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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Hoekom is dit so moeilik om ander poly mense in my omgewing te vind?

Noord-Carolina poly

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Ek is in 'n langafstandverhouding en soek 'n meisie wat nader aan my is om mee te kuier en te date.

Soek na 3de

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hallo almal,  

Ek soek om soortgelyke mense in my omgewing te ontmoet wat geïnteresseerd is in dating met die bedoeling van iets wat aanhoudend en betekenisvol is.

Poli, geneste en op soek na betekenisvolle verbintenisse

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Nuwe by die Poly, ek probeer hierdie ding, dit is voor die eerste keer. Onlangs enkel weens die vrou se afsterwe, ek is geïnteresseerd om nuwe mense met soortgelyke belangstellings te ontmoet.

Nuwe poly

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii is daar enige poly mense?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Hallo hallo! My vrou en ek is polies en ek is oop vir 'n ander verhouding en ek soek 'n meisie. Ek kyk na persoonlikheid, nie voorkoms nie. As jy belangstel, stuur vir my 'n boodskap, as nie, tot siens!!

Soekende

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Man en ek soek 'n ernstige verhouding met 'n vrou. Belangstellendes kan my boodskap stuur.

Hallo

Looking for a female to join us

Soek 'n vrou om by ons aan te sluit

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Gewoonlik is ek 'n een man of vrou tipe ou. Maar ek kan nie tussen die 2 kies nie, so ek wil 'n polieweek probeer. Ek verkies 'n 2 man polieweek, maar enigiets is reg, ek wil net hê hulle moet rondom die ouderdom van middel 20's en tot 30 wees. Wees asseblief in die VSA, kommentaar ook as iemand belangstel ☺️

Soek na 'n polieweek

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Die aktiewe ingesteldheid om jou maat(s) lief te hê en te ondersteun in die vind van tevredenheid deur die dinge (of mense) wat hulle liefhet (of hou) te doen. Dit word dikwels teengewerk deur 'n behoefte om te beheer of te besit, onsekerheid oor toegang, of 'n vrees vir verlies. Ek oorweeg die konsep van nie-gekoppelde agape en hoe dit 'n sterk fondament vir compersion kan skep. Sommige mense versamel meer vennote om die leemtes te vul, maar kan dit voldoende die onderliggende probleem aanspreek?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey daar, ek begin om nuwe dinge te verken en soek 'n prettige, nuuskierige en oopkop meisie om saam met ons op hierdie reis te kom 🤭 as jy lus is vir pret en om mekaar beter te leer ken, kontak ons 🫠

Probeer iets nuuts

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Ek vra myself af of ek dalk polies kan wees of nie. Maar ek wou weet, hoe is dit? Is dit moontlik dat ek myself met 2 mense kan vind? Is julle ekstra gelukkig? Ek is regtig nuuskierig oor hierdie onderwerp

Gee my asseblief insig

New to Boo

Nuut by Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Ek het 'n ontstellende neiging opgemerk van paartjies wat spesifiek op soek is na 'n derde wat hulself as polies beskryf, en dit is hartseer.
Niemand behoort op soek te wees na 'n weggooibare persoon om speserye aan hul vennootskap toe te voeg nie, dit is nie poliamorie nie.
Op soortgelyke wyse, om jou vennote se keuses te beperk terwyl jy self vrye rege het, is nie pol nie, dit is net onsekerheid en beheer.

Ons moet hierdie toksiese mense wat hulself polies noem, aanspreek, want dit is die beeld wat aan ander oorgedra word, en hoekom daar soveel misverstand is oor compersion en die vreugde om iemand genoeg te lief te hê om hulle vry te stel.

Jagters en OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Ek was altyd monogame. Nooit gesondig nie, nooit die ander kant gekyk nie. Spoel vorentoe na die einde van my laaste verhouding en 'n jaar van enkelwees, het ek besluit om my tone weer in die swembad te dompel.

Ek sien nou een poly meisie gereeld en dinge gaan goed, ek is heeltemal reg met haar situasie en die vryheid wat dit my bied. Meer afspraak met 'n ander een op die horison, en selfs 'n eks van 20 jaar gelede wat met my gesels.

Ek is nie besig om te spog of te praal nie. (Alhoewel ek myself redelik gelukkig beskou) Maar hoe kom dit dat ek skielik al hierdie aandag kry? Was dit so lank gelede dat ek gedateer het dat dinge verander het?

Dit kan iets te doen hê met die werk aan myself, seker. Dit kan wees met my nuutgevonde selfvertroue. Maar ek wonder wat ander mense daarvan mag dink.

So, is dit normaal?

We out here 😉

Ons is hier buite 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Net 'n bietjie om te vent. 
Ek is nuut in die polie-lewe. Ek was my hele lewe lank monogame. So ek het geweet jaloesie mag 'n stryd wees, maar tot dusver is dit nie. Niemand het my egter gewaarsku oor die potensiële skuld wat ek mag voel nie. Soos ek doen iets vreeslik verkeerd, al is ek soooooo gelukkig. Ek is gesê om te begin joernaal oor my skuldgevoelens om te probeer uitvind wat dit veroorsaak en dalk my brein te herbedraad, ek raai haha.

Wanneer die skuld sterker is as jaloesie.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Ek is nie nuut met poly nie, my ou is! Waar is al my poly mense?! Ons is in die ATL!!

Waar is die poly paartjies?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Jis, ek was nog nie 'n hele maand op hierdie app nie, maar ek het baie gesien, en ek bedoel BAIE poly mense hier. Ek skam glad nie, maar ek is meer verbaas oor hoe oop julle is.

Poly op die opkoms?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Waarom laat baie poliemans net ander vroue in die verhouding toe? Is poly liefde nie vir alle geslagte nie?

Vraag vir hoofsaaklik poliemans, maar vroue is welkom om in te bring.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

My beste vriend het al ongeveer 'n jaar in 'n verhouding. Haar kêrel het haar vandag gesê dat hy 'n ander vriendin nodig het of hy gaan verveeld raak, hy wil egter nie hê sy moet iemand anders sien nie. Hy het verduidelik dat dit tipies is vir Poly of ENM verhoudings. Kan iemand my help om dit te verstaan? Want iets in die water is net nie nat hier in my opinie nie.

Net 'n vinnige vraag.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Ek en my vrou soek oral vir 'n ander vrou om of mee te speel😉 of by die verhouding te voeg. Sy is baie opgewonde oor die idee, aangesien sy bi is en regtig van vroue hou. Ons was op soveel apps, insluitend fetlife, en het net nie geluk gehad nie. As daar enige dames is wat belangstel, voel vry om ons te kontak🖤

om 'n 3de in NC te vind is onmoontlik

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

Wat is die grootste polykul waaraan jy deelgeneem het?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

my kêrel en ek soek 'n meisie om mee te vibing, as jy belangstel amos: txrichann

op soek na 'n 3de

'n Boo-gemeenskap om ander Poly entoesiaste te ontmoet.

Poly Gemeenskap

Noord-Carolina poly

Soek na 3de

Poli, geneste en op soek na betekenisvolle verbintenisse

Nuwe poly

Hiiii is daar enige poly mense?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Saamhorigheid❤️ vs geïsoleerde alleenheid

Ek hou nie van my ex nie...

Het jy gepleeg en jouself verlos?

37 F Newcastle

Soek 'n werklike meisie, ek is polies

Soek na speler 2 ish