Umphakathi we-Manners
Umphakathi we-manners, ingxoxo, nokudingida.
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Hlangana Nabantu Abasha
OKULANDAYO
Umphakathi we-manners, ingxoxo, nokudingida.
139 IMIMOYA
KONKE
manners
Hlangana Nabantu Abasha
OKULANDAYO
Ngisanda kubona othile ekhuluma nomuntu indaba, kodwa lowo muntu abekhuluma naye ubebukele ifoni yakhe. Lapho lowo muntu ophethe indaba yakhe eqeda, lowo muntu abekhuluma naye akazange azame ukuphendula noma ukucacisa ngendaba yalowo muntu. Baphinde baqhubeke bekhuluma ngalokho abebebukele kufoni…funda kabanzi
Uma intombazane ikhuluma nawe kahle akusho ukuthi itholakala kalula noma iyathanda, inhlonipho kuphela.
Angiqondi ukuthi kukhona ini okungalungile kwabanye abantu kodwa, uma ungenakho OKUHLE OKUFUNDA UKUKHULUMA khona, khona-ke ungakhulumi nhlobo. Phatha abanye ngendlela OFUNA ukuba uphathwe ngayo. Uma ungathandi omunye, yiba YINDODA futhi uphile impilo yakho. Into eyodwa okufanele ube uyikhuluma…funda kabanzi


Ngempela angithandi abantu abangaziwa abazama ukuba nekhono futhi bacabange ukuthi kulungile ukungibiza, "babe, baby, sweetheart, njll (okufana kakhulu nanoma iyiphi igama lempilo)". Kuyahlanya...kuyahlanya kakhulu mfowethu. Yeka. Uma lokho kwenzeka uthola ukuhoxiswa noma ukuvinjelwa. Amagama…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi

Uma ungabaza, ukhalipha phezulu


Okuthunyelwe Okuhlobene
Uma nginika inombolo yami, kusho ukuthi ngikunika ukufinyelela ukuze ungazi kahle. Kodwa amadoda amaningi awanazo izindlela eziyisisekelo, futhi ngenxa yalokho, aphela nje ohlwini lwami lokuvimba. Ngakho, ake ngicacise: angithandi ukudlala imidlalo noma ukujabulisa amaphupho akho. Ukuba nezindlela…funda kabanzi

Namuhla, umshado uvame ukuba awuhlangene nomuntu — uhlanganisa nephakethe. Uthola malini? Uthanda indlu? Ushayela imoto enjani? Uphakeme kangakanani? Ubonakala kanjani? Kodwa kwenzekani ngempilo, izindlela, ukholo, izinhloso nokwethembeka? Lezi zinto zivame ukungabhekwa, bese sithola ukuthi…funda kabanzi
Uma bekuhlonipha, hlonipha bona. Uma bekungahloniphi, phinda ubonise ukuhlonipha. Ungavumeli izenzo zabanye zinciphise izindlela zakho ezinhle ngoba umele wena hhayi abanye.

Ngithole ukumangala kancane, cishe wonke umuntu engihlangane naye, baxoxa ngezinto ezaziyizithiyo empilweni yami, akekho yini umuntu owayenobuhlakani obuncane futhi eyazi imikhuba, ikakhulukazi uma nje siqala ukuzwana?

Yini ebaluleke kakhulu. Ubuhle noma izindlela?

Hlangana nabangane bami abasha: ama-chōchin-obake amalangabi! 🏮👅 Anenhliziyo eyodwa, awanemikhuba, futhi awapheli ukuveza ulimi lwawo. Azogcina isikhumbuzo sami seHalloween kulo nyaka, futhi umphathi wabo? I-kitsune. Ngiyena. 🦊 Isixwayiso esifanele: izimpungushe zaziwa njengabahlakaniphile,…funda kabanzi

Angikhona lapha ukuze nganelise izifiso zokuthandana zabanye. Ngiyacela ukuba ube nekhono futhi uhloniphe. Uma uhlezi lapha kuphela ukuze ujabulele noma uflirte, ngiyacela ungathandi iphrofayela yami. Angithandi ukuba nabangane nabantu abanalezi zinhlelo. Ngiyabahlonipha ubudlelwano obuqotho,…funda kabanzi
Ukuba kuhlelo lokuhlangana akusho ukuthi othile udinga ukunakwa ngokweqile. Uma ingxoxo yakho yokuqala iqala ngemibuzo engafanele noma eyocansi, lokho kukhombisa konke okudingayo ukukwazi. Sihamba lapha ukuze sihlangane nabantu, sibe nengxoxo eziyiqiniso, futhi sibone ukuthi izinto ziya kuphi…funda kabanzi
Ngoba uma ubhekene nezinkinga zokuhlinzeka ngezindleko zakho zenyanga futhi kufanele unciphise ezibalulekile ukuze ufinyelele, mhlawumbe lokho akusiyo indaba okufanele uqale ngayo. Okubaluleke kakhulu, angikhathaleli ukuthi umuntu unamapulazi, impahla, noma isikhundla esingakanani. Into yokuqala…funda kabanzi
Izindlela!!!!!
Ukungaziphathi kahle akusho ukuthi awudingi ukuziphatha.
Baba, izilwane zinezimilo.

izimfanelo ezibaluleke kakhulu okufanele zifakwe lapho sikhuluma nabangane abasha!! Ngiyaxolisa ngokuba nesiko elidala kodwa lokho kuyiqiniso. Yiba nezindlela!!
Kubukeka sengathi, ukuba nenhlonipho, ukuba nemikhuba emihle, nokwazi imingcele kuyiphakheji ephezulu kulezi zinsuku 😂😴
Bangaki abantu basiphonsa phansi ngenxa yokuthi izindlela zethu nezinkulumo zethu azihambisani nalokho abakubona njengokufanele? Bangaki abantu abanikwa inani ngokuhambisana nalokho abakholelwa ukuthi kuyinto efanele, noma ngabe bangabantu ababi ngaphakathi? Lokho engikuthandile kakhulu emdlalweni…funda kabanzi

*[Ngokucacile kwabesifazane]* Yini ebaluleke kakhulu ekuthandeni nasekuthatheni isinqumo sokuhamba phambili ebudlelwaneni? Futhi sicela uchaze ukuthi kungani
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Hlukanisa phakathi kokukhwabanisa uthando nokuthandana kwangempela. Qaphela uma othile efika kuwe, ngisho noma enprofayili enhle nezindlela ezinhle. Othile okuthandayo ngempela uzozama ukukuthola ngezinyathelo, hhayi nje ngamagama. Othile angakwazi ukuhlela imizwa yakho nemicabango, ukuze uma uwela…funda kabanzi
Yini eyenza indoda icabange ukuthi kulungile ukuthumela umlayezo ongekho emthethweni noma ongenhlonipho kumfazi ayazi kahle? Sonke sikhona lapha sivela ezweni ezehlukene, amasiko ezehlukene, nezizinda ezehlukene. Yebo, okuzwakala kujwayelekile noma kuhleka kwesiko elithile kungase kungabi njalo…funda kabanzi

Okungafanele ukwenze Emhlanganweni wokuqala noma uvakashela umndeni wakhe

Ngake ngichaza izinqumo zami, impilo yami njengokuthi zidinga ukuvunywa. Ngahlala ezinkulumweni lapho abantu abangaziwa bangijonga njengomuntu ophukile noma ongajwayelekile, becabanga ukuthi kuyisibopho sami ukulalela. Kwakungekho. Lokho kuphela kwangishiya nginokuhlonipha okuncane. Angisakwenzi…funda kabanzi
Angizami ukuba umuntu onobuciko kakhulu emlandweni kodwa ngibe se-inthanethi iminyaka embalwa futhi abazali bezizukulwane ezibizwa ngokuthi zihlakaniphile noma ze-inthanethi engizifaka phakathi njengobaba wengane ezimbili ezincane kanye nentombazane eyodwa y teenager kufanele bazisole ngihlala…( kulungiswe )funda kabanzi
Sikhuluma ngendalo sengathi inobuntu. Ihlobo elibuhlungu. Ulwandle oluthukuthele. Umoya onobudlova. I-cancer iyahlasela. Indalo ibuyisela. Kuyavuma. Siqonda umhlaba ngokuhlosiwe. Uma othile ekulimaza, ubuza ukuthi kungani. Bese umoya ophakeme udiliza idolobha futhi imithetho efanayo ihlala…funda kabanzi
Indoda enesithunzi nemikhuba emihle iyinhloso yangempela yokuba muhle
Ubuhle bukhona kaningi ezimisweni ezincane.
Ngibe nomuntu ongaziwa ehlula umnyango wendawo yokuhlambela engangikuyo namuhla… abantu badinga ukufunda izindlela
Ngiyaziqhenya kakhulu ukuzwa ngempilo kaDolly. UDolly Parton akazange avumele muntu ukuba amkhumbuze ukuthi akakwazi ukuba nezinye izwi zakhe; wabhala "I Will Always Love You" ngesikhathi esisodwa wabe esenqaba imali enkulu evela kumphathi kaElvis kunokuba abhalise ingxenye yokushicilela. Lokhu…funda kabanzi
ingabe ukubuza “Kungani uphaphama ngale ndlela ekuseni?” kubonakala njengokungahloniphi kuwe? Ungayichaza kanjani imibuzo enjalo? Ngoba umuntu oyedwa uqobo wahamba ngqo waba nesimanga sokucwasa futhi wangifundisa ngamasiko nezikhala, lapho ekugcineni edlula umngcele omkhulu kakhulu…funda kabanzi
Angisadli. Isizathu silula - kuba into engiyesabayo kunokuyilindela. Ngisakhumbula. Kwakukhona isikhathi empilweni yami esiqala eminyakeni engama-10 edlule kuze kube seminyakeni engama-6 edlule lapho ngagcotshwa okungenani izikhathi ezingama-30 ngokuqhubekayo. Ukuphikiswa ngiyazi kahle, kodwa…funda kabanzi
Nginephutha elikhulu lokungathandi abazali abangenzi imizamo yokufundisa izingane zabo izindlela eziyisisekelo zokuziphatha. Lokhu kuhlupha kakhulu ezindaweni zokudlela noma ezindaweni zomphakathi lapho izingane ezingaziphathi kahle ziphazamisa abanye bonke kanti abazali benza lutho ngaphandle…funda kabanzi

Ezinye zezinto ezingahloniphi zangeza kule ncwadi. Ngokuhlonipha okuphelele, ngiyacela ukuthi silethe izindlela zethu ezinhle zokuziphatha futhi sihloniphe wonke umuntu ngokuphelele. Ukuhlonipha okuncane kuhamba kude. Ngiyabonga.
Kuhle ukuthi lapho uqhakambisa ukuziphatha okubi, ngokuzumayo uba “umphangi.” Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abantu abaphakamisayo, abawuhloniphayo, noma abenza sengathi abawuboni, bangabantu “abahle.” I-logic ethakazelisayo. Ngezinye izikhathi, umuntu ophakamisa inkinga unokuhlosiwe okuhle kunalowo…funda kabanzi
Manje ngithanda i-F1, mhlawumbe ungabelana ngento ethile ngayo, ngithanda uCarlos Sainz Jr ngoba unendlela enhle, ngithanda futhi uGeorge Russel( kulungiswe )




Lokhu kuhle Akukhona ngempilo esezingeni eliphezulu, noma ngokuqhamuka okuthokozisayo. Lokhu kuhle ngokuziphatha, izindlela, ubuntu, ukuziphatha nokuhlonipha okwazi ukubonga nokuhlonipha abanye abantu kanye nenani onalo Iklasi yangempela iyisithombe sobuntu kunokuhlupheka. Ikalwa ngokuqonda,…funda kabanzi
"Ubulili bomuntu bungekho ekuqaleni njengamanje, kodwa bahluke kakhulu. Okokuqala, ubulili babunama-3, hhayi ama-2 njengamanje; kwakukhona indoda, owesifazane, kanye nokuhlangana kwabo bobabili... Bese uZeus nabanye onkulunkulu bathola iseluleko sokuthi benzeni... UZeus wathi: Ngicabanga ukuthi…funda kabanzi
Chortle (igama): Ukuhleka noma ukuhlekisa okukhombisa injabulo noma ukujabulisa. Ukuph pronunciation: [chor-tl] Umlando: Kwathiwa nguLewis Carroll ku-Through the Looking Glass; mhlawumbe kuyinhlanganisela ye-chuckle ne-snort. Ama-chortle avame ukuphuma ezikhathini ezimbi kakhulu:…funda kabanzi
Uma useRoma, yenza njengamaRoma. Uma useJalimane, Phuza iBitburger, kuyindlela enhle yokuziphatha
