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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Poukisa li tèlman difisil pou jwenn lòt moun poly nan zòn mwen an?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey tout moun,  

Mwen ap chèche rankontre moun ki gen menm panse nan zòn mwen ki ta enterese nan date ak entansyon pou yon bagay ki kontinyèl ak ki gen sans.

Poly, anse ak ap chèche koneksyon ki gen sans

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Nouvo nan Poly ap eseye bagay sa a, se anvan premye fwa a. Dènyèman, sèl paske madanm mwen te pase, mwen enterese nan rankontre nouvo moun ki gen enterè ki sanble

Nouvo poly

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii èske gen nenpòt moun poly ?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Mwen nan yon relasyon distans epi mwen ap chèche yon fi ki pi pre mwen pou pase tan ak dat.

Ap chèche 3yèm

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Alo alo! Madanm mwen ak mwen se poly epi mwen ouvè pou yon lòt relasyon e mwen ap chèche yon mennaj. Mwen chwazi pèsonalite, pa aparans. Si ou enterese, voye mesaj ban mwen, si pa gen, pa yè!!

Gade

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Mari m ak mwen ap chèche yon relasyon serye ak yon fi. Enterese, voye mesaj ban mwen.

Bonjou

Looking for a female to join us

Ap chèche yon fi pou vin jwenn nou

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Anjeneral mwen se yon gason ki renmen yon sèl gason oswa yon sèl fanm. Men, mwen pa ka chwazi ant 2 yo, kidonk mwen vle eseye yon poly. Mwen ta prefere yon poly ak 2 gason, men nenpòt bagay bon, mwen jis vle yo gen anviwon laj 20 an mwayen ak jiska 30. Tanpri, dwe nan U.S. tou, kòmante si gen yon moun ki enterese ☺️

Ap chèche yon relasyon poly

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

Mantalite aktif la nan renmen ak sipòte patnè ou yo nan jwenn satisfaksyon ap fè bagay (oswa moun) yo renmen (oswa renmen). Souvan kontre pa yon bezwen pou kontwole oswa posede, ensekirite sou aksè, oswa yon krent pou pèdi. Mwen konsidere konsèp agape ki pa atache ak kijan li ka kreye yon fondasyon solid pou konpasyon. Gen kèk moun ki kolekte plis patnè pou ranpli espas ki vid yo, men èske sa ka adrese pwoblèm ki anba a ase?

Konpasyon

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey la, ap kòmanse eksplore nouvo bagay e ap chèche konekte ak yon ti fi amizan, kirye ak ouvè d'esprit pou vin ansanm avè nou nan vwayaj sa a 🤭 si ou pare pou kèk plezi ak pou nou konnen youn lòt pi byen, kontakte nou 🫠

Eseye yon bagay nouvo

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

M'ap mande si mwen menm mwen ka poly oswa non. Men, mwen te vle konnen, ki jan sa ye? Eske li posib pou mwen jwenn tèt mwen ak 2 moun? Eske nou tout trè kontan? Mwen vrèman kirye sou sijè sa a

Ban m' kèk enfòmasyon sou sa tanpri

New to Boo

Kijan ou renmen aplikasyon sa a jiskaprezan?

Nouvo nan Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Mwen te wè yon tandans deranjan kote koup ap chèche yon twazyèm moun ki dekri tèt yo kòm poly, e sa fè m' trist.
Pèsonn pa ta dwe ap chèche yon moun jetab pou ajoute pikan nan patenarya yo, sa pa polyamori.
Menm jan an, limite chwa patnè ou yo pandan ou gen libète pou tèt ou se pa poly, se jis ensekirite ak kontwòl.

Nou bezwen rele moun sa yo ki toksik ki rele tèt yo poly, paske se imaj sa a ki pase bay lòt moun, e se pou sa gen anpil malantandi sou konpasyon ak jwa pou renmen yon moun ase pou libere yo.

Chasè ak OPP

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Mwen toujou te monogam. Jamais mwen pa t' trayi, jamè mwen pa t' gade lòt bò a. Avanse nan fen dènye relasyon mwen an ak yon ane pou mwen sèl, mwen deside kòmanse plonje pye mwen tounen nan pisin nan.

Kounye a, mwen ap wè yon ti fi poly regilyèman e bagay yo ap mache trè byen, mwen totalman dakò ak sitiyasyon li ak libète li ofri mwen. Gen plis randevou ki planifye ak yon lòt byento, e menm yon ansyen patnè depi 20 ane ki ap pale avè m.

Mwen pa ap fè vante ni ap fè fyète. (Malgre mwen konsidere tèt mwen kòm yon moun ki gen chans) Men, poukisa tout dènye sa a ap rive m' toutan? Èske sa fè twò lontan depi mwen te ap date ke bagay yo chanje?

Li ka gen yon bagay pou wè ak travay sou tèt mwen, sa se sèten. Li ka gen rapò ak konfyans mwen ki nouvo. Men, mwen ap mande sa lòt moun ka panse de sa.

Donk, èske sa nòmal?

We out here 😉

Nou la 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Sèlman yon ti vent. 
Mwen nouvo nan lavi poly. Mwen te monogam tout lavi mwen. Se konsa, mwen te konnen jalouzi ka yon batay men jiskaprezan li pa ye. Sepandan, pèsonn pa te avèti mwen sou potansyèl koupab mwen ta ka santi. Tankou mwen ap fè yon bagay ki mal anpil menm si mwen trè trè kontan. Yo te di mwen pou mwen kòmanse ekri nan yon jounal sou santiman koupab mwen yo pou eseye jwenn sa ki lakòz yo e petèt rewire sèvo mwen, mwen panse haha.

Lè koupab la pi fò pase jalouzi.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Mwen pa nouvo nan poly, men zanmi mwen an se! Kote tout zanmi poly mwen yo ye?! Nou nan ATL!!

Kote koup poly yo ye?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Mwen pa t sou aplikasyon sa a yon mwa antye ankò, men mwen wè anpil, e mwen vle di ANPIL moun poly isit la. Mwen pa ap fè wont ditou, men mwen plis sezi de jan nou ouvè.

Poly sou ogmantasyon?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Poukisa anpil gason polymen sèlman pèmèt lòt fanm nan relasyon an? Eske lanmou poly pa pou tout sèks?

Kesyon pou sitou gason poly men fi yo ka kontribye tou.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Pi bon zanmi mwen an ap nan yon relasyon depi anviwon yon ane. Chèf li a di li jodi a ke li bezwen yon lòt mennaj oswa li pral anwiye, li pa vle li wè okenn lòt moun sepandan. Li eksplike sa a se tipik pou relasyon Poly oswa ENM. Eske gen yon moun ki ka ede m konprann? Paske gen yon bagay nan dlo a ki pa mouye isit la nan opinyon mwen.

Sèlman yon kesyon rapid.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Mwen ak madanm mwen ap chèche tout kote posib pou yon lòt fi pou swa jwe avèk😉 oswa ajoute nan relasyon an. Li trè eksite sou lide a, paske li se bi e li vrèman renmen fanm. Nou te sou anpil aplikasyon ki gen ladan fetlife, e nou jis pa gen okenn chans. Si gen nenpòt dam ki enterese, pa ezite kontakte nou🖤

jwenn yon 3yèm nan NC se enposib

What’s the biggest polycule you’ve been a part of?

Ki pi gwo polycule ou te fè pati a?

my bf and i are looking for a girl to vibe with, if you’re interested amos: txrichann

looking for a 3rd

mwen ak mennaj mwen ap chèche yon fi pou nou ka konekte, si ou enterese amos: txrichann

ap chèche yon 3yèm

A Boo community for meeting other Poly enthusiasts.

Poly Community

North Carolina poly

Poly, anse ak ap chèche koneksyon ki gen sans

Nouvo poly

Hiiii èske gen nenpòt moun poly ?

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Ap chèche 3yèm

Ansanm❤️ vs izole sèl

Mwen pa renmen ansyen mwen...

Eske ou te triche e ou te rache tèt ou?

M ap chèche yon vrè mennaj, mwen se poly

Ap chèche yon dezyèm jwè

Tan pou jete yon bagay nan lanati: Kisa ou panse moun yo mal konprann sou sa ki poly, espesyalman si yo jis dekouvri aspè sa a sou tèt yo?