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Skipping to the final boss of dating.

Does anyone else hit that point in life where they think, 'you know what? Forget dating, let's just do marriage-at-first-sight and then work out the rest of it as we go along', like a side quest. Sometimes my brain has the urge to do something utterly irresponsible just to skip the inefficiency.... read more

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"Always taking the scenic route."

When Sacrifice Isn't Enough 💭✍🏻

“Obedience is better than sacrifice.” I’ve come across this verse before—sometimes overheard from my mom in passing, other times spotted in something she shared, or seen written in a book, a devotional, or even just floating across my screen somewhere. It wasn’t always said to me directly, but it... read more

Musings about online dating (long-form discussion)

I find the dating scene riddled with lonely men failing to respect boundaries. I find women disgusted by their first impression of most men. And, unfortunately, I find that most of the interactions are influenced by past negative experiences that have fed into a negative feedback loop. Here are... read more

I miss my skate route,

The cost of starting over is leaving all that is familiar behind— I miss the sights and sounds of my home town I miss the certainty of knowing my environment like the back of my hand Sometimes, even if change is really needed it can be a difficult escape But in the end, remaining stationary can... read more