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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Zašto je tako teško pronaći druge poli ljude u mojoj okolini?

Sjeverna Karolina poli

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

U dugoj sam vezi i tražim djevojku bliže sebi s kojom bih se mogao družiti i izlaziti.

Tražim treću

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii ima li ovdje poly ljudi?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hej svima,  

Tražim da upoznam istomišljenike u svojoj okolini koji bi bili zainteresirani za dejtanje s namjerom nečega trajnog i značajnog.

Poliamoran, u vezi i tražim značajne veze

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Novi sam u Poliju, pokušavam ovu stvar, to je prije prvi put. Nedavno sam samac zbog smrti supruge, zanimaju me nova poznanstva s ljudima sličnih interesa.

Novi poli

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Solo/poly

In the growing world of poly what’s the mistake you made but glad you learned that lesson…. Please be open minded AB’s don’t be shy no judge here

Hot take

U rastućem svijetu poliamorije, koja je greška koju ste napravili, ali ste sretni što ste naučili tu lekciju... Molimo vas da budete otvorenog uma, AB-ovi, ne sramite se, ovdje nema prosudbi.

Vruća tema

Post a pic Atlanta addition if you not scared

Atlanta maybe

Objavi sliku Atlanta dodatka ako se ne bojiš

Atlanta možda

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Bok bok! Moja žena i ja smo poliamorni i otvoren sam za još jednu vezu te tražim djevojku. Gledam osobnost, ne izgled. Ako si zainteresirana, javi mi se, ako ne, čao!!

Tražim

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Muž i ja tražimo ozbiljnu vezu s ženom. Ako ste zainteresirani, javite mi se.

Looking for a female to join us

Tražimo ženu da nam se pridruži

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Obično sam tip koji voli biti s jednom osobom. Ali ne mogu se odlučiti između njih dvoje, pa želim probati poliamoriju. Preferirao bih poliamoriju s dva muškarca, ali sve je u redu, samo želim da budu u dobi od sredine 20-ih do 30. Molim vas da budete u SAD-u, također komentirajte ako je netko zainteresiran ☺️

Tražim poliamornu vezu

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Aktivni način razmišljanja o ljubavi i podršci svom partneru(ima) u pronalaženju zadovoljstva radeći stvari (ili s ljudima) koje vole (ili im se sviđaju). Često se suprotstavlja potrebom za kontrolom ili posjedovanjem, nesigurnosti oko pristupa ili strahu od gubitka. Smatram konceptom ne-prikovanog agape i kako može stvoriti čvrstu osnovu za komperziju. Neki ljudi skupljaju više partnera kako bi popunili praznine, ali može li to dovoljno riješiti temeljni problem?

Komperzija

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hej, počinjem istraživati nove stvari i tražim zabavnu, radoznalu i otvorenu djevojku koja će nam se pridružiti na ovom putovanju 🤭 ako si za zabavu i bolje upoznavanje, javi nam se 🫠

Pokušavam nešto novo

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Pitam se da li bih mogao biti poliamoran ili ne. Ali htio sam znati, kakvo je to? Može li biti moguće da se nađem s 2 osobe? Jeste li vi ekstra sretni? Stvarno sam znatiželjan o ovoj temi

Dajte mi uvid molim vas

New to Boo

Kako ti se sviđa ova aplikacija do sada?

Novi na Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Primijetio sam uznemirujući trend parova koji posebno traže treću osobu i opisuju se kao poliamorni, i to je tužno. 
Nitko ne bi trebao tražiti zamjensku osobu kako bi začinio svoj odnos, to nije poliamorija. 
Slično tome, ograničavanje izbora svojih partnera dok sami imate potpunu slobodu nije pol, to je samo nesigurnost i kontrola.

Moramo osuditi te toksične osobe koje se nazivaju poliamornima, jer je to slika koja se prenosi na druge, i zašto postoji toliko nesporazuma oko kompresije i radosti voljenja nekoga dovoljno da ga oslobodiš.

Lovci i OPP-ovi

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Uvijek sam bio monogaman. Nikada nisam prevario, nikada nisam pogledao u drugom smjeru. Preskočimo na kraj moje posljednje veze i godinu dana samoće, odlučio sam ponovno zakoračiti u svijet.

Sada viđam jednu poligamnu djevojku redovito i stvari idu odlično, potpuno sam zadovoljan njenom situacijom i slobodom koju mi pruža. Imamo još nekoliko spojeva s drugom uskoro, a čak i bivša iz prije 20 godina razgovara sa mnom.

Ne hvalim se niti se ponosim. (Iako se smatram prilično sretnim) Ali zašto odjednom dobivam svu ovu pažnju? Je li prošlo toliko dugo otkako sam bio na spojevima da su se stvari promijenile?

Možda to ima veze s radom na sebi, sigurno. Možda je to zbog mog novog samopouzdanja. Ali se pitam što drugi ljudi misle o tome.

Je li to normalno?

We out here 😉

Mi smo ovdje 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Samo malo ispuštanja. 
Novi sam u poliamornom životu. Cijeli svoj život sam bio monogaman. Tako da sam znao da bi ljubomora mogla biti problem, ali do sada nije. Međutim, nitko me nije upozorio na potencijalnu krivnju koju bih mogao osjećati. Kao da radim nešto strašno pogrešno iako sam takoooooo sretan. Rekli su mi da počnem pisati dnevnik o svojim osjećajima krivnje kako bih pokušao otkriti što ih uzrokuje i možda preprogramirati svoj mozak, pretpostavljam haha.

Kada je krivnja jača od ljubomore.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Nisam nova u poliamoriji, moj dečko jest! Gdje su svi moji poliamorni prijatelji?! Mi smo u ATL!!

Gdje su poliamorne parove?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Jebote, nisam na ovoj aplikaciji cijeli mjesec, ali sam vidio puno, i mislim PUNO poliamornih ljudi ovdje. Ne sramim se uopće, nego sam više iznenađen koliko ste otvoreni.

Poliamor na usponu?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Zašto mnogi poliamorni muškarci dopuštaju samo drugim ženama da budu u vezi? Zar poliamorna ljubav nije za sve spolove?

Pitanje za uglavnom poliamorne muškarce, ali i žene su dobrodošle da daju svoj doprinos.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Moja najbolja prijateljica je u vezi već otprilike godinu dana. Njezin dečko joj je danas rekao da mu treba još jedna djevojka ili će se dosaditi, ali ne želi da ona viđa nekog drugog. Objasnio je da je to tipično za Poly ili ENM veze. Može li mi netko pomoći da razumijem? Jer nešto u vodi jednostavno nije vlažno ovdje po mom mišljenju.

Samo brzo pitanje.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Moja žena i ja tražimo svugdje moguće drugu ženu s kojom bismo se igrali😉 ili dodali u vezu. Ona je super uzbuđena zbog te ideje, jer je biseksualna i stvarno voli žene. Bili smo na toliko aplikacija uključujući fetlife, i jednostavno nismo imali sreće. Ako ima bilo kakvih dama koje su zainteresirane, slobodno nam se javite🖤

Poly Community

Sjeverna Karolina poli

Tražim treću

Hiiii ima li ovdje poly ljudi?

Poliamoran, u vezi i tražim značajne veze

Novi poli

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Kada oni...

Poly je lijepa

Tražim pravu djevojku, ja sam poliamoran

Jesi li prevario i iskupio se?

37 F Newcastle

Poly u Arkansasu