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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Vim li cas ho nyuaj ua rau nrhiav lwm tus neeg poly hauv kuv thaj chaw?

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Kuv nyob hauv ib qho kev sib raug zoo deb thiab nrhiav ib tug ntxhais ze kuv kom tuaj koom thiab mus ntsib.

Nrhiav 3rd

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii puas muaj neeg poly?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey txhua tus,  

Kuv tab tom nrhiav kom ntsib cov neeg xav txog hauv kuv thaj chaw uas yuav muaj kev txaus siab rau kev sib tham nrog lub hom phiaj ntawm ib yam uas txuas ntxiv thiab muaj txiaj ntsig.

Poly, nested thiab nrhiav kev txuas nrog muaj txiaj ntsig

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Tshiab rau Poly sim qhov no, nws yog ua ntej thawj zaug. Tsis ntev los no, ib leeg vim tias tus poj niam tuag, kuv muaj kev xav txog kev ntsib cov neeg tshiab nrog cov kev txaus siab zoo li.

Tshiab poly

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Solo/poly

In the growing world of poly what’s the mistake you made but glad you learned that lesson…. Please be open minded AB’s don’t be shy no judge here

Hot take

Nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb nce qib ntawm poly, qhov yuam kev twg koj tau ua tab sis zoo siab koj kawm tau zaj kawm ntawd.... Thov kom muaj lub siab qhib, AB tsis txhob ntshai, tsis muaj neeg txiav txim ntawm no

Tso tseg

Post a pic Atlanta addition if you not scared

Atlanta maybe

Xa ib daim duab Atlanta ntxiv yog tias koj tsis ntshai

Atlanta tej zaum

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Nyob zoo nyob zoo! Kuv tus poj niam thiab kuv yog poly thiab kuv qhib rau lwm txoj kev sib raug zoo thiab kuv tab tom nrhiav ib tus ntxhais. Kuv mus nrog tus cwj pwm tsis yog saib. Yog tias koj muaj kev txaus siab, xa ntawv rau kuv, yog tsis yog byeee!!

Nrhiav

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Tus txiv thiab kuv tab tom nrhiav kev sib raug zoo nrog ib tug pojniam. Yog xav, xa ntawv rau kuv.

Nyob zoo

Looking for a female to join us

Nrhiav ib tug poj niam los koom nrog peb

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Feem ntau kuv yog ib tug txiv neej lossis poj niam. Tab sis kuv tsis tuaj yeem xaiv ntawm 2, yog li kuv xav sim poly. Kuv yuav nyiam 2 tug txiv neej poly tab sis txhua yam yog ok, tsuas yog xav kom lawv nyob hauv hnub nyoog ntawm nruab nrab 20s thiab mus txog 30. Thov nyob hauv U.S. thiab xav kom muaj neeg tawm tswv yim yog tias muaj leej twg xav tau ☺️

Nrhiav kev sib raug zoo poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Lub tswv yim ua haujlwm ntawm kev hlub thiab txhawb nqa koj tus khub (los yog cov khub) hauv kev nrhiav kev txaus siab ua cov khoom (los yog tib neeg) lawv hlub (los yog nyiam). Feem ntau yog qhov kev xav kom tswj hwm lossis muaj, kev tsis ntseeg txog kev nkag mus, lossis kev ntshai ntawm kev poob. Kuv xav txog lub tswv yim ntawm kev hlub tsis muaj kev txuas thiab yuav ua li cas nws tuaj yeem tsim tau ib qho foundation ruaj khov rau compersion. Qee tus neeg khaws ntau tus khub kom tau txais cov qhov chaw, tab sis puas tuaj yeem daws tau qhov teeb meem hauv qab no?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey there, pib nrhiav cov khoom tshiab thiab nrhiav kom txuas nrog ib tug ntxhais muaj kev lom zem, nyiam thiab qhib siab los koom nrog peb hauv txoj kev no 🤭 yog tias koj xav tau kev lom zem thiab paub ntau ntxiv txog ib leeg, hu rau peb 🫠

Sim ib qho tshiab

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Kuv tab tom nug seb kuv puas yuav yog poly lossis tsis. Tab sis kuv xav paub, nws zoo li cas? Puas muaj peev xwm kuv yuav pom kuv tus kheej nrog 2 tus neeg? Nej puas yog tus neeg zoo siab ntxiv? Kuv xav paub txog qhov no heev

Thov qhia rau kuv paub

New to Boo

Koj nyiam li cas txog daim ntawv thov no txog tam sim no?

Tshiab rau Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Kuv tau pom ib qho kev hloov pauv txaus ntshai ntawm cov khub uas tshwj xeeb nrhiav ib tug thib peb uas piav qhia lawv tus kheej tias yog poly, thiab qhov no ua rau kuv chim siab.
Tsis muaj leej twg yuav tsum nrhiav ib tug neeg uas yuav tsum tau siv los ntxiv qhov qab zib rau lawv txoj kev koom tes, qhov ntawd tsis yog polyamory.
Zoo li ntawd, kev txwv koj cov khub xaiv thaum muaj kev ywj pheej rau koj tus kheej tsis yog poly, qhov ntawd tsuas yog kev tsis ntseeg thiab kev tswj hwm.

Peb yuav tsum hu rau cov neeg phem no uas hu lawv tus kheej tias yog poly, vim tias qhov ntawd yog daim duab uas raug xa mus rau lwm tus, thiab vim li cas thiaj muaj ntau qhov tsis nkag siab txog compersion thiab qhov zoo ntawm kev hlub ib tug neeg txaus kom tso lawv mus.

Cov neeg tua thiab OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Kuv yeej ib txwm yog tus monogamous. Tsis tau dag, tsis tau saib lwm txoj kev. Ntxiv mus txog kawg ntawm kuv txoj kev sib raug zoo kawg thiab ib xyoos ntawm kev nyob ib leeg, kuv tau txiav txim siab pib ntsaws kuv tus ntiv tes rov qab mus rau hauv pas dej.

Tam sim no kuv pom ib tug ntxhais poly txhua hnub thiab txhua yam mus zoo, kuv zoo siab nrog nws qhov xwm txheej thiab qhov kev ywj pheej nws muab rau kuv. Muaj ntau hnub tim ntxiv nrog lwm tus tsis ntev, thiab txawm tias ib tug ex ntawm 20 xyoo dhau los tham nrog kuv.

Kuv tsis yog ua siab loj lossis qhuas. (Txawm li cas los xij, kuv xav tias kuv yog tus hmoov zoo) Tab sis vim li cas suddenly, kuv tau txais txhua qhov kev xav no? Puas yog nws tau ntev npaum li cas txij li kuv tau muaj kev sib raug zoo tias txhua yam tau hloov?

Tej zaum nws yuav muaj qee yam nrog kev ua haujlwm rau kuv tus kheej. Tej zaum nws yuav yog nrog kuv qhov kev ntseeg siab tshiab. Tab sis kuv xav paub tias lwm tus neeg yuav xav li cas txog nws.

Yog, puas yog qhov no?

We out here 😉

Peb nyob ntawm no 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Tsis ntev los no. 
Kuv tshiab rau lub neej poly. Kuv tau muaj ib tug neeg xwb hauv kuv lub neej tag nrho. Yog li kuv paub tias qhov kev khib yuav yog ib qho kev nyuaj, tab sis txog tam sim no nws tsis yog. Txawm li cas los xij, tsis muaj leej twg ceeb toom kuv txog qhov kev xav tsis zoo uas kuv tuaj yeem muaj. Zoo li kuv đang ua qee yam tsis zoo heev txawm tias kuv zoo siab heev. Lawv tau qhia kuv kom pib sau ntawv txog kuv cov kev xav tsis zoo kom sim nrhiav seb dab tsi ua rau lawv thiab tej zaum hloov kho kuv lub hlwb kuv xav haha.

Thaum lub siab tsis zoo tshaj qhov kev khib.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Kuv tsis tshiab rau poly, tab sis kuv tus khub tshiab! Qhov twg txhua tus poly peeps nyob?! Peb nyob hauv ATL!!

Qhov twg cov neeg sib koom poly nyob?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Damn, kuv tseem tsis tau nyob rau hauv daim ntawv thov no ib hlis tag nrho tab sis kuv tau pom ntau thiab ntau thiab kuv txhais tau tias NTAWM ntau tus neeg poly nyob ntawm no. Tsis yog ua kom txhaum li, tab sis ntau dua xav tsis thoob txog qhov koj txhua tus qhib npaum li cas.

Poly ntawm qhov nce?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Vim li cas cov txiv neej polymen ntau yuav tsum tsuas pub lwm tus poj niam hauv kev sib raug zoo? Puas tsis yog kev hlub poly rau txhua hom txiv neej thiab poj niam?

Nug rau cov txiv neej poly tab sis cov poj niam kuj txais tos los muab tswv yim.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Kuv tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws tau nyob hauv kev sib raug zoo tau kwv yees ib xyoos. Nws tus txiv neej qhia nws hnub no tias nws xav tau ib tus ntxhais hluas ntxiv lossis nws yuav tsis muaj kev lom zem, tab sis nws tsis xav kom nws pom lwm tus. Nws tau piav qhia tias qhov no yog ib qho xwm txheej tshwj xeeb rau Poly lossis ENM kev sib raug zoo. Puas muaj leej twg tuaj yeem pab kuv to taub? Vim tias qee yam hauv dej tsis qhuav li no hauv kuv lub tswv yim.

Tsis muaj ib lo lus nug.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Kuv thiab kuv tus poj niam tau nrhiav txhua qhov chaw muaj peev xwm rau lwm tus poj niam kom ua si nrog😉 lossis ntxiv rau kev sib raug zoo. Nws zoo siab heev txog lub tswv yim, vim nws yog bi thiab nyiam poj niam tiag. Peb tau nyob rau ntau lub app suav nrog fetlife, thiab tsuas yog tsis tau muaj hmoo. Yog tias muaj cov poj niam uas muaj kev txaus siab, thov hu rau peb🖤

Poly Community

North Carolina poly

Nrhiav 3rd

Hiiii puas muaj neeg poly?

Poly, nested thiab nrhiav kev txuas nrog muaj txiaj ntsig

Tshiab poly

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Thaum lawv...

Poly yog zoo nkauj

Nrhiav ib tug tiag tiag tus hluas nkauj kuv yog poly

Koj puas tau dag thiab kho koj tus kheej?

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Poly hauv arkansas