Uluntu lwe-Singleparent

Ukukhulisa umntwana wedwa akusiyonto engaphukileyo. 🤍

Umama odlala indima kaTata nomama ngaxeshanye, akafanelwe ukugxekwa, kodwa umangaliswe, abalwe kwaye ahlonitshwe.

Ngubani ophakathi kweminyaka engama-30s ongashadwanga?

Ngaba kuyinto ephula umthetho?

Kulungile kulabo bangabantu abaninzi abangenabantwana.. okanye nangona benabantwana, masibafake bonke haha. Ngaba ukuxoxa nomntu onabantwana kuyinto ephula umthetho kuwe?

Ukwamkela ngaphandle kokugxeka

Kutheni kunzima kangaka ukufumana umntu ongenayo imbono embi malunga nendlela endingumama ophumelele, ophumelele? Ngokuqinisekileyo kubonakala ngathi bayayiva le nto kwaye bacinga ukuba ndiyimpumelelo elahlekileyo, xa kwiinyani, bekungumyeni wam owayechitha ikhaya lethu, hayi mna. Ndifuna abantu…funda okungakumbi

Uthando

Ungathanda ukuba nomntu onabantwana okanye ongabantu?

Akulula ukuba ngumzali ophakathi, ngakumbi xa ungazinzanga kwezezimali; ngamanye amaxesha ubona abanye abazali benika izinto ezibiza kakhulu umntwana wabo, ube neembono ezimbi kuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho uphantsi kuba unguye njengomzali wabo, kodwa ndiyaziqhenya ngababazali abaninzi abanjengo mna apha ngaphandle ❤️❤️❤️

umphakathi kufuneka ube neengxoxo ngale ndaba..

#singleparent #singlemothers #introspection #inspirational( ilungisiwe)

Sebenza ngexesha elipheleleyo, abantwana abaninzi, kwiikholeji ngexesha elipheleleyo kwaye ndithenge indlu eneminyaka engama-100 edinga umsebenzi.. Ndiyakwazi ukuyibamba kakuhle kwiimeko ezininzi kodwa kule mpelaveki ndiziva ngathi ndiphila ndedwa ngama-100% kwaye ndiyaziva ndidandathekile.

Kunzima kodwa kuyanelisa

Ukuba ngumama ophakathi kokuba yedwa kunzima ngexesha elithile, awukwazi nokuzinakekela kakuhle kuba uhlale ucabanga ukuba ungathenga ukutya kuphela kumntwana wakho kunokuba uthenge imveliso yokunakekela isikhumba okanye ijezi elihle kuwe. Kulungile ukuba ndinempumlo, apho ungayibona khona abantu…funda okungakumbi

Hmu

Uhlanga lwethu lonke lwemini

Uhlanga kunye neekiss zonke iimpelaveki xa enganxibelelani nezikolo ngoko ke uninzi lwexesha andiziva ndedwa kuba ndinonyana wam omhle kakhulu, ndiyathemba ukuba bonke abantu abathanda ukuba nezingane okanye sele benazo, bazakufumana izingane ezimnandi njengaye. Ubusuku obuhle nonke.( ilungisiwe)

Ndibuhlungu namhlanje, ndafumana umphakathi. Bangaphi kuni abaninzi abakhulisa abantwana bodwa kwaye bahlupheka ngamanye amaxesha?

Ukwenza imida yinto ebalulekileyo okufunda nokufundisa umntwana...

#ubudlelwane #ubuntwana #ukukhathazeka #ukudakumba #impilo #ubulumko

Ngaba kukhona omnye onokufumana ubunzima bokufumana imvakalelo kumntu?

Ndihlangane nabantu abaninzi abahle ukusukela oko ndaba ngumama phantse eminyakeni emihlanu edlulileyo, ndibe ndate kwaye ndibe neentlobo ezimfutshane zobudlelwane nabafana abahle. Kodwa andiziva nto. Andinakukwazi ukufumana umoya ofanayo okanye iibhakabhaka njengoko ndandiziva ngaphambili?…funda okungakumbi

Molo

Itafu leemitha ezine, nceda.

Andithandi ukukwenza yonke imihla, kodwa ndiyawuthanda ukupheka ukutya okuhle ngamaxesha ambalwa eviki. Ng tonight: inkukhu kunye nebroccoli alfredo. #food #singleparent #pasta

Ubomi bokuba ngumzali ophakathi kokungaboni

Ndisaphula i-youtube ndibona le vidiyo yomama ophakathi kokungaboni ohlukaniswe noyise womntwana wakhe uthi khona 'ubomi abunyanzelekanga ukuba ngumama ophakathi kokungaboni okanye ubaba ophakathi kokungaboni, abantu baya kudumisa ubaba ngokunika inkxaso yenyanga, baye baphawulwa njengobaba omkhulu…funda okungakumbi

🤷Ukuphumelela Kwiingxaki Zokuba Ngumzali Oseleyo🧑‍🍼

🤷Ukuphumelela Kwiingxaki Zokuba Ngumzali Oseleyo🧑‍🍼 🧑‍🍼 Ukukhulisa umntwana ngokuzimela, naphezu kokuxhaswa ngumzi, kuba nzima njengoko kudinga amandla amaninzi engqondo kunye nomoya omhle malunga nobomi. 🫴 Ezinye zeengxaki ezinkulu endizifumeneyo njengomzali oseleyo ziquka ukungavumi…funda okungakumbi

Uhlanga

Kuyaphucuka yonke imihla. Eyokuqala apho iimeko zibe nzima

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Kuhle kakhulu ukuba umntwana wakho ucele ukuba umphathe, umphumle okanye umthande kuba xa bekhula, uza kuba nguwe ozocela ixesha labo 🥰

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Xa ndiqinisekile ukuba ndiyabanda kuba kulula kum ukuba ndibande, kodwa andinakukhipha umoya kuba unyana wam obalulekileyo uya kuvele avuke, andinakwenza nto ngaphandle kokubekezela ubanda 🤦‍♀️ ukuba ngumzali akusoloko kube lula, ngoko ke lungela abo basakhululekile phaya 🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶

Kunzima kakhulu

Ikakhulu ukuba ugula kodwa usafuneka ukuba unakekele umntwana/wabantwana bakho, eso asiqondi sonke abantu, ikakhulu laa mabhoyi ajolise emva kokufumanisa ukuba umhlobo wabo ukhulelwe, le yindawo yam yesithathu ndiphosa imithi yokuphola iintlungu zentloko izolo ebusuku namhlanje kwaye ngoku kwakhona…funda okungakumbi

Oku kukhankanya abazali abaninzi....

Ukuxinwa ngalokhu

Ungathethi gwenxa ngexesha lakho.

Kungenzeka ukuba xa umntwana wakho efika emntwaneni, uyakuva ukuba ububi obungaka. Kanjalo. Kwaye ke baya kukuphosa umphandle ngomsindo ongathandekiyo. #universe #parenting #anxiety #depression #lifeadvice( ilungisiwe)

Booo

Umgibeli wethu ushiye. Iingxaki zexesha zikhona kubo kodwa bandidlula nje... ngaba ndingasuka phi ngoku?🙃😩🙇🏿‍♀️

Ukwenza izinto ezintsha...

#self #selfdevelopment #personaldevelopment #selfdevelopment #music #singleparent #success( ilungisiwe)

Hayi umphakathi omnye kodwa nabani na onjalo.

Indoda okanye umfazi, Enkosi ngokuba namandla enkosi ngokuba nomonde. Enkosi ngokuzama okungakumbi, ungaze ulibale ukuba ubudlelwane abuphatheki ngento onokuyinika umntwana wakho okanye into onokuyithenga. Indlu yokuhlala kunye nothando lwakho yinto umntwana uya kuyigcina phakade nangona ngamaxesha…funda okungakumbi

cinga ukuba umntu unabantwana abaninzi abathathu....

Ingaba kuyakukhathaza ngokupheleleyo...( ilungisiwe)

Ndicela uncedo

Ndine ntombi eneminyaka eli-15 ubudala engafuni ukuvalwa.. kuze kube ngoku kube neengcaciso malunga neendlela zokuhombisa iinwele ezimthandayo, utshintsho lwemali ye-roblox kunye ne-cpr.. kwiiyure ezihlanu ezidlulileyo... Mamela uJason.. smile and nod

Ubusuku obuhle bomama 💛