anything the what is the point of even trying? If anyone has found any success on here or anywhere else, I'd like to know your thoughts.

What's the point of dating apps

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That's Sad

24 years of living and being single 🫶❤️

Tip for you guys 😁

Red flag

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The Recipe for True Love 🥰

The love I want.

What's your opinion on this 😜😆😅?

At least he has a plan...😅

I knew I was messing up the steps! 🙃🥲🔥🫠🫠🖤🖤🖤

Identifying Toxic People in Your Life: A Psychological Perspective