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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Zašto je tako teško pronaći druge poliamorne ljude u mojoj oblasti?

Poliamor u Sjevernoj Karolini

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

U dugoj sam vezi i tražim djevojku bliže sebi s kojom bih se mogao družiti i izlaziti.

Tražim treću

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hej svima,  

Tražim da upoznam ljude sličnog razmišljanja u svojoj oblasti koji bi bili zainteresovani za dejtanje s namjerom nečega trajnog i značajnog.

Poli, u vezi i tražim značajne veze

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Novi sam u poliamoriji, pokušavam ovo, to je prvi put. Nedavno sam samac zbog smrti supruge, zanima me upoznavanje novih ljudi sa sličnim interesima.

Nova poliamorija

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii, ima li ovdje poly ljudi?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Zdravo zdravo! Moja žena i ja smo poliamorni i otvoren sam za još jednu vezu i tražim djevojku. Gledam ličnost, a ne izgled. Ako si zainteresovana, javi mi se, ako ne, ćao!!

Tražim

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Muž i ja tražimo ozbiljnu vezu sa ženom. Zainteresovane, javite se.

Zdravo

Looking for a female to join us

Tražimo ženu da nam se pridruži

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Obično sam tip koji voli samo jednu osobu. Ali ne mogu da se odlučim između njih dvoje, pa želim da probam poliamoriju. Preferirao bih poliamoriju sa 2 muškarca, ali sve je u redu, samo želim da budu u dobi od sredine 20-ih do 30. Molim vas da budete u SAD-u, takođe komentarišite ako je neko zainteresovan ☺️

Tražim poliamornu vezu

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Aktivni način razmišljanja o ljubavi i podršci svom partneru(ima) u pronalaženju zadovoljstva radeći stvari (ili s ljudima) koje vole (ili im se sviđaju). Često se suprotstavlja potrebom za kontrolom ili posjedovanjem, nesigurnosti oko pristupa ili strahu od gubitka. Smatram konceptom ne-prikovanog agape i kako može stvoriti čvrstu osnovu za komperziju. Neki ljudi prikupljaju više partnera kako bi popunili praznine, ali može li to dovoljno riješiti osnovni problem?

Komperzija

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hej, počinjem istraživati nove stvari i tražim zabavnu, radoznalu i otvorenu djevojku koja će nam se pridružiti na ovom putovanju 🤭 ako si za zabavu i bolje upoznavanje, javi nam se 🫠

Pokušavam nešto novo

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Pitam se da li bih mogao biti poliamoran ili ne. Ali želio sam znati, kakvo je to? Da li je moguće da se nađem s 2 osobe? Da li ste vi ekstra sretni? Zaista sam radoznao o ovoj temi

Dajte mi uvid molim vas

New to Boo

Kako ti se sviđa ova aplikacija do sada?

Novi na Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Primijetio sam uznemirujući trend parova koji posebno traže treću osobu i opisuju se kao poliamorni, i to je tužno. 
Niko ne bi trebao tražiti zamjensku osobu da začini svoj odnos, to nije poliamorija. 
Slično tome, ograničavanje izbora svojih partnera dok sami imate potpunu slobodu nije pol, to je samo nesigurnost i kontrola.

Moramo osuditi te toksične osobe koje se nazivaju poliamornima, jer je to slika koja se prenosi na druge, i zašto postoji toliko nesporazuma oko kompresije i radosti voljenja nekoga dovoljno da ga oslobodiš.

Lovci i OPP-ovi

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Uvijek sam bio monogaman. Nikada nisam prevario, nikada nisam pogledao u drugom smjeru. Preskočimo na kraj mog posljednjeg odnosa i godinu dana samoće, odlučio sam ponovo zakoračiti u vodu.

Sada viđam jednu poligamnu djevojku redovno i stvari idu odlično, potpuno sam u redu s njenom situacijom i slobodom koju mi pruža. Imamo još nekoliko sastanaka s drugom uskoro, a čak i bivša iz prije 20 godina mi se javlja.

Ne hvalim se i ne pretjerujem. (Iako se smatram prilično sretnim) Ali zašto odjednom dobijam svu ovu pažnju? Da li je prošlo toliko dugo otkako sam bio na dejtovanju da su se stvari promijenile?

Možda to ima veze s radom na sebi, sigurno. Možda je to zbog mog novog samopouzdanja. Ali se pitam šta drugi ljudi misle o tome.

Dakle, je li ovo normalno?

We out here 😉

Mi smo ovdje 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Samo malo ispuštanja. 
Novi sam u poliamoriji. Cijeli svoj život sam bio monogaman. Tako da sam znao da bi ljubomora mogla biti problem, ali do sada nije. Međutim, niko me nije upozorio na potencijalnu krivicu koju bih mogao osjećati. Kao da radim nešto strašno pogrešno iako sam takoooooo sretan. Rekli su mi da počnem pisati dnevnik o svojim osjećajima krivice kako bih pokušao otkriti šta ih uzrokuje i možda preuredio svoj mozak, pretpostavljam haha.

Kada je krivica jača od ljubomore.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Nisam nova u poliamoriji, moj dečko jeste! Gdje su svi moji poliamorni prijatelji?! Mi smo u ATL!!

Gdje su poliamorne parove?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Jebote, nisam na ovoj aplikaciji cijeli mjesec, ali sam vidio mnogo, i mislim MNOGO poliamornih ljudi ovdje. Ne sramim se uopšte, više sam iznenađen koliko ste otvoreni.

Poliamorija u porastu?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Zašto mnogi poliamorni muškarci dopuštaju samo drugim ženama da budu u vezi? Zar poliamorna ljubav nije za sve rodove?

Pitanje za uglavnom poliamorne muškarce, ali i žene su dobrodošle da daju svoj doprinos.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Moja najbolja prijateljica je u vezi već oko godinu dana. Njen dečko joj je danas rekao da mu treba još jedna djevojka ili će se dosaditi, ali ne želi da ona viđa nekog drugog. Objasnio je da je ovo tipično za poliamorne ili ENM veze. Može li mi neko pomoći da razumijem? Jer nešto u vodi jednostavno nije u redu po mom mišljenju.

Samo brzo pitanje.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Ja i moja žena smo tražili svuda moguće za još jednu ženu s kojom bismo se igrali😉 ili dodali u vezu. Ona je super uzbuđena zbog te ideje, s obzirom da je biseksualna i stvarno voli žene. Bili smo na toliko aplikacija uključujući fetlife, i jednostavno nismo imali sreće. Ako ima bilo kakvih dama koje su zainteresovane, slobodno nam se javite🖤

pronaći treću u NC je nemoguće

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

Koji je najveći polikule u kojem si bio?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

moj dečko i ja tražimo djevojku s kojom bismo se povezali, ako si zainteresovana amos: txrichann

tražimo treću

A Boo community for meeting other Poly enthusiasts.

Poly Community

Poliamor u Sjevernoj Karolini

Tražim treću

Poli, u vezi i tražim značajne veze

Nova poliamorija

Hiiii, ima li ovdje poly ljudi?

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Zajedništvo❤️ vs izolovana usamljenost

Ne sviđa mi se moja bivša...

Jesi li prevario i iskupio se?

37 F Newcastle

Tražim pravu djevojku, ja sam poliamoran

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