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Is bonding through trauma healthy?

I've noticed it is easier to feel close to someone when they open up about their past. Shared pain can create real connection. It makes you feel seen and understood, especially if you share an experience, but I’ve learned there’s a line. I’ve seen it used to justify things that made me... read more

What is your weapon of choice?

When the apocalypse inevitably comes, what are you arming yourself with? Me? A halligan tool. Why? I can get into virtually anywhere or anything, and it can do both pentetrating and blunt damage. This pure metal rod of nonsense is not breaking any time soon.

There’s a specie of men on this app I cannot stand…

* Asks how you are doing without a question mark to assert dominance w/less effort * When he puts a question mark he puts a space between the statement and the punctuation . Like that 😂 * Uses an automated greeting and then becomes frustrated quickly because “it seems like you dont want to talk”... (edited) read more

I really want to go back to New Zealand.

So as of lately I been thinking about going back and eventually move there. I went through a program most people don't remember or even heard of, was called the foreign exchange student program. I was able to leave and go to another country to live for a short period of time. I remember how nervous... read more

Marriage

Hi! I’m from Iran, and I’m here because I’m looking for something real — a loving relationship that can grow into marriage. For me, marriage means building a home full of respect, kindness, and shared dreams. I know distance and different countries can feel like challenges, but I see them as... read more

✺ The Sycophant in the Machine: A Personal Warning ✺

For the past few years, my life and dating experiences have inadvertently become a research ground for a modern crisis: The intellectualization of relationships over human feeling. ​I want to be clear, I am extremely pro-AI. I believe this technology has the potential to change everything for the... read more