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Why is it so hard to find other poly people in my are?

North Carolina poly

Firwat ass et esou schwéier aner poly Leit an menger Géigend ze fannen?

Im in a long distance relationship and looking for a girl closer to me to hang out with and date.

Looking for 3rd

Ech sinn an enger laanger Distanzbeziehung an sichen eng Meedchen, déi méi no bei mir ass, fir ze hänken an ze daten.

Sichen no 3.

Hiiii are here any poly people ?

Hiiii sinn hei poly Leit ?

Hey everyone,  

I’m looking to meet like minded folks in my area who would be interested in dating with the intention of something ongoing and meaningful.

Poly, nested and looking for meaningful connections

Hey jiddereen,  

Ech sinn op der Sich no Leit, déi ähnlech Gedanken hunn an déi interesséiert sinn an engem Date mat der Absicht vun eppes Dauerhaftes an Bedeitungsvollem.

Poly, verschachtelt an op der Sich no bedeitungsvolle Verbindungen

New to the Poly trying this thing, it's before the first time. Recently, single because of that wife passing, i'm interested in meeting new people with similar interests

New poly

Nei am Poly, probéieren dës Saach, et ass virun der éischter Kéier. Kuerzfristeg, eenzel wéinst der Fra déi verstuerwen ass, ech sinn interesséiert nei Leit mat ähnleche Interessen ze treffen.

Nei Poly

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Solo/poly

In the growing world of poly what’s the mistake you made but glad you learned that lesson…. Please be open minded AB’s don’t be shy no judge here

Hot take

An der wuessender Welt vum Poly, wat ass den Feeler deen dir gemaach hutt, awer sidd frou datt dir dës Lektioun geléiert hutt…. Bitte sidd oppegeet AB's, sidd net schei, hei gëtt et keen Urteel

Post a pic Atlanta addition if you not scared

Atlanta maybe

Post eng Foto Atlanta Zousaz wanns de net angscht hues

Atlanta vläicht

Howdy howdy! My wife and I are poly and i am open for another for another relationship and im looking for a girlfriend. I go personality not looks. If your interested text me if not byeee!!

Looking

Salut salut! Meng Fra an ech sinn poly an ech sinn op fir eng aner Relatioun an ech sichen eng Frëndin. Ech geet méi op Perséinlechkeet wéi op Ausgesin. Wanns de interesséiert bass, schreiw mir, wann net, bis dann!!

Sichen

Husband and I are looking for a serious relationship with a female. Interested message me.

Hello

Mäin Mann an ech sichen eng ernsthaft Relatioun mat enger Fra. Interesséiert, schéckt mir eng Noriicht.

Hallo

Looking for a female to join us

Sichen eng Fra fir bei eis ze kommen

Usually I'm a one man or woman type of guy. But I can't choose between the 2 so I wanna give a poly a try. I would prefer a 2 man poly but anything is fine just want them to be around the age of mid 20s and up to 30. Please be in the U.S. also comment if someone is interested ☺️

Looking for a poly relationship

Normalerweis sinn ech e eenzelne Mann oder Fra. Awer ech kann net tëscht de 2 wielen, also wëll ech eng poly Relatioun probéieren. Ech géif léiwer eng 2 Mann Poly, awer alles ass an der Rei, ech wëll just datt si ronderëm d'Mënschheet vun 20 Joer an up bis 30 sinn. W.e.g. sinn an den USA, kommentéiert och wann een interesséiert ass ☺️

Sicht no enger poly Relatioun

The active mindset of loving and supporting your partner(s) in finding satisfaction doing the things (or people) they love (or like). Often countered by a need to control or possess, insecurity over access, or a fear of loss. I consider the concept of non-attached agape and how it can create a strong foundation for compersion. Some folx collect more partners to fill in the gaps, but can that sufficiently address the underlying issue?

Compersion

De aktive Mindset vum Léift a Support fir dengem Partner(en) ze hëllefen, Zefriddenheet ze fannen beim maachen vun de Saachen (oder Leit) déi si léiwer hunn (oder gär hunn). Oft konteréiert duerch e Bedierfnis fir ze kontrolléieren oder ze besëtzen, Onsécherheet iwwer Zougang, oder eng Angscht virun Verloscht. Ech betruechten d'Konzept vun net-attachéiert Agape a wéi et eng staark Basis fir Compersion kann kreéieren. E puer Leit sammelen méi Partner fir d'Lücken ze fëllen, mee kann dat genuch d'grondsätzlech Probleem adresséieren?

Hey there, starting to explore new things and looking to connect with a fun, curious and open minded girl to join us on this journey 🤭 if you are down for some fun and getting to know each other better, hit us up 🫠

Trying something new

Hey, ech fänke mat neie Saachen un a sichen eng spaassig, neugierzeg an opgeschloss Meedchen fir eis op dëser Rees ze begleet 🤭 wanns de Loscht hues op e bëssen Spaass an eis besser kennenzeléieren, schreif eis un 🫠

Eppes Neies probéieren

I'm questioning if I myself might be poly or not. But I wanted to know, what is it like? Could it be possible i could find myself with 2 ppl? Are you guys extra happy? I'm really curious about this topic

Give me insight plz

Ech stellen mir d'Fro, ob ech selwer poly sinn oder net. Awer ech wollt wëssen, wéi ass et? Kënnt et méiglech sinn, datt ech mech mat 2 Persounen fannen? Sidd Dir extra glécklech? Ech sinn wierklech interesséiert an dësem Thema

Gëtt mir w.e.g. e Bléck

New to Boo

Nei bei Boo

I've been seeing a disturbing trend of couples specifically hunting for a third that describe themselves as poly, and this is saddening.
No one should be looking for a disposable person to add spice to their partnership, that's not polyamory.
Similarly, limiting your partners choices while having free reign yourself is not poly, that's just insecurity and control.

We need to call these toxic behalf calling themselves poly out, because that's the image that gets passed on to others, and why there's so much misunderstanding of compersion and the joy of loving someone enough to free them.

Hunters and OPPs

Ech hunn eng besuergend Tendenz gesin, wou Pärchen speziell no engem Drëtten sichen, déi sech als poly beschreiwen, an dat ass traureg.
Kee sollt no enger wegwerfbarer Persoun sichen, fir Spice an hir Partnerschaft ze bréngen, dat ass net Polyamorie.
Ähnlech, d'Wieler vun Äre Partner ze limitéieren, während Dir selwer fräi Hand hutt, ass net poly, dat ass just Onsécherheet a Kontroll.

Mir mussen dës toxesch Leit, déi sech poly nennen, ureegen, well dat ass d'Bild, dat un aner weidergëtt, an firwat et sou vill Missverständnisser iwwer Compersion an d'Freed ass, eppes ze léieren, fir si ze befreien.

Jäger a OPPs

I've always been monogamous. Never cheated, never glanced the other way. Fast forward to the end of my last relationship and a year of being single, I decided to start dipping my toes back into the pool.

I'm now seeing one poly girl regular and things are going great, totally fine with her situation and the freedom it offers me. More dates lined up with another soon, and even an ex from 20 years ago chatting with me.

I'm not gloating or bragging. (Though I do consider myself pretty lucky) But how come suddenly, I'm getting all this attention? Has it been so long since I've been dating that things have changed?

It could have something to do with working on myself sure. It could be with my newfound confidence. But I'm wondering what other people might make of it.

So, is this normal?

Ech war ëmmer monogam. Nie geschummt, ni an eng aner Richtung gekuckt. Schnell virun op d'Enn vun menger leschter Relatioun an e Joer als Single, hunn ech decidéiert meng Fouss an d'Waasser ze setzen.

Ech gesin elo eng poly Meedchen regelméisseg an d'Dingen lafen super, ech sinn total an der Lag mat hirer Situatioun an der Fräiheet, déi et mir bitt. Méi Dates sinn och schonn an der Rei mat enger anerer, an souguer eng Ex vun 20 Joer virun, déi mat mir schwätzt.

Ech sinn net arrogant oder prahlen. (Obwuel ech mech ganz glécklech an der Saach betrachte) Awer firwat kréien ech plëtzlech all dës Opmierksamkeet? Ass et sou laang hier, datt ech gedatet hunn, datt d'Dingen geännert hunn?

Et kéint eppes mat menger Persoun ze dinn hunn, sécher. Et kéint mat menger nei fonntem Selbstbewosstsinn ze dinn hunn. Awer ech froe mech, wat aner Leit dovun halen.

Also, ass dat normal?

We out here 😉

Mir sinn hei 😉

Just a little vent. 
I am new to the poly life. I have been monogamous my whole life. So I knew jealousy may be a struggle but so far it isn't. However no one warned me about the potential guilt I could feel. Like I'm doing something horribly wrong even though I am soooooo happy. I was told to start journaling about my guilty feelings to try and find what is causing them and maybe rewire my brain I guess haha.

When the guilt is stronger than jealousy.

Just eng kleng Vent. 
Ech sinn nei am poly Liewen. Ech sinn meng ganz Liewen monogam gewiescht. Also wousst ech, datt d'Jalousie vläicht eng Erausfuerderung kéint sinn, awer bis elo ass et net. Wéi och ëmmer, keen huet mech gewarnt iwwer d'potenziell Gëft, dat ech kéint fillen. Wéi wann ech eppes schrecklech falsch maachen, och wann ech souooooo glécklech sinn. Ech gouf gesot, ech sollt ufänken ze journaling iwwer meng schëlleg Gefiller, fir ze probéieren erauszefannen, wat se verursaacht an vläicht mengem Geescht nei ze verdrahten, ech schätzen haha.

Wann d'Gëft méi staark ass wéi d'Jalousie.

I'm not new to poly, my fella is! Where all my poly peeps at?! We are in the ATL!!

Where the poly couples at?!

Ech sinn net nei am Poly, mä mäin Typ ass! Wou sinn all meng Poly Leit?! Mir sinn an der ATL!!

Wou sinn d'poly Pärchen?!

Damn I haven’t been on this app a whole month yet but I been seeing a lot and I mean A LOT of poly folks on here. Not shaming at all but more surprised at how open y’all are.

Poly on the uptick?

Damn, ech sinn nach net eng ganz Méint op dëser App, awer ech hunn vill gesin, an ech mengen A LOT vu poly Leit hei. Ech schämen net, awer ech sinn méi iwwerrascht wéi opgemaach dir sidd.

Poly op der Erhéijung?

Why do a lot of polymen only allow other women in the relationship? Isn't poly love for all genders?

Question for mainly poly males but females are welcome to input.

Firwat erlaaben vill Polymänner nëmmen anerer Fraen an der Relatioun? Ass poly Léift net fir all Geschlechter?

Fro fir haaptsächlech poly Männer, awer Frae sinn och wëllkomm fir hir Meenung.

My very best friend has been in a relationship for about a year. Her boyfriend told her today that he needs another girlfriend or he will get bored, he doesn't want her to see anyone else though. He explained this is typical for Poly or ENM relationships. Can someone help me understand? Because something in the water just isn't wet here in my opinion.

Just a quick question.

Mengem beschte Frëndin ass et schonn eng Joer an enger Relatioun. Hiren Frënd huet hir haut gesot, datt hien eng aner Frëndin brauch oder hien wäert langweileg ginn, hien wëll awer net, datt si nach een aneren gesäit. Hien huet erkläert, datt dat typesch fir Poly- oder ENM-Relatioune wier. Kann een mir hëllefen, dat ze verstoen? Well eppes am Waasser ass einfach net nass hei, menger Meenung no.

Just eng schnell Fro.

Me and my wife have been searching everywhere possible for another female to either play with😉 or add to the relationship. She's super excited of the idea, being she is bi and really loves women. We have been on so many apps including fetlife, and just haven't had any luck.  If there are any ladies interested feel free to hit us up🖤

finding a 3rd in NC is impossible

Ech an meng Fra sinn iwwerall no enger anerer Fra gesicht, fir entweder ze spillen😉 oder an d'Beziehung ze addéieren. Si ass super opgereegt iwwer d'Iddi, well si bisexuell ass an wierklech Frae gär huet. Mir sinn op sou vill Apps gewiescht, dorënner fetlife, an hunn einfach keng Gléck hat. Wann et Frae ginn, déi interesséiert sinn, fillt Iech fräi eis ze kontaktéieren🖤

Poly Community

North Carolina poly

Sichen no 3.

Hiiii sinn hei poly Leit ?

Poly, verschachtelt an op der Sich no bedeitungsvolle Verbindungen

Nei Poly

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Sicht no enger richteger Frëndin, ech sinn poly

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Poly ass schéin

Hues de betrügt an dech selwer erléisst?

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Poly an Arkansas