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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Wêrom is it sa dreech om oare poly minsken yn myn gebiet te finen?

Noard-Carolina poly

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Ik bin yn in langeafstandsferhâlding en sykje in famke dat tichterby my is om mei te hingjen en te date.

Sykje nei 3e

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii binne der poly minsken?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey elkenien,  

Ik bin op syk nei minsken dy't itselde tinke yn myn omjouwing dy't ynteressearre binne yn dating mei de bedoeling fan wat trochgeand en sinfols.

Poly, nestich en op syk nei sinfolle ferbiningen

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Nij yn 'e Poly, besykje dit ding, it is foar de earste kear. Koartlyn, single om't myn frou ferstoarn is, ik bin ynteressearre yn it moetsjen fan nije minsken mei gelikense ynteresses

Nije poly

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Solo/poly

In the growing world of poly what’s the mistake you made but glad you learned that lesson…. Please be open minded AB’s don’t be shy no judge here

Hot take

Yn 'e groeiende wrâld fan poly, wat is de fout dy't jo makke hawwe mar wêr't jo bliid om binne dat jo dy les leard hawwe.... Please wees iepenhertich AB's, wees net skamich, gjin oardiel hjir

Hite take

Post a pic Atlanta addition if you not scared

Atlanta maybe

Post in foto Atlanta tafoeging as jo net bang binne

Atlanta miskien

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Howdy howdy! Myn frou en ik binne poly en ik bin iepen foar in oare relaasje en ik sykje in freondinne. Ik gean foar persoanlikheid, net foar uterlik. As jo ynteressearre binne, stjoer my in berjocht, oars bye!!

Sykje

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Man en ik sykje in serieuze relaasje mei in frou. Ynteressearre, stjoer my in berjocht.

Hallo

Looking for a female to join us

Sykje in frou om ús te ferienigjen

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Gewoanwei bin ik in ien man of frou type fan in man. Mar ik kin net kieze tusken de 2, dus ik wol in poly relaasje besykje. Ik soe leaver in 2 man poly hawwe, mar alles is goed, ik wol gewoan dat se om de 25 jier binne en oant 30. Please wêze yn 'e FS en reagearje as immen ynteressearre is ☺️

Sykje nei in poly relaasje

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

It aktive denkwize fan it leafhawwen en stypjen fan jo partner(s) yn it fine fan tefredenheid mei de dingen (of minsken) dy't se leafhawwe (of leuk fine). Faak tsjinsprutsen troch in need om te kontrolearjen of te besit, ûnsekerheid oer tagong, of in eangst foar ferlies. Ik beskôgje it konsept fan net-bondige agape en hoe't it in sterke basis foar compersion meitsje kin. Guon folx sammelje mear partners om de gaten op te foljen, mar kin dat genôch it ûnderlizzende probleem oanpakke?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey dêr, begjinne te ferkennen nije dingen en op syk nei in leuke, nijsgjirrige en iepen-minded famke om ús te ferbinen op dizze reis 🤭 as jo derfoar binne om wat wille te hawwen en elkoar better te learen kenne, lit it ús witte 🫠

Nije dingen úttest

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Ik fraach my ôf oft ik sels poly kin wêze of net. Mar ik woe graach witte, hoe is it? Kin it mooglik wêze dat ik mysels mei 2 minsken fine kin? binne jimme ekstra gelokkich? Ik bin echt nijsgjirrich oer dit ûnderwerp

Jou my ynsjoch plz

New to Boo

Nij by Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Ik haw in ûntspannen trend sjoen fan stellen dy't spesifyk op syk binne nei in tredde dy't harren sels poly neame, en dit is treurig.
Gjinien soe op syk wêze moatte nei in wegwerpmens om wat smaak ta te foegjen oan harren partnerskip, dat is gjin polyamory.
Likewise, it beheinen fan jo partnerskeuzes wylst jo sels frije reign hawwe is gjin poly, dat is gewoan ynsekerheid en kontrôle.

Wy moatte dizze giftige minsken dy't harren sels poly neame oanpakke, om't dat it byld is dat oerbrocht wurdt oan oaren, en wêrom't der sa'n soad misferstân is oer compersion en de freugde fan immen genôch te hâlden om harren frij te litten.

Jagers en OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Ik bin altyd monogam west. Nooit bedrogen, noait de oare kant op sjoen. Foarút yn 'e tiid nei it ein fan myn lêste relaasje en in jier fan single wêze, besleat ik om wer wat te ûndernimmen.

Ik sjoch no in poly famke regelmjittich en dingen geane geweldig, hielendal goed mei har situaasje en de frijheid dy't it my biedt. Mear dates pland mei in oar gau, en sels in eks fan 20 jier lyn dy't mei my praat.

Ik bin net oan it opscheppen of prate. (Hoewol't ik mysels best gelokkich fyn) Mar hoe komt it dat ik plotseling al dizze oandacht krij? Is it sa lang lyn dat ik oan it date wie dat dingen feroare binne?

It kin wat te meitsjen hawwe mei it wurkjen oan mysels, dat is wis. It kin te krijen hawwe mei myn nije fertrouwen. Mar ik freegje my ôf wat oare minsken derfan fine soene.

Sa, is dit normaal?

We out here 😉

Wy binne hjir 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Gewoan in lyts útlaat. 
Ik bin nij yn it poly-libben. Ik haw myn hiele libben monogam west. Sa wist ik dat jaloezie in striid wêze koe, mar oant no ta is it dat net. Mar gjinien hat my warskôge oer de potensjele skuld dy't ik fielde koe. As wie ik wat vreslik ferkeard oan it dwaan, ek al bin ik saooooo gelokkich. Ik waard sein om te begjinnen mei it bijhâlden fan in deiboek oer myn skuldgefoelens om te besykjen te finen wat se feroarsaket en miskien myn brein te rewiringjen, tink ik haha.

As de skuld sterker is as de jaloezie.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Ik bin net nij yn poly, myn man is! Wêr binne al myn poly freonen?! Wy binne yn 'e ATL!!

Wêr binne de poly koppels?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Damn, ik bin noch net in hiele moanne op dizze app, mar ik haw in soad sjoen en ik bedoel in soad poly minsken hjir. Net om te skamjen, mar mear ferrast oer hoe iepen jimme binne.

Poly op 'e opkomst?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Wêrom litte in soad polymanlju allinnich oare froulju ta yn 'e relaasje? Is poly leafde net foar alle geslachten?

Fraag foar benammen poly manlju mar froulju binne wolkom om ynfloed te hawwen.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Myn bêste freon is al sa'n jier yn in relaasje. Har freon hat har hjoed sein dat er in oare freondinne nedich hat of hy sil ferve, hy wol lykwols net dat sy immen oars sjocht. Hy hat útlis jûn dat dit typysk is foar Poly of ENM relaasjes. Kin immen my helpe om it te begripen? Want wat yn it wetter is hjir neffens my gewoan net wiet.

Gewoan in fluch fraach.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Ik en myn frou hawwe oeral socht foar in oare frou om mei te spyljen😉 of ta te foegjen oan de relaasje. Se is super optein oer it idee, om't se bi is en echt fan froulju hâldt. Wy hawwe op sa'n soad apps west, ynklusyf fetlife, en hawwe gewoan gjin gelok hân. As der froulju ynteressearre binne, fiel je frij om ús te berikken🖤

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Noard-Carolina poly

Sykje nei 3e

Hiiii binne der poly minsken?

Poly, nestich en op syk nei sinfolle ferbiningen

Nije poly

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Op syk nei in echte freondin, ik bin poly

Hawwe jo jocht en jo sels ferlost?

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